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Wife Wakes up in the Morning & Sees Another Woman Sleeping with Her Husband in Their Son’s Bed

Salwa Nadeem
Aug 04, 2023
12:30 P.M.

It was a regular day for a mother-of-one when she woke up one night and caught her husband sleeping with another woman in their son's bed. Upon confrontation, the woman learns things that make her realize she should have listened to her gut feeling.

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A 35-year-old woman opened up on Reddit about an incident she wanted to forget. Before revealing what happened, the woman shared that she tied the knot with her husband five years after dating him.

The couple had been married for 11 years when the woman caught him cheating. She revealed that things weren't the best during the two years before the incident, but she never thought the man could break her trust.

A man and woman in bed | Source: Shutterstock

A man and woman in bed | Source: Shutterstock

The woman with the username "Hathnofuryca," posted in the "relationships" forum on Reddit to ask other people for advice. After revealing the details of the incident, she asked others what her next step should be.

What Happened before She Caught Her Husband with Another Woman?

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The woman was the sole breadwinner of her family because her husband couldn't work due to his health condition. He would drop their son to school and look after him while the woman was at work.

Everything was going as planned until the man told her about one of his high school friends on Facebook. He said she was diagnosed with a terminal illness.

A few days later, he wanted to visit her with a friend. At first, the woman didn't want him to go because it was a Sunday night, and he had to drop their son at school the following day. However, she allowed him to go because she felt terrible for the other girl, and the man promised he would bring their son to school no matter what.

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A person holding a phone | Source: Shutterstock

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After visiting his friend, the man took an Uber and reached home at 4 a.m. Nothing seemed fishy to the woman until she saw a $36 charge on her card from Uber. The details showed that the ride started from a spot near their place and ended at a destination located an hour away.

"He swears he had no idea what happened," the woman recalled her husband saying when she asked him about it, so she ignored what happened and focused on her routine.

The couple was soon moving out of state, so the woman had a lot to look forward to. At that point, she noticed her husband was spending too much time talking to the same friend on his phone. She admitted, "I'm worried what that [will] do to him when we move. If she gets worse."

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Soon, her husband told her that his friend was looking for temporary accommodation and asked her if she could live with them. The woman initially refused, but she also gave in. She welcomed the woman into her house. She had a soft spot for her because of her health condition. However, the next night, she woke up to something unexpected.

How Did the Woman React to Her Husband's Infidelity?

When the woman left her bedroom, she saw an empty mattress in the living room but didn't find her husband there. Curious, she entered her son's bedroom and saw her husband sleeping with the other woman on the bed.

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A woman looking at a couple in bed | Source: Shutterstock

Shocked, the woman woke her husband up. When she asked him why he was sleeping with his friend, he said she was feeling scared after watching a horror movie. "I didn't believe him. I told him she needed to leave," the Redditor recalled.

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After seeing her husband in bed with his friend, the woman suspected they were having an "inappropriate relationship," but the man denied it. However, when the woman confronted him later that night, he admitted he had kissed her. Feeling betrayed, the woman asked him to give her his phone because she wanted to read his messages. She recounted:

"Well, text messages were relatively clean. Not so with Facebook."

Upon reading their conversation on Facebook, the woman learned that her husband had lied to her. He had snuck the other woman into their house before while his wife and son were asleep, which marked their first secret meeting among many others.

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A woman shouting while sitting behind a man | Source: Shutterstock

The Redditor revealed that her husband invited the other woman when their son was at school or sometimes when their son was watching cartoons. He also invited her when the Redditor and her son were sleeping.

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"I can't believe the nerve, the betrayal. He thought he could get away with it," the woman wrote in her Reddit post. Thinking about her husband's infidelity made her feel sick to the core that she discarded the bedding used by the other woman. She confessed:

"My instincts all told me, but I didn't listen. Now I'm paying the price."

Meanwhile, her husband justified his actions, saying he did it because he wanted affection, but she didn't believe what he said. Instead, their relationship went downhill to the extent that the woman thought about leaving him.

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A woman comforting a crying child | Source: Shutterstock

What worried her was her son's reaction to not having his father around and their lease agreement for the new house. She revealed she couldn't afford the home without her husband.

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At the end of her post, she asked other Redditors for advice on her relationship. Many people shared their opinions in the comments section, and some told the woman to leave her husband.

"Why would you even consider staying longer with him?" One Redditor asked. "He clearly has no respect for you or his son. Seriously, just kick him out or leave yourself with your son."

A user's comment on Hathnofuryca's Reddit post | Source: reddit.com/Hathnofuryca

A user's comment on Hathnofuryca's Reddit post | Source: reddit.com/Hathnofuryca

User comments on Hathnofuryca's Reddit post | Source: reddit.com/Hathnofuryca

User comments on Hathnofuryca's Reddit post | Source: reddit.com/Hathnofuryca

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Another Reddit user said, "I think you need to reach out to family and friends for support and figure something else out. I don't know how you'd be able to trust him again. I wouldn't even trust him with your son anymore."

A user's comment on Hathnofuryca's Reddit post | Source: reddit.com/Hathnofuryca

A user's comment on Hathnofuryca's Reddit post | Source: reddit.com/Hathnofuryca

What do you think the woman should do? Would you advise her to leave her husband and move out with her son? Share your thoughts in the comments section. We'd love to know what you think.

Click here to read another story about a woman who checked her live camera feed and caught her boyfriend cheating on her with another woman.

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