Woman Decides Never to Leave Her Daughter Alone with a Male, Including Family Members
- A woman's controversial parenting method caused quite a stir online after she revealed she never left her daughter alone with any male – even family members.
- The mother of two explained that although people called her "crazy" for her decision, it's something she chooses to do for the sake of her daughter.
- Her "no males" rule is only one of the many parenting policies she puts in place regarding her two children.
A young mom chooses to do things differently regarding her children. Rather than have her children conform to what others want them to be, she wants them to grow up how they choose to.
On TikTok, Audrey, a proud mom of two, revealed the parenting rules she abides by that people call her "crazy" for. Despite the criticism she constantly faces from others, she's determined to stick by the rules until her children grow older.
Rule 1: Never Leave Her Daughter Alone with a Male
There are no exceptions to Audrey's number one rule: never leaving her young daughter alone with a male. Whether it's a grandfather, an uncle, or a cousin, she won't allow her daughter to hang out with males unattended.
"No sleepovers, not even with family members. And she will never be left alone with a male. I don't care if you're the grandparent, the uncle, or the cousin," she said.
As for who she'd allow to care for her kids on days she needs to go out, the mom said there's only one person she trusts 100%, and that's her mother, who raised her.
Audrey will only leave her two kids with her mother. | Source: TikTok.com/@theorganicmami
Rule 2: Her Kids are Treated Equally
Audrey chooses not to treat her daughter differently than her son. She said that the rules she applied to her daughter would also apply to him, an example of which would be their curfews once they're older.
"I'm going to treat them both the same," she revealed. She added that as a parent, she's never going to impose respect on her children – if people don't respect them, they don't have to respect those people either.
Rule 3: Her Kids Need to Be Honest with Her
Audrey believes her kids shouldn't keep secrets from her. She said that if anyone secretly tried to give her kids candy by telling them not to tell mom, that was a surefire way for the kids never to see you again.
She also said that her kids aren't obliged to hug, kiss, or sit on relatives' laps because they asked them to. Audrey acknowledges that her kids have opinions and emotions that they're entitled to.
Apart from her rules, Audrey also lives by certain habits. She gives her children "mental health days," where she helps them regulate their emotions.
Some users wondered where the children's dad fit in the picture and whether the "no male" rule also applied to him.
She refuses to put her kids through the regular school system and will adopt a more holistic learning experience. Likewise, before resorting to Western medicine, she wants to first try other organic and natural methods to heal illnesses.
A user's comment on her parenting methods. | Source: TikTok.com/theorganicmami
A user's comment on her parenting methods. | Source: TikTok.com/theorganicmami
A user's comment on her parenting methods. | Source: TikTok.com/theorganicmami
A user's comment on her parenting methods. | Source: TikTok.com/theorganicmami
Last but not least, Audrey acknowledges the importance of walking her talk. She is the number one role model she wants her kids to embody. She explained:
"I am teaching her to stand up for herself, set boundaries, and say no. I won't ever talk poorly about myself in front of her, and I won't make comments about her appearance or body image."
A user's comment on her parenting methods. | Source: TikTok.com/theorganicmami
A user's comment on her parenting methods. | Source: TikTok.com/theorganicmami
People reacted differently to her seemingly eccentric parenting methods. While others agreed with her rules, some felt she was taking things too far.
Others also believed she was projecting her issues on her children. Some users wondered where the children's dad fit in the picture and whether the "no male" rule also applied to him.
A user's comment on her parenting methods. | Source: TikTok.com/theorganicmami
A user's comment on her parenting methods. | Source: TikTok.com/theorganicmami
In another video, she made it clear that no matter what others thought of her, she didn't care. The mom's number one priority is keeping her children safe; her rules are one way she feels she can get that done.
She also clarified that although she posts about her children online, it's never in a compromising position, and she never shares anything in real time to keep them protected from potential predators.
Parents can raise their children the way they want to. While others can have outside opinions, at the end of the day, a parent knows what's best for their children.
Several celebrity moms have chosen their own ways to raise their children. From Katie Holmes to Meghan Markle, these women are great examples of the extreme lengths mothers would go to ensure their children are safe and protected.