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My Ex Demanded I Buy Engagement Ring back from Her after We Broke Up – I Gave Her a Reality Check

Junie Sihlangu
Apr 03, 2024
11:10 A.M.

What was meant to lead to a happy and long-lasting marriage ended because my ex-fiancée was a liar and untrustworthy. My story is a tale of betrayal, greed, scheming, and ultimately, my triumph. Read on to find out how I turned a breakup drama into a legendary story!

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A proud and happy man looking at a ring | Source: Pexels

A proud and happy man looking at a ring | Source: Pexels

As I stared at the twinkling ring on my finger, a mischievous grin spread across my face. The text from Michelle, full of fury and disbelief, was a sweet symphony to my ears. "You think you can play me like a fool? You’ll pay for this, mark my words," she spat through the digital ether.

"Oh, Mich," I mused aloud, thumb hovering over the keyboard. "You’ve already paid in full." With a chuckle, I sent her a simple response, a photo of me wearing the genuine ring, the message clear:

"Thanks for the ring. Consider us even."

A frustrated woman with her hands up while looking at a laptop screen | Source: Pexels

A frustrated woman with her hands up while looking at a laptop screen | Source: Pexels

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Rewinding the tape to the beginning, the storm that led to this moment was a tempest of heartbreak and betrayal. Michelle and I, a match that once seemed destined, had imploded under the weight of lies and deceit.

Her affair with her co-worker was the final, unforgivable act that tore us apart. I had to break it off with her after a five-year relationship; she was now my ex-fiancée because she was cheating and lying to me.

A couple holding hands after a proposal | Source: Pexels

A couple holding hands after a proposal | Source: Pexels

The arguments that followed between us were explosive, a barrage of accusations and demands, with my ex trying to make unreasonable deals with me. "You owe me for everything I put into this relationship!" Michelle had screamed during one of our last confrontations, her voice a sharp blade cutting through the remnants of our love.

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My family was absolutely torn when they heard about my breakup!

See, they were invested from the very first time we started dating. My mother, envisioning a forever type of relationship like the one she had with my late father, gave me a family heirloom ring to propose when the time was right.

Besides being a very sentimental item for our family, it was also quite expensive.

An upset woman looking at her phone | Source: Pexels

An upset woman looking at her phone | Source: Pexels

After things calmed down a bit, I remembered the engagement ring, a symbol of a future that would never be—a family heirloom with more stories than a library. When I came over to where she was staying and timidly asked for its return, Michelle’s eyes flashed with greed!

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"Why should I give it back without something in return?" she sneered, her hands clasping the ring like a dragon guarding its treasure. "I want $2,000, your laptop, and your PlayStation 5 (PS5). Or maybe I’ll just see what it’s worth at the pawn shop?"

A PlayStation console with gaming controller | Source: Pexels

A PlayStation console with gaming controller | Source: Pexels

How did I not see this woman for who she was all along?

I wasn't having any of it and refused to give her a cent or any of my prized belongings. She knew I loved my gaming console, used my laptop to run my company, and definitely didn't have $2,000 just lying around!

A woman and man having a heated argument | Source: Freepik

A woman and man having a heated argument | Source: Freepik

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After sharing Michelle's demands with my family, the rift between me and my ex extended to them, my mother’s disappointment a heavy shroud. "How could you let her keep the ring? It’s not just jewelry; it’s our history!" she exclaimed, her voice a mix of anger and desperation.

"It’s not about the money, Mom. It’s about principle," I had argued, feeling the weight of the world on my shoulders. "I can’t just cave to her demands."

However, I vowed to figure something else out.

An upset woman talking to someone on the phone | Source: Pexels

An upset woman talking to someone on the phone | Source: Pexels

"Michelle is trying to take me to the cleaners with this breakup! She's demanding money, my laptop, and my PS5, otherwise, she'll pawn the ring! My mother wants me to give in and do whatever she wants so we get back the ring, but I don't think she deserves to be awarded for cheating," I told my friends during a lengthy conference phone call.

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But as the dust settled and silence took over, a plan began to brew—a scheme so daring, it could have been plucked from a heist movie. With my friends by my side, we concocted a ruse that would make any con artist proud.

A group of friends eating and talking | Source: Pexels

A group of friends eating and talking | Source: Pexels

One of my friends, whom Michelle had never met, posed as a wealthy collector interested in purchasing unique jewelry. He contacted her and expressing his excitement at attaining such a gem, he shared his willingness to pay a whopping $5,000 for the ring!

"A collector, huh?" Michelle replied to the call, a sly grin on her face. "Someone so desperate for unique jewelry that $5,000 seems like pocket change," she thought to herself, picturing all the money she'd make for something she didn't pay a cent for.

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Naturally, she jumped at the opportunity and agreed to meet in person for the transaction.

An excited woman looking mischievous while holding sunglasses | Source: Pixabay

An excited woman looking mischievous while holding sunglasses | Source: Pixabay

Michelle took the bait, her greed overshadowing any sense of caution, and agreed to meet up so the "collector" could evaluate the piece. Another thing that I only realized after the breakup was how gullible my ex was.

The woman didn't even ask how the collector got her information or even knew about the ring to begin with!

The exchange was a performance worthy of an Oscar, my friend playing his part with a finesse that left no room for suspicion. "I was dressed in my finest three-piece suit and tie for the 'meeting,'" my friend told me later.

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A man getting dressed in his finest suit and tie | Source: Pexels

A man getting dressed in his finest suit and tie | Source: Pexels

"I pretended to meticulously examine the ring, before 'accidentally dropping' it. Then I swapped it for a fake with the sleight of hand of a magician," he relayed, and I could almost hear the strings of victory playing in the background.

"Oh dear, how clumsy of me," he had said, voice dripping with feigned regret. He then handed her the fake ring and informed her that he needed some time to think the purchase over before making such a significant investment.

The two separated, leaving my ex quite unhappy with how things went down. Feeling like the "collector" was wasting her time, she decided to take matters into her own hands.

A man placing a ring on his hand | Source: Freepik

A man placing a ring on his hand | Source: Freepik

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None the wiser, Michelle took a triumphant stride to the pawn shop, hoping to cash in on what she thought was a valuable piece. However, her hopes turned to ashes as the truth was unveiled. The ring, worthless in her hands, was a bitter pill to swallow.

That's how I ended up with a furious text from her that was a testament to her folly, a mistake that cost her more than she realized. "Did you really think you could outsmart me, Mara?" I whispered to the empty room, the real ring a cold comfort on my finger.

"This isn’t just about a ring. It’s about respect, something you lost the moment you chose betrayal over love."

A man looking unhappy while holding open a jewelry box with a ring | Source: Freepik

A man looking unhappy while holding open a jewelry box with a ring | Source: Freepik

In the end, the tale of the ring became one of legend, a story of cunning and revenge that would be told and retold for generations to come. It was a reminder that sometimes, justice isn’t served in a courtroom but through the clever actions of those willing to fight for what’s right!

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As for Michelle, her silence in the wake of my final message was the sweetest closure I could have asked for. The ring, once a symbol of a broken future, now represented a victory not just for me, but for my family’s legacy. And in that moment, I knew that some treasures are worth more than their weight in gold—they’re worth their weight in cunning.

A happy man showing off a ring in a box | Source: Freepik

A happy man showing off a ring in a box | Source: Freepik

Luckily, Michelle's ex was able to get revenge, but the woman in the following story was pranked on Christmas day after trying to do a good deed:

In a tale that's as heartwarming as it is gut-wrenching, a woman with a heart of gold and the patience of a saint set out on a mission to make her fiancé's Christmas unforgettable. Despite her modest earnings as a hairstylist, compared to her fiancé's lucrative career as a pediatrician, she scrimped and saved for months.

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A woman calculating money and saving up | Source: Pexels

A woman calculating money and saving up | Source: Pexels

Her goal? To snag the elusive PS5, a gem her fiancé had longed for but never purchased for himself. After a Herculean effort and navigating the murky waters of markups from a relative, she triumphantly secured the prized console.

Yet, this story takes a turn from heartwarming to heart-stopping. When Christmas rolled around, amidst the festive cheer and the unwrapping of presents, her fiancé presented her with... a pack of toothpicks. Yes, you read that right.

A bunch of toothpicks | Source: Pexels

A bunch of toothpicks | Source: Pexels

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As his family chuckled, the woman's heart sank. The man, seemingly oblivious to the emotional turmoil he had caused, brushed it off as a prank, masterminded by his younger sister. But, the plot thickens. The woman, having none of it, called out her fiancé for his childish antics and insensitivity, leading to a holiday spectacle none would soon forget.

Amid accusations and tears, she sought refuge at her mother's house, leaving behind a Christmas marred by what was meant to be a playful jest. The next day, her fiancé attempted to make amends, revealing the actual gift and attributing the prank to youthful folly. Yet, the damage was done.

A man looking guilty and remorseful while being scolded by a woman | Source: Freepik

A man looking guilty and remorseful while being scolded by a woman | Source: Freepik

The woman's story, shared on Reddit, has us all questioning: when does a joke go too far, especially in matters of the heart and during times meant for warmth and unity?

So, dear readers, what do you think? Was this a harmless holiday prank gone awry, or a sign of deeper issues in paradise? The court of public opinion is now in session, and your verdict is eagerly awaited.

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