Man Roasted for Telling His Girlfriend He's 'Uncomfortable' around Her Children
A concerned individual recently got trolled after he shares his story about his girlfriend's reaction towards him because of the way he feels about her kids.
In the art of love, both parties make compromises; that is why people often say that love is blind. In the course of commitments, the persons involved bend over backward or are blinded by the other's faults.
The recently dumped lover started by explaining how he and his ex began dating. He said that initially, they connected after meeting at their workplace where they both got sacked from at about the same time.
After a while, his girlfriend moved on with life to another state, and she got hooked on to another man whom she delivered a set of twins for.
She returned to him six years later, and they hit up from where they stopped.
"So I met her kids and they were cool and weren't scared of me or anything and were running up to me wanting to play and stuff, but I just wasn't feeling it. I don't know how to explain this feeling, but I just wanted to get away from these kids," he wrote.
THE SAVAGE COMMENTS
After updating his story on the website, the lover got trolled for the change in decision. Some comments hinted that he should not have committed to her until he had met her kids and was comfortable with them being around.
Another comment explained that the poster was just a "clueless" man who was not familiar with having a child.
The poster got bashed for "rejecting" his lover's kids, and most votes on the sites tagged him as a bad person.
ANOTHER STORY OF A MAN WHO ACCEPTED THE BAGGAGE
Recently a man whose beau recently ended the relationship posted about his experience with her. He stated that he wanted to know what others thoughts are about his change in decision towards his girlfriend's children.
Accepting to have the kids as a part of their lives was a big decision he considered making due to the love he had for their mother.
However, after he met one on one with the children, the striking resemblance they share with their father became a turnoff for him.
The lover confronted his beau with the whole situation, but she flipped and said a host of things, and at the same time, ended the relationship.
Sometimes it is not just individuals with broken relationships who consult the Reddit website. Another post addresses a man whose relationship with his girlfriend is on the brink of crashing.
The affected poster explained that he had his daughter in an earlier relationship, and being with his new lover meant he had to accept her kids and her, his.
However, a few years into their relationship, his lover constantly clamor that he treats his daughter better than his stepkids.
The bottom line is that love allows for compromises, but lovers have to make the best decisions suitable for both parties!