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Kathleen and Jesse Thorson | Kathleen Thorson with her children | Source: Instagram/thethorsons
Kathleen and Jesse Thorson | Kathleen Thorson with her children | Source: Instagram/thethorsons

This Mom Died Just Days After Having Her 4th Baby but Left One Last Wish

Milly Wanjiku Ndirangu
Jul 22, 2025
11:46 A.M.

He never learned how to make pie crust because he didn't need to. His wife handled birthdays, holidays, and every ordinary day with the same quiet care. Only later would he realize how much of their world had depended on her doing exactly that.

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An Oregon woman had just welcomed her fourth child when she began experiencing sudden and severe symptoms. Her pregnancy had been healthy, and her delivery uneventful. But within days, she was rushed to the hospital with a critical medical emergency.

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As her condition declined, her family followed through on a decision she had made well in advance. It was a deeply personal choice that would go on to affect people she had never met, and one her children would grow up knowing about.

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A Joyful Arrival Followed by a Sudden Crisis

On December 29, 2019, Kathleen and Jesse Thorson welcomed their fourth child, a baby boy named Teddy. Both mother and baby were healthy and were discharged to go home shortly after the delivery. The Thorsons, now a family of six, began settling into life with a newborn at home in Medford, Oregon.

Their children — Danny, 7, Gracie, 6, and James, 4 — were adjusting to the arrival of their youngest sibling. For Kathleen and Jesse, the early days of the new year were spent in recovery and quiet time at home. But on January 3, 2020, five days after Teddy's birth, Kathleen was rushed to the hospital after developing a sudden and severe brain bleed.

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Doctors diagnosed her with an intracerebral hemorrhage — bleeding inside the brain — a condition that can strike without warning and often becomes fatal within hours or days. A craniotomy was performed in an effort to relieve the pressure in her skull and prevent further damage.

Despite the emergency surgery, her condition continued to deteriorate. Within a few days, Kathleen died. She was 34 years old.

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Understanding Brain Bleeds: Symptoms, Causes, and Urgency

A brain bleed, also called an intracranial hemorrhage, is a type of stroke that causes bleeding inside the skull. It happens when a blood vessel in the brain bursts or leaks, allowing blood to collect and create pressure around the brain. This buildup stops oxygen and nutrients from reaching brain tissue.

Without oxygen, brain cells begin to die, often within just three to four minutes. Because the brain can't store oxygen the way other organs can, it depends on a constant supply through its network of blood vessels. When bleeding interrupts that supply, the effects can be severe and immediate.

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Doctors classify brain bleeds as medical emergencies. Quick diagnosis and treatment are essential to improve survival and limit damage. The best outcomes occur when the bleed is treated as soon as possible.

Symptoms of a brain bleed can vary depending on the location and severity, but often include:

  • Sudden, severe headache
  • Nausea and vomiting
  • Tingling, weakness, numbness, or paralysis in the face, arm, or leg—especially on one side
  • Confusion or disorientation
  • Dizziness
  • Slurred speech
  • Sleepiness or lack of energy
Illustration of the brain blood vessels | Source: Getty Images

Illustration of the brain blood vessels | Source: Getty Images

Additional signs may also appear:

  • Difficulty swallowing
  • Vision loss
  • Stiff neck
  • Sensitivity to light
  • Loss of balance or coordination
  • Abnormal heart rate or trouble breathing
  • Seizures
  • Loss of consciousness or coma
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Causes of a brain bleed include:

  • Head trauma, such as from a fall, car accident, or sports injury
  • Uncontrolled high blood pressure
  • A buildup of fatty deposits in arteries (atherosclerosis)
  • Blood clots
  • A weak spot in a blood vessel wall (cerebral aneurysm)
  • Abnormal artery and vein connections (arteriovenous malformation or AVM)
  • A buildup of protein in artery walls (cerebral amyloid angiopathy)
  • Brain tumors

In Kathleen's case, doctors were unable to identify a cause. Her pregnancy and delivery had been without complications, and her health appeared stable just days before her collapse.

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Kathleen's Final Wish

Before her death, Kathleen had made the decision to become an organ donor. It was a choice she never spoke about publicly, but one she had formally arranged in her lifetime. In the hours following her passing, her family worked with medical staff to carry out that wish.

Twelve of her organs were successfully donated, giving other patients a second chance at life. Her husband, Jesse, said the donation brought a sense of purpose in the middle of their loss. "I'm glad my kids will know their mom for doing that," he told Good Morning America.

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Their oldest child, Danny, shared the news with his first-grade classmates, telling them simply that his mom had "helped people." Jesse said learning about the recipients and knowing that part of Kathleen continued to live on brought comfort. "It's something that will be continually lifting us," he said.

On January 23, 2020, Jesse shared a photo of a memorial medallion honoring Kathleen as an organ donor. The image showed the medallion resting in its case, accompanied by a caption that reflected the weight of the moment.

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"This came in the mail a few days ago," he wrote. "This isn't how they treat the rarest of donors; this is how they treat all of their donors. I can't tell you what comforts this will give to [myself] and my children and all who loved my beautiful Kathleen."

A Life Built Together

Kathleen and Jesse's relationship began on the first day of high school. He was a junior, she was new, and a clumsy comment turned into a connection that never faded. "I put my foot in my mouth, and we've been together ever since," Jesse said. They shared fourteen years side by side, from adolescence to adulthood. "We never spent a minute apart."

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They married on September 1, 2006, and built their lives with intention and purpose. Kathleen earned her bachelor's degree from Brigham Young University–Idaho. Together, they completed their graduate studies abroad at the University of Kent in Canterbury, England.

When their first child, Danny, was born six weeks early, Kathleen turned to Jesse with a quiet but life-changing question: could she stay home and be "just a mom?" Jesse didn't hesitate. "Absolutely," he answered. Since then, Kathleen poured herself into raising their children, while Jesse trained to become a nurse.

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Everything in their life together reflected who Kathleen was, not only as a mother and partner, but as someone whose presence shaped the rhythm of their home and the hearts of everyone around her.

Who She Was: A Mother, a Friend, and a Constant Presence

At home, Kathleen was the center of everything. She loved taking walks, baking pies, and spending time outdoors. She made everyday life feel intentional — something Jesse described as "magic," not in a fanciful sense, but in the way she made people feel seen, safe, and loved.

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"[Being home with her kids] was her chosen career," Jesse stated. But her impact extended beyond parenting. "I don't know if she ever met someone she couldn't find a way to love and care about. Her heart was wide open."

In a blog post he once wrote titled "Sweet as Pie," Jesse captured that side of her in detail. He wrote about how she could soothe a skinned knee with a song, fix a broken toy with tape, and calm a child with nothing more than her presence. "Kathleen walks through this world, a citizen of this world, but also of the ancient, truer world," he wrote.

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After her death, Jesse said he was doing his best to keep her spirit alive in their home. "Her heart and her kindness and her willingness to love — I'm making sure that's in every crack of my home," he shared, "and learning how to do all the things that she did while I was at work."

In the weeks that followed, the same kindness Kathleen showed others was returned to her family, this time from friends, neighbors, and strangers who came forward to support them.

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The Community Response

On January 8, 2020, just days after Kathleen's passing, a family friend named Richard Stubbs launched a GoFundMe campaign in her honor. The fundraiser was created to help the Thorson family cover medical expenses and funeral costs. In just a short time, more than $130,000 was raised, exceeding the $50,000 target.

The page described Kathleen as a "mother extraordinaire" and a "bringer of love, life, and magic." Richard wrote, "There aren't many words to be said except that we love her, and we will miss her with every breath we take. Through all of this hardship, her love, life, and magic are still felt."

Though the fundraiser has since closed, the message remains a reflection of how those closest to Kathleen chose to remember her through the qualities she lived by.

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