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Gary Kief and Barry Manilow | Source: Getty Images
Gary Kief and Barry Manilow | Source: Getty Images

Barry Manilow Explains Not Coming Out as Gay until 2017 as He Credits Husband for Saving His Life

Monica Otayza
Nov 13, 2023
10:59 P.M.

Barry Manilow explained why it took him so long to come out as gay despite knowing early on. He also revealed that during the peak of his career, his husband saved his life.

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On the Max series "Who's Talking to Chris Wallace," the veteran CNN actor spoke to Barry Manilow about his personal life. In the interview, Wallace asked Manilow why it took him so long to come out as gay.

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Despite getting married to his high school sweetheart, Susan Deixler, in the 1960s, he knew when he was a child that he was gay. "I really did love her, but the gay thing was pretty, pretty strong," Manilow admitted.

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Over a decade later, in 1978, Manilow met Garry Kief, who became his manager and, ultimately, decades later, his husband. However, even after years together, they didn't reveal their romance until 2017.

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To the public, it was a shocking revelation. To Kief and Manilow, however, it was nothing new. They'd been together so long that it never occurred to the "Mandy" singer that he had to come out. The pair married in 2014, which was a big deal for them.

Everyone was emotional during the event, and the couple was all smiles. Kief had been an enormous part of Manilow's success, and without his dedicated manager, the singer admits he might have never made it out alive.

Garry Kief and Barry Manilow at the Pre-Grammy Gala in Beverly Hills, California on February 14, 2016 | Source: Getty Images

Garry Kief and Barry Manilow at the Pre-Grammy Gala in Beverly Hills, California on February 14, 2016 | Source: Getty Images

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He had difficulty dealing with being an international superstar and going home to an empty hotel room every night. Manilow was glad to have met Kief around that time, as he shared:

"Gary actually kind saved [my life] because as my career exploded, as I said, it was crazy. It was just crazy. [...] I had somebody to cry with or to celebrate with."

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The couple did not overshare anything with the media when their relationship finally went public. They find it "creepy" whenever they're asked to talk about their private life.

Previously, Manilow acknowledged that coming out in the 1970s would have ruined his career. While nowadays, more artists are coming out as part of the LGBTQ+ community, it was a different story decades ago.

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