logo
Phyllis Jo Raymond | Susan Kay Traver and Her Husband | Harold and Julia Cain | Source: facebook.com/ohjuliaann | facebook.com/julia.christensen
Phyllis Jo Raymond | Susan Kay Traver and Her Husband | Harold and Julia Cain | Source: facebook.com/ohjuliaann | facebook.com/julia.christensen

Grandpa Walks His Wife, Daughter, and Granddaughter Down the Aisle in the Same Wedding Dress

Salwa Nadeem
Nov 08, 2022
07:00 P.M.

When a woman bought her wedding gown from a department store in 1953, she had no idea that her granddaughter would don the same dress more than six decades later. A young Missouri woman shared the story behind this timeless dress.

Advertisement

Before Julia Cain wore her grandmother's dress in 2016, her mother, Susan Kay Traver, also used it as her wedding gown more than three decades earlier. Moreover, the three women walked down the aisle holding the same man's hand.

Cain's grandfather, Harold, never imagined his daughter and granddaughter would reuse his wife's stunning white gown. He was more than happy to see Cain turn the heirloom dress into a trendy ensemble.

The Timeless Dress

Phyllis Jo Raymond wore the timeless dress for the first time when she tied the knot with Harold on May 9, 1953. She looked stunning walking down the aisle with him, wearing the white gown she bought from Denver, Colorado.

Advertisement

About thirty years later, Cain's mother, Traver, decided to wear the same dress on her big day. However, she didn't want to wear a hoop skirt underneath like her mother and got the jacket altered so it would fit her shoulders.

The third bride who wore the white gown was Cain. "When I first tried on the dress as a teenager, we never thought I would wear it for my wedding," she told ABC News.

Reusing the Dress

While Cain was still in college, Traver often talked to her about reusing the dress for her wedding. Since Cain had no plans of marrying then, she didn't think much about her mother's idea. She considered it only when she got engaged years later.

Advertisement

After multiple visits to the tailor, Cain finally got the dress she had in mind.

When Cain told her mother she wanted to try the dress, Traver brought it to St. Louis, Missouri, from Springfield, Illinois. "This time, the dress did not look flattering, and we started to worry," Cain recalled.

Trying to Make It Work

Cain said she tried the dress in different ways and even removed the sleeves and deepened the neck, but she and her mother didn't like how it looked. They had almost given up when they realized what was missing from the gown.

Advertisement

Cain and her mother had no idea that something as small as a sash around the waist could change how the dress looked. "By visually raising the waistline a little bit, the gown transformed into my dream dress!" Cain revealed.

Months of Effort

The young woman knew her grandmother would have praised the idea of reusing the wedding dress, so she decided to go with it and began searching for a tailor.

Cain also got the dress deep-cleaned before she walked down the aisle wearing it. She revealed that her husband-to-be knew she would wear an heirloom dress, but he had no idea how it looked after the transformation. Cain confessed:

Advertisement

"While still cheaper than many new dresses, altering a 60-year-old dress is not inexpensive, and it takes an understandably long time."

The Final Product

After multiple visits to the tailor, Cain finally got the dress she had in mind. She believed she couldn't ask for a better wedding dress, and reusing her grandmother's gown gave her a fantastic story to share with the world.

Once she wore the white gown on her big day and walked down the aisle holding her grandfather's hand, she felt it was nothing short of a dream. She revealed that Harold was delighted to see her in that dress, adding:

Advertisement

"Not only is it sentimental, but that man loves a discount."

A Unique Experience

Cain walked down the aisle with her grandfather on March 12, 2016, because her father had passed away decades ago. She revealed Harold came from Colorado to attend her wedding ceremony.

"I'm the first of the grandchildren to get married, so it was an emotional day for everyone," Cain said. She also advised other brides to use their heirloom gowns because the final product would be unique. However, she did warn them about the tiring process.

Advertisement

Cain first advised other brides to check if their heirloom dresses can bear a deep cleaning and then revamp them. She felt communicating clearly with the tailor is the key to getting one's dream dress.

Wearing the dress her mother and grandmother wore on their wedding day and walking down the aisle with the same man who accompanied them was a memorable experience for Cain. Share her story with your friends and family, and give us your feedback on Facebook.

Click here to read another story about a man who refused to give a dime towards his daughter's wedding after seeing her dress. It was an heirloom dress from her mother that she got fitted.

Advertisement
info
Please fill in your e-mail so we can share with you our top stories!
By subscribing, you agree to our Privacy Policy
Advertisement
Related posts

Vanessa Williams Found Love with 'Traditional Kind of Guy' in Her 50s & Is Also a Happy Granny

February 21, 2024

MIL Demands That Bride Pays for Her Wedding Hair, Makeup & Dress – Bride’s Mom Overhears & Confronts Her

March 15, 2024

MIL Demands That Bride Pays for Her Wedding Hair, Makeup & Dress – Bride’s Mom Overhears & Confronts Her

January 26, 2024

3 Unbelievable Life Stories about What MILs Dared to Do with Their DILs’ Wedding Dresses

February 15, 2024

Kate Middleton Hoped to Reconcile with William in 2007 – He Abandoned Her via Phone Call While She Was at Work

January 19, 2024

Blue Lagoon' Star Brooke Shields' Red-Haired Daughter Appears in Mom's Old Dress: 'Absolutely Gorgeous'

December 13, 2023

I Was Going to Kiss My Groom at the Altar When All of a Sudden a Stranger Rushed in & Ruined My Dress

February 12, 2024

I Didn't Invite My Mom to My Wedding after Finding Out Why She Excluded Me from Her Own

March 04, 2024

20 Nightmare Wedding Guests Who Completely Ruined the Big Day

December 26, 2023

5 Times People Ruined Other People's Weddings

January 16, 2024

‘Sister Wives’ Star Christine Brown, 51, Poses in Her ‘Too Big’ & ‘Odd’ Wedding Gown with Plunging Neckline

January 31, 2024

15 Brides Who Got Their ‘Dream’ Wedding Dresses at Secondhand Stores and Never Regretted a Thing

December 17, 2023

34 Nightmare Wedding Guests Who Completely Ruined the Big Day

November 13, 2023

20 Nightmare Wedding Guests Who Completely Ruined the Big Day

December 26, 2023