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Family Didn't Have Enough Money to Save 'Warrior' Daughter, 12, Who Lost Her Battle against Cancer

Ayesha Muhammad
Aug 18, 2022
01:40 P.M.

A family's whole world came crashing down when their brave and beautiful girl was diagnosed with cancer. They were still in the process of trying to raise money for the youngster's treatment when they received a piece of devastating news.

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Being able to lead a happy, healthy, and fulfilling life is a privilege that is often taken for granted. Sadly, many people have to live with the heart-wrenching pain of seeing their beloveds battle ailments, which can sometimes be life-threatening.

One such disease is cancer, which can be fatal enough to claim someone's life. While many people can recover from this condition and live a normal life surrounded by their loved ones, others might have to prepare themselves for the hardest goodbyes. A similar scenario unfolds in today's story.

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A HAPPY FAMILY

Vanessa Kelly and her husband John lived with their three children, Grace, Marissa, and Nathan, in Oadby, Leicestershire, England. Grace's family described her as a lovely, cheerful, and amiable child who loved talking to people and playing her favorite game, Fortnight, on the Xbox.

Grace's parents, Vanessa and John, were in the process of raising £200,000 (approximately $240,000) for their daughter's treatment in Germany when a heart-shattering piece of news ambushed them.

However, nobody knew that they would live to see the day when everything would change drastically, leaving them in shambles. It all began when Grace went for a routine eye check-up in Specsavers, Wigston, in August 2021.

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THE DAY THAT CHANGED EVERYTHING

Much to the then-12-year-old girl's surprise, the optician discovered a swelling behind her eyes. Neither Grace nor her family thought it was something serious, at least in the beginning. Soon afterward, the teenager had to undergo a few tests that proved incredibly heart-rending.

On August 27, young Grace was diagnosed with a stage four Glioblastoma Multiforme (GBM) at Leicester Royal Infirmary after an MRI scan found a tumor the size of a 50p piece.

At the time of her diagnosis, Grace was set to begin Grade 7 at secondary school and eagerly looked forward to seeing her friends. She was said to have had an eight-hour operation and multiple rounds of chemotherapy and radiotherapy, but unfortunately, the tumor grew back.

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A TRUE FIGHTER

Despite her terrifying ordeal, the young girl remained strong and courageous. Anyone who saw Grace for the first time would have never guessed what she was going through.

But after her cancer diagnosis, the Leicestershire teenager's life changed drastically. Weekly hospital visits occupied a large portion of her day, and she sometimes went out to have lunch with her friends.

Per her family, Grace was determined to fight cancer like a warrior and return to school. But her mother, Vanessa, shared that she felt extremely let down when she found out that her daughter could not be treated in the UK.

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FEELING HELPLESS

The mother-of-three revealed that her young girl's best shot at living was a pioneering and costly life-saving immunotherapy treatment in Germany, which was unavailable on the NHS.

The NHS treats brain tumors using radiotherapy and chemotherapy, but treatment plans have reportedly not changed much in years. According to Brain Tumor Research, brain tumors kill more kids and adults under 40 than any other cancer.

Vanessa voiced her concerns and said she feared for people like Grace, who were left fighting for their lives due to the lack of funding options. "There is something that might be able to help, but we can't access it," said the distraught mother.

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GOODBYE, DEAR ONE

The late pop artist Tom Parker also raised his voice regarding the issue before passing away from the same type of tumor Grace had in March 2022.

Grace's parents, Vanessa and John, were in the process of raising £200,000 (approximately $240,000) for their daughter's treatment in Germany when a heart-shattering piece of news ambushed them.

On Saturday, August 13, Grace passed away peacefully, surrounded by her loved ones, after a year-long battle with cancer. Her parents were crushed and couldn't bring themselves to come to terms with the gut-wrenching trauma. Vanessa expressed:

"Our brave and beautiful girl took on her cancer like a warrior. [She] never complained and always had a smile."

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YOU WILL BE MISSED

The heartbroken mother described her daughter as perfectly polite, intelligent, funny, and an amazing older sister to her younger siblings. She shared that she was still in denial that Grace was no more but added that her baby girl would always be with her in soul and spirit. Further, she said:

"We had 12 amazing years with Grace but it wasn't enough, we miss her already. Fly high our angel Grace."

Vanessa said she was shocked and frustrated that the UK didn't offer immunotherapy, and the standard of brain tumor treatments had been the same for the past two decades. The grief-stricken mother also participated in a marathon in May to raise money for charity while fundraising for Grace.

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COMMENTS FROM NETIZENS

The news of young Grace's demise reduced countless people to tears. Many left encouraging and supportive messages for the late teenager's family in their time of excruciating pain and loss:

"Prayers sent for this precious child and her family! May she rest in peace in the arms of Jesus (sic)!"

— (@liz.moran.792) August 17, 2022

"My sincere condolences to the parents, family and friends - such a brave little girl - RIP Grace."

— (@wendy.clark.77398) August 17, 2022

"I'm so so very sorry for your loss!! God Bless all her family!! I pray that God will guide you through this!!"

— (@pat.stage.5) August 17, 2022

"Beautiful girl you are now an Angel. Fly high sweetheart, so very very sad. My heart goes out to the family in this very sad time (sic)."

— (@lesley.ruri) August 17, 2022

We send our deepest condolences to this young teenager's loved ones, and we're sure she's flying high with the angels in the heavens. Please remember Grace and her family in your heartfelt prayers.

Click here to read another story about a six-year-old special boy who sadly lost his cancer battle and was a local star despite being so young.

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