Concerned Father Refuses to Punish His Daughter for Mocking Her Cousin
- A concerned father refused to punish his daughter despite mocking her cousin.
- For years, the daughter had to endure her mother's insistence to be close to her cousin.
- Finally, having had enough, she created a presentation revealing her valid reasons for disliking her cousin.
A man found herself in a tricky situation after his wife asked him to punish his daughter for a presentation she made to mock her cousin. At first, he believed there was nothing wrong with his daughter's actions until he realized what she did was mean.
Growing up, the man's wife and younger sister were best friends. When they fell pregnant around the same time, they were excited that their daughters would grow up as best friends, too.
Two women talking in the bedroom. | Source: Shutterstock
The Teenagers Didn't Want to Be Friends
Sixteen years later, the husband confirmed that their dream of their kids becoming best friends was nothing but that. No matter how much they tried, the children didn't get along.
There wasn't a particular instance for the man's daughter to dislike her cousin – she just did. Despite this, his wife continued to push the relationship.
Two teen girls hugging | Source: Shutterstock
For years, the wife forced her daughter to sit with the cousin on family occasions, asked her to invite her on trips, and constantly forced her to call the cousin to chat.
While the teenager's mom insisted on the relationship, the dad remained apathetic. He didn't believe in forcing things to work, especially when, after sixteen years, it didn't.
The following morning, however, she woke her parents with a presentation titled: "Valid Reasons to Dislike [Cousin]."
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The Woman's Husband Didn't Want to Force the Relationship
The man's wife was angered by his lack of care towards the situation. However, he insisted that, despite being the self-proclaimed favorite parent, he could not make two teenagers become friends if they didn't want to be.
"I'm also pretty sure that trying to push this kind of knuckleheaded stuff makes kids not want to speak to you," he said about his wife.
One day, his wife urged their daughter to call the cousin in question so they could catch up. Even after their daughter said no, the mom insisted, saying: "Unless you have a valid reason for disliking your cousin, you will do this because we're family."
Knowing her mom wouldn't take no for an answer, the teenager called her cousin. The following morning, however, she woke her parents with a presentation titled: "Valid Reasons to Dislike [Cousin]."
A woman laughing as she shows her cellphone to a man | Source: Shutterstock
In the presentation, the daughter showed clips from her video call with her cousin and added segments about the cousin's voice. She also pointed out that their conversations had no value, and even the dumbest, most trivial questions seemed valid because of their pointless conversation.
The teenager's mom was furious. However, the dad and his eldest daughter laughed hard at the masterpiece his middle child had created.
The man's wife demanded he punish his daughter for bullying her cousin. However, he refused, saying the situation would have never happened if she hadn't pushed the relationship so much.
People on the internet were divided over the situation. Some believed the dad could have politely spoken to his daughter without punishing her. Others said the mom was at fault for forcing the relationship on a grown woman.
A comment on the dad's story | Source: Reddit
A comment on the dad's story | Source: Reddit
"The bully here is your wife, OP. She disrespects your daughter regularly by refusing to accept that she has her own interests and desires," one wrote.
"You are teaching your daughter that she can say anything she want[s], even against family, as long as it gets a laugh," another argued.
Others didn't think it was bullying unless the cousin actually saw the presentation. However, the mere fact that the presentation was made and the teenager wasn't punished irked people into thinking the dad let his daughter say whatever she wanted without suffering consequences.
A comment on the dad's story | Source: Reddit
A comment on the dad's story | Source: Reddit
Do you think the dad did the right thing? What would you have done in his situation?
Meanwhile, a dad forced his 16-year-old daughter to sleep in the backyard as punishment for constantly being rude to their housekeeper. Click here to read all about it.
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