Vince Carter Announces NBA Retirement — Meet His Beautiful Ex-wife Ellen Rucker
Former NBA player Vincent Carter's ex-wife Ellen Rucker is a devoted mother of 3, and a successful businesswoman with her own hair-care line.
Basketball player Vincent Carter's first wife, and mother of his oldest child, Ellen Rucker, moved on from their divorce, is happily remarried and the mother to fraternal twins and Stokely and Sadie.
But since her divorce, Rucker's life has gone through some upheavals and the mother of three has faced some daunting challenges.
Rucker has become a vocal advocate for black women, revealing that the death rate for mothers in the African American community is 4 times that of white women
DIVORCE FROM VINCENT CARTER
Rucker married Carter, her college sweetheart, in 2004, but after two brief years, the couple divorced. The couple had welcomed their only child together, Kai Michelle Carter in 2005. Carter's mother Michelle Carter-Scott revealed:
“Things went south pretty fast. Or, maybe things were going south all along and we refused to see it."
Rucker, a successful chiropractor, took up the pieces of her life after the divorce and focused on raising her tiny daughter., Kai.
A NEW LIFE
Rucker concentrated on building her practice as a chiropractor and starred in a reality show with her sisters, Ruby and Ione Rucker, "Love Thy Sister." The three sisters eventually created their own hair-care line, Rucker Roots, based on home-made recipes their mother would concoct for them in her kitchen.
A NEW LOVE
Then, Rucker met the man who would become her husband, attorney, CNN commentator and former politician Bakari Sellers, and the two tied the knot in 2015. The couple had met at a wedding in Cancun, just two years after her divorce, and were immediately smitten. But their romance was affected by Ricker's past. She revealed:
"I had a major fear of marriage but I also knew that I did not want to lose Bakari. So, after 7 years of dating and a year and a half engagement, Bakari and I married."
GROWING THEIR FAMILY
The couple wanted to have more children and grow their family, and after trying for 3 years, Rucker still wasn't pregnant. She revealed:
"Frustration slowly set in as I saw other friends getting pregnant and having babies. This was not supposed to be me. Not supposed to be us."
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I can’t wait to meet you 👶🏽👶🏽. I absolutely love how you both respond to my belly rubs, to your daddy’s voice, and to Kai’s music that she plays while we are riding. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ 🙏🏾I thank God for my two little blessings everyday! And, for the wonderful family he has graced me with... I am certain you both will fill our home with so much joy and we have so much love to give! ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Photography: @arielperry Makeup: @nasheikaaa Hair: Styled using @RuckerRoots
The next step was to consult specialists, and eventually, Rucker and Sellers opted for IVF to conceive their longed-for child. Rucker confessed:
"I did IVF to conceive my twins. I didn’t know that I was going to have twins. I did IVF because we were, Bakari and I had been trying to get pregnant for like three years, and we weren’t getting pregnant."
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Bump Update! 🙏🏾👶🏽👶🏽🙏🏾 Today was my 30 Week ultrasound of our babies! We are busting through our milestones!!! Thank you God! 🙌🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾 -I feel so blessed that our twins are doing amazingly well! They are both 3+ lbs and are right on schedule in growth! -We received 3D pics of our son today (right pic) and our daughter about 4 weeks ago (left pic). -They do not ever cooperate at the same time! These are 3D shots that my specialist does in the office so the coloring is not perfect and our son’s foot and hand was in the way today... so these are the best we could get 🤷🏽♀️ Oh, but what a sweet little peek of our babies👶🏽👶🏽! - -Who do y’all think they look like? 🙋🏽♀️ -Want to know their names? I share their names on my new blog post...link in bio!
IVF was a challenge, but the results were a pregnancy, twins. All seemed to be going well, but Rucker's doctor detected a fibroid growing in her uterus along with the babies. Fibroids are usually non-cancerous, but Rucker's soon reached the size of a peach, something the doctors discovered when they delivered the twins by C-section on January 7th, 2019.
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Happy Father’s Day @bakarisellers Thank you for being The Best Father to our children. You are there for each one of them in different ways... talking with @_kaicarter about her social issues and giving great advice that only you can give. Loving on Stokely and having your “Shirts Off Gang” father and son moments. Being there for Sadie during every doctor’s appointment and kissing her every second you get. This year has been a true test of your strength & I am so thankful to have you by my side to raise our babies. I love you endlessly! I hope you enjoy your day! #Intentional #Blessed #fathersday2019
HER LIFE ON THE LINE
All seemed to be well, the babies, Stokely and Sadie, and Rucker seemed to be recovering, but at 11 pm that same night, she fell unconscious while breastfeeding her children. She was rushed back into surgery where it was discovered that the fibroid was causing a hemorrhage that could have cost Rucker her life. Fortunately, her doctors stopped the hemorrhage and saved her life, and removed the fibroid.
ADVOCATING FOR BLACK MOTHERS
Since then, Rucker has become a vocal advocate for black women, revealing that the death rate for mothers in the African American community is 4 times that of white women. She revealed:
"Our healthcare system in the United States has a bias that makes black women most vulnerable. We must have advocates on all ends when going through childbirth.”
But the family's health challenges were far from over. Little Sadie had been born with a liver condition called biliary atresia that made a transplant imperative. In September 2019, Sadie underwent a liver transplant and is now fully recovered. Sellers said:
"We're just very thankful at this time and very thankful to the donor's family who saved our daughter's life and many lives as well."
Kai, now 15, is a doting big sister to little Sadie and Stokely. Rucker and Carter are devoted co-parents to their teen, and the recently retired basketball player has two more children of his own with the National Academy of Sports Medicine trainer Sondi Carter.