'My daughter is only two and I’m already tired of being a mom'

Dear Celebritist,

I know this may sound terrible but, I’m tired of my kid, and she’s only two-years-old. I wasn’t planning on becoming a mom at such a young age. I wanted to enjoy life, graduate, get the dream job, maybe travel around the world and then get to know a nice guy, get married and have kids…in that order.

I took a break after high school to enjoy my youth, so I was 24 and still halfway to get my college degree when I got pregnant. I was okay with it even though it messes with my plans; I’m mature enough to accept that I made my bed and I had to lie in it.

Credit: Pixabay

Credit: Pixabay

My kid’s father was not the man I expected, he didn’t want to take responsibility, so I left him, and I’m raising my daughter by myself while rebuilding my life as a single mom. However, I had to move in with my mom because I didn’t have the means to maintain us all alone. We’ve been here for a year now.

My girl will be turning three in February next year, and I have to confess there are times when I hide from her because she gets handsy, always wanting to climb on my lap and clawing at me. I know she wants my attention as every kid does with their mom, but sometimes I feel like I’ve become just a “mom,” like my mind and body don’t belong to me and everything I do, or think, is with her in mind.

Credit: Pixabay

Credit: Pixabay

I’ve lost sight of what is like to live without being a mom. My daughter will start yelling and hit me so she can get a reaction out of me when I snap she laughs, and it makes me feel like I’m doing a terrible job as a mom. Then I start crying because the stress of trying to finish college while being an unemployed mom is getting on my nerves.

I really don’t have emotional support. My mother only offers me a roof, which I’m grateful for, but she’s not really a comforting individual. I’m just so tired. I haven’t had a day all by myself in almost three years.

Credit: Shutterstock

Credit: Shutterstock

I’m tired of waking up every morning to the same routine, of driving to school, of scolding and cleaning after her. My daughter is high maintenance and highly sensitive, I know it doesn’t sound like it, but I’ll give it all for her. I love her, and I’m happy to have her, but these days I think I’m losing myself and I don’t really know what to do to fix this.

I could use some words of advice from you guys.

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