Here's How Patty Duke's Son Sean Astin Learned Who His Biological Father Is
Patty Duke’s complicated love life caught up with her when her son, Sean Astin, took a DNA test to find out who his biological father really was.
Sean Astin has been acting since the ‘80s which was no surprise growing up with his famous parents Patty Duke and John Astin. But Sean made headlines from the day he was born thanks to his mother’s colorful past.
Three men and a baby
Duke had been in a relationship with Desi Arnaz Jr., which was wildly opposed by Arnaz Jr.’s mother, Lucille Ball. After Patty and Desi broke up, she impulsively tied the knot with Michael Tell. That marriage was annulled just as quickly as it began. But somewhere in between, she managed to have an affair with John Astin, who was married at that time. She eventually married John when he finalized his divorce.
The Paternity Test
Sean grew up basking in the love of his father, John Astin. But rumors about the unestablished identity of his father prompted Patty to tell Sean when he turned fourteen, that she believed Arnaz to be his biological father. Sean took his mother’s truth and began working on a relationship with Desi Arnaz Jr.
But around the time Sean was in his twenties, he met a relative of Michael Tell who mentioned they might be related. Sean instinctively took a DNA paternity test which included the three men in his life, Arnaz, Astin, and Tell.
And despite his mother’s protest and denial, the test proved that Michael Tell was Sean’s true biological dad.
A Father’s Love
John Astin calls the special relationship he has with Sean a “spiritual connection” and says,
“The greatest treasures are the treasures of the heart and Sean is a treasure. We’re very close, we have a good time together.”
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Lighthearted Father-Son moment while filming The Goonies in Astoria, OR 1984. Dang, my old man looks good in this pic. Thanks to whoever it was that posted it. For those scratching your heads, yes that's John Astin, "Gomez" from The Addams Family!!!! Now he teaches Drama at Johns Hopkins, but then, he was nice enough to take time away from coaching my little league team to also coach me for my audition scenes to play Mikey. Thanks Dad. Nurture all the live long day...
And Sean feels the same way about John who he regards as his father, even after he fostered good relationships with Arnaz and Tell.
Patty Duke's Legacy
Patty Duke passed away in 2016 from sepsis, but the troubled life she led was later understood after being diagnosed with bipolar disorder in 1982.
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Thank you everyone. We are all settling back into family, work (too much travel-oy!) and a commitment to smile, laugh and dance as we go. Our effort to create a Foundation honoring my Mom's mental health advocacy continues in earnest. InMemoryofPattyDuke.com If your life has been touched in any way by Mental Illness, I ask you to make a small contribution. SO, I believe I am 14 years old in this picture with my Mom. She was visiting me on the set of White Water Summer (1st Kevin Bacon Rafting Film - the one without Meryl Streep). She had come directly from Fort Benning, Georgia where she met the man who would become my stepdad, Sgt. Michael Ray Pearce. She played the 1st female helicopter pilot in the army and he showed her around the post (quite thoroughly it would seem). You can see the bliss on her face, I believe this may have been the happiest time in her life. She finally had the kind of partner who would nurture her in just the right way as she continued her lifelong battle with manic depression. In many ways, this was the greatest liberation I ever experienced. We had shared a lot of pain and drama. She and I both knew that our dynamic would change now. I felt so important, that she would rush from her film set to mine, to share that she had found her man. I was elated for her, as one can plainly see. Often kids of bi-polar sufferers feel the need to sort of "parent" their parents. I'm going to be careful about pop psychology, but that is absolutely how I felt. That all changed around the moment of this pic. Free at last. If this piece of our story means anything to you, please make a small donation to the Foundation that we are establishing in her honor, to continue the extraordinary mental health advocacy to which she dedicated a large part of her life. InMemoryofPattyDuke.com Much Love and Respect Always, Yours, Sean
Duke pushed for the discussion of mental health and illness at a time when it was still a taboo topic. She wrote her autobiography “Call Me Anna: The Autobiography of Patty Duke” which detailed her experiences and battles with her own illness. It was followed up with a second autobiography called “A Brilliant Madness: Living with Manic Depressive Illness.”
Happy Birthday Mom!!!!!— Sean Astin (@SeanAstin) December 15, 2015
WE LOVE YOU
December 14, 1946
After many failed relationships and marriages, Duke found a lasting love that stayed with her until her death, with Sgt. Michael Pearce. Her son Sean shared this about their union saying,
“The true story of her life isn’t her work, and it isn’t her advocacy, it’s the love relationship she’s had with her husband Mike for the last 30 years. He was a drill sergeant in the Army when they met, and he became her 30-year project, and she finally in her life had a protector.”
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Today my Mom would have turned 71 years old. My favorite tradition was getting a Christmas Tree on her birthday. Some of the vehicles we used to transport them...not good. Millions of people love my Mom. I count myself among them. WE LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU NANA. HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!