Amy Roloff Reportedly Claims in a New Book That Matt 'Betrayed' Her before They Broke up

In her new book, Amy Roloff accuses her ex-husband Matt Roloff of having an affair before their relationship ended and called him “strong” and “domineering.”

Amy Roloff spills the tea about her failed marriage with Matt Roloff in her new memoir, “A Little Me.” The “Little People Big World” star revealed how her husband disregarded how she felt and was sometimes behind her low self-esteem.


Roloff recalls how she felt “less than” around Matt, although she remains unsure if Matt’s “lack of compassion” and “businesslike attitude” was something he did purposely or unknowingly. 

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My book ‘A Little Me’ Is out for you to read and enjoy. Have you gotten or ordered your copy yet? Order it on Amazon ( Barnes and Noble or here with more info at I still can’t believe it. As I touch and hold the book and think about the stories and life I relayed in it, I’m a little overwhelmed. The vulnerability I shared and what kept plaguing me repeatedly throughout my life like lots of ping pong positive then negative thinking, shedding a little of the strong guard I put on the outside, the impact of a not so positive body and beauty image I had in my life and so much more... I hope others will hear the message and keep believing that no matter what challenges you are facing, whatever life throws at you - good and bad, successes or failures- you still matter, have value and a purpose and you’re not alone. You have the Joy within you no matter what is going on in life, you just need to find it. We need to believe in ourselves bf we can expect others too. ‘A Little Me’ IS OUT NOW! Get it today. #amyroloffbook #summerreadinglist #alittlemebook #mattervaluepurpose #believeinyou #dreamsgoalsaction #thankful #grateful

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“His words stayed in my mind and played with my emotions, and I sometimes became intimidated by Matt with his strong and domineering personality,” she wrote. “I just didn’t get the support and encouragement.”

Her voice remained small when it came to running their family business, often getting shut down when new ideas came to mind. Matt’s controlling attitude drove him to have no trust in others, including the filming crew as the production of their show was more important than the family, as what he showed.

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So glad I got to come home and visit w/ my Mom and Dad. Waiting to hear if she gets to come home today. She’s ready and tired of hospital food, that’s a good sign 😊.Her heart is weak though and she gets tired easily but her mind is sharp. The transition of slowing down and not doing all she’d like to do will be hard. Just need to appreciate the moments, what she can do and the days that are left. Thank you to everyone that so thoughtfully thought of me and my parents and for all your prayers. So kind and I so appreciate it. ❤️. I love this place, their house and the lake and coming back while it’s still here. #seasonsoflife #allaboutfamily #lovemyfamily #michiganisalwayshome #amyroloffssecondact #pacificnorthwestishomenow

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The “Little People Big World” patriarch took to Instagram to explain and clarify the “future of the farm” after different assumptions turned into rumors.


The Roloff matriarch also suggested that Matt and Caryn Chandler, a former business employee, had an affair even before their marriage came to an end. As what the media showed, Matt only started dating Chandler after the split.

“I saw messages, pictures, and other things that should not have been shared between people who just worked together and were still married to other people,” she wrote. “I was devastated.”


While Matt is yet to address the allegations, he recently spoke about the rumors of Roloff buying out his farm. The “Little People Big World” patriarch took to Instagram to explain and clarify the “future of the farm” after different assumptions turned into rumors.

Roloff will occupy her house on the farm and will still have a 50 percent ownership in the estate until the day she decides otherwise; only then will the former couple be working together to sell her side of the farm.

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Clarification! The Future of the farm! Sometimes people get so far astray of the truth we have to write direct messages to correct all the assumptions. We are getting quite a number of inquiries asking if we are still open for Pumpkin Season this fall. Answer is yes ... pumpkin seeds went into the ground 3 days ago. :)). I don’t think people understand the buyout option... let me explain.. despite what you see on TV ... I have chosen to buy (and Amy has chosen to sell) me only one side of the farm At this time.. Not the original farmstead ... not the side with the pumpkin patch or her house.. for now she is only selling me her partial share of ownership in the side (DW) that I live on. She will remain in her house (and on the farm) and 1/2 owner of our original farm until she decides to leave... At that time we will jointly work to sell the side she lives on together. This may happen in the future but it’s not happening yet! The only change (for now) is that I will take title to the DW and can decide to remodel it to be more accessible with a lower kitchen or walk-in shower like my home in Arizona. The future may be different ...but Now is Now ...and this is where we are at this moment in time.... Maybe one of the kids will eventually buy it?? Who knows?

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As for the famous Pumpkin Season, Matt assured fans and visitors that the farm will still be open for the anticipated event which usually happens throughout October. 

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