Kate Gosselin Shows off New Boyfriend on Instagram 16 Years After Divorce from Jon

Kate Gosselin's latest post introduced her partner to her followers, reviving long-standing rumors, reigniting fan debate, and casting fresh light on claims her ex-husband and son made weeks earlier.

After more than a decade and a half of guarding her private life, Kate Gosselin finally pulled back the curtain. On November 8, 2025, the "Jon & Kate Plus 8" star sent fans reeling after she posted an Instagram Reel that couldn't be ignored.

The video, titled "10 Things I'm OBSESSED With," opened with Kate grinning at the camera. She then began listing her favorite things, placing her eight children at the top. But it was number two that stopped viewers in their tracks.

With a beaming smile, Kate flashed two snapshots of herself and a man standing together in swimsuits and life vests at a beachside resort. Overlaying the images was the text "my boyfriend😍." The clip was captioned, "One girl. 10 obsessions."

Her list included more personal loves — her dogs, travel, pizza, and health — but all eyes locked onto the mystery man by her side. Though Kate didn't name him, many followers instantly recognized him as Steve Neild, the former bodyguard who once shadowed her family.

'Jon Was Right All Along': Fans Explode over Reveal

Within hours, the post drew hundreds of reactions, reviving decade-old whispers and casting suspicion on her past. One stunned Instagram follower commented, "Jon was right all along." Another wrote, "Surprise Suprise [sic] 😮." A third added, "Damn, wow; and there were rumors of them years ago, probably was true."

On Facebook, the speculation grew bolder. "I think that was the guy Jon stated was the true cause of their break-up, and that it was portrayed that he strayed, but by then they were already on the outs and her affair was known," one person commented. Another wrote, "He has my deepest sympathy." One questioned, "What in the world did she need a bodyguard for?"

'We All Knew': Online Sleuths Say the Clues Were There

Some commenters claimed they were never fooled. "lol we all knew you were with Steve… his poor wife [sic]," one follower posted. Another asked directly, "Steve?? Is that the same Steve that was her bodyguard?" But not everyone was critical — one fan wrote, "so happy you 2 are together."

According to sources, Kate and Steve — both now 50 — have reportedly been romantically involved for about a year and currently live together. The relationship appears serious, with insiders telling Page Six that the couple has even discussed marriage. One source said, "There's no doubt that Kate is crazy about him … things are serious."

From Bodyguard to Boyfriend: Inside a Long-Running Association

Kate and Steve's connection stretches back to 2008, when he began working as the Gosselins' bodyguard — just one year before her marriage to Jon Gosselin began to unravel. At the time, Steve was still married, and rumors of a secret affair with Kate spread quickly.

She fiercely denied the allegations in 2009. Speaking to People magazine, Kate blasted the claims as "disgusting," "unthinkable," and "unfathomable." She also expressed fear that the tabloid frenzy might drive away the few friends she had left — including her security team.

A Tumultuous Divorce and Eight Children Caught in the Middle

Kate and Jon officially split in 2009 after ten years of marriage. They share eight children: 25-year-old twins, Mady and Cara, and 21-year-old sextuplets, Aaden, Alexis, Leah, Joel, Hannah, and Collin. At the time of their separation, both released public statements.

Kate claimed, "Over the course of this weekend, Jon's activities have left me no choice but to file legal procedures," while Jon responded, "Kate filed for divorce… My job is being the best, most supportive, and loving father that I can be to my kids."

More than 16 years later, whispers of Kate and Steve's relationship returned to the headlines. In September 2025, Page Six again reported the pair had been dating for over a year and were living together. The outlet's source confirmed the romance was serious and revealed the couple even had "wedding plans."

'Guess Who Really Ruined the Marriage': Jon and Collin Speak Out

Just days after the report, Jon broke his silence. On September 24, he posted a screenshot of the article on Instagram with the caption, "Guess who really ruined the marriage." He followed it up on Instagram Stories, writing, "I told you all" and "No one believed me — guess I was right!!!"

Their son Collin also stepped forward, airing personal and painful details in a post of his own. "What really upsets me is that my mom had an affair with our bodyguard way back in 2009, and for years would share hotel rooms with him while we went on family vacations, while I was in a connected room," he wrote.

Collin continued, "My dad received death threats and got shunned by the public for years for 'having an affair' and 'leaving his kids.' I hope she doesn't try to play this one off. Just come forward and be truthful."

He ended with a heartbreaking declaration, "We have suffered the damage of a narcissist and cried together… I love you, dad," punctuated by a broken-heart emoji.

Despite the growing controversy, Kate has not made any public statement. She has not addressed Jon's accusations or responded to Collin's emotional message.