Here’s what AmoMama’s followers advised a heartbroken woman who got cheated on

Manuela Cardiga
Aug 10, 2018
06:25 A.M.

A woman in desperate need of advice reached out, and Facebook answered.


Every day AmoMama receives dozens of stories from subscribers. From women who feel overwhelmed by the circumstances of their lives, isolated and helpless, or from women who want to share their happy experiences with others.

More often than not, these stories are a cry for help and understanding. This particular story touched the hearts of tens of thousands and prompted them to post hundreds of comments letting this AmoMama reader know that she is not alone.

You can read this woman's story here.

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Source: AmoMama


Like so many women, our subscriber finds herself in a 23-year-old marriage with two children and an indifferent husband.

One day she returned home unexpectedly and found her housekeeper on her knees, performing an intimate act on her husband. She fled and simply did not speak of it, but her husband started sleeping with the woman under her roof. After two years he is now so brazen that he touches the housekeeper in front of their children.

This woman, finding herself driven to the edge, begged her fellow AmoMama subscribers to advise her. Should she divorce this man, or take his behavior as part of what women put up with to maintain a marriage?


[Names and photos of our followers are redacted for privacy]

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Source: AmoMama

What did our readers say?


The advice and the answers to our subscriber's tale varied. Some advocated for instant action, others counseled patience.

While some were sympathetic to her dilemma, others extolled her to show self-respect and act to protect herself and the children.

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Source: AmoMama


Some readers expressed anger, and some even lashed out at her, telling her she was disrespecting her children by allowing them to witness her humiliation.

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Source: AmoMama


Others pointed out that her very first statement had been about how unhappy her marriage was, and a separation would be the healthiest course for the family.

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Source: AmoMama


Many wisely advised her to gather evidence of his infidelity, get a lawyer and take back control of her life, rebuild her self-esteem, and teach her young son that this is not how a good man treats his wife.

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Source: AmoMama


The AmoMama team and their fellow subscribers wish this woman courage and luck in dealing with her problems and hope that the hundreds of encouraging and sensible voices that answered her plea will have been of help.

You can read more here.

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