logo
Shutterstock.com
Shutterstock.com

Woman Tells Her Siblings They'll Stop Loving Their Kids Someday

Rebelander Basilan
Jun 13, 2020
10:30 P.M.

A 36-year-old woman got angry after her family questioned her life choices. They called her selfish after telling them that she does not want to be a mother and have kids.

Advertisement

The Reddit user shared that her parents and siblings with families now would give her unsolicited opinions. No matter how hard she defends the choices she is making, her family continues to pressure her about marrying and having her own family.

"I like being able to travel, spend my money on myself, my pets, and charities I support and I don't want to ruin my sex life," she wrote.

Woman holding her head. | Photo: Pexels

Woman holding her head. | Photo: Pexels

She added that her siblings and parents treat her like she is the most selfish person who ever lived just because she does not want to experience motherhood.

Despite being shamed about her decisions, the Reddit user said she would still help her siblings financially and would not even ask for anything in return.

Advertisement

Tired of her family's unsolicited opinions, there was a point where she didn't speak nor visited them for nearly a year.

Woman sitting beside the table while using a laptop. | Photo: Pexels

Woman sitting beside the table while using a laptop. | Photo: Pexels

One day, her 34-year old sister called and invited her to her daughter's 3rd birthday. The Reddit user felt anxious about the occasion, but her sister assured her their parents would not question her personal life.

The party went well at first until her mother said, "If only you'd give motherhood a chance." To her surprise, her sister backed up her mother's opinion, saying that having children will change her mind.

Some fellow Reddit users supported the woman's life decision, commenting that she does not need any unsolicited opinions from family.

Advertisement
Woman in pastel color sleeveless shirt and sunhat. | Photo: Pexels

Woman in pastel color sleeveless shirt and sunhat. | Photo: Pexels

She got angry and explained that a lot of people think they wanted children but would later regret having one. She added that many parents would stop loving their children someday and even resent them for draining their resources.

She left without a word but received angry calls and text from her family and relatives the next day. They demanded that she apologize, but she stood her ground as she found them to be hypocrites.

Two women and a man talking. | Photo: Pexels

Two women and a man talking. | Photo: Pexels

Advertisement

Some fellow Reddit users supported the woman's life decision, commenting that she does not need any unsolicited opinions from family.

One wrote that her family was out of line and that she only responded proportionally. Another one said that her family should be the ones to apologize to her. She was only telling the truth about some parents regretting having children, added the commenter.

Woman wearing a brown shirt inside the room. | Photo: Pexels

Woman wearing a brown shirt inside the room. | Photo: Pexels

Opposite to the woman's life choices, singer and beauty mogul Rihanna has revealed that she wanted the idea of becoming a mother to three to four children, and not necessarily with a husband. The singer said she liked the idea of being a single mother.

Advertisement
info
Please fill in your e-mail so we can share with you our top stories!
By subscribing, you agree to our Privacy Policy
Advertisement
Related posts

Rich Old Man Left Nearly $4.2M Estate – His Last Wish States Not All His Children May Inherit It

November 10, 2023

3 Dramatic Stories Where Parents Were Betrayed by Their Children

March 01, 2024

I Threw the Nephew I Literally Raised Out of My House and Told Him Not to Come Back

February 20, 2024

I Threw the Nephew I Literally Raised Out of My House and Told Him Not to Come Back

February 06, 2024

My Boyfriend 'Forgets' His Credit Card Every Time We Go Out To Eat, So I Have To Pay For Everyone

February 26, 2024

My Boyfriend 'Forgets' His Credit Card Every Time We Go Out To Eat, So I Have To Pay For Everyone

January 31, 2024

Dad Refuses to Pay For Daughter’s Wedding after She Excludes Her 2 Siblings from the Occasion

January 31, 2024

4 True Stories of Adults Having Conflict with Their Parents

February 26, 2024

My Mother-in-Law Demanded I Cover Entire Bill Because I Ordered a Large Steak at the Restaurant

November 16, 2023

4 Real-Life Stories about Dads Who Refused to Pay for Their Kids' Weddings

February 15, 2024

My Teen Daughter Destroyed Her Stepsister’s Birthday Dress — I Made Her Get Work To Pay Back $3000 For It

November 07, 2023

My Daughter-in-Law Told Me Not to Buy a Gift for My Son on Christmas, Then Asked Me ‘Where’s Patrick’s Present?'

November 16, 2023

Greedy Dad Wants His Daughter to Inherit His Wife's Family Necklace Intended for His Stepdaughter

December 01, 2023

My In-Laws Treat Me like a Maid & Made Me Cook for Them While I Was Sick — I Took It up with My Husband

February 29, 2024