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Beth Laitkep and her six children, 2016 | Source: X.com/ABC7
Beth Laitkep and her six children, 2016 | Source: X.com/ABC7

This Woman Was Pregnant with Her Sixth Child When Diagnosed with Cancer – Before Her Death, She Had One Final Wish

Junie Sihlangu
Jun 10, 2025
07:57 A.M.

After learning of her devastating breast cancer diagnosis, one woman was abandoned by someone she trusted, but a loyal friend stepped up and became her beacon of hope, honoring her last request.

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When Beth Laitkep received her diagnosis while pregnant with her sixth child, she faced her final days with one heartbreaking wish. She wanted her children to be loved and cared for after her passing, and someone answered that call.

What Happened to Beth's Kids After Her Diagnosis?

Beth Laitkep, a 39-year-old mother battling breast cancer, spent her final days in a Virginia hospital. She was diagnosed with the disease in 2015 while pregnant with her youngest child, Ace.

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To begin chemotherapy, Beth underwent an emergency C-section. As her condition worsened, the children's father left the family, forcing her to rely on friends.

Stephanie and Donnie Culley with their children at Crabby Bill's in St. Pete Beach, Florida, in a post dated November 29, 2019 | Source: Facebook/Stephanie Baylous Culley

Stephanie and Donnie Culley with their children at Crabby Bill's in St. Pete Beach, Florida, in a post dated November 29, 2019 | Source: Facebook/Stephanie Baylous Culley

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In April, her children, Will (15), Selena (14), Jaxson (11), Dallas (10), Lily (five), and Ace (one), moved in with her best friend, Stephanie Culley, and husband, Donnie.

The relocation to Alton, Virginia, took place shortly after doctors confirmed that Beth's cancer had spread to her spine and brain.

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Beth and Stephanie had first met as teenagers while working together at Walmart.

Years later, Beth returned to Virginia and reconnected with Stephanie, just as her previous battle with breast cancer reignited, this time, more aggressively.

Stephanie Culley with one of her children in a post dated August 8, 2020 | Source: Facebook/Stephanie Baylous Culley

Stephanie Culley with one of her children in a post dated August 8, 2020 | Source: Facebook/Stephanie Baylous Culley

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By then, the bond between the Culley and Laitkep families had already grown close.

Stephanie Culley with Hayden in a post dated October 29, 2019 | Source: Facebook/Stephanie Baylous Culley

Stephanie Culley with Hayden in a post dated October 29, 2019 | Source: Facebook/Stephanie Baylous Culley

Beth's children had developed strong friendships with Stephanie's kids, Cole (10), Hayden (six), and Calen (two).

Stephanie Culley and Beth Laitkep's children posing together in a post dated November 2, 2020 | Source: Facebook/Stephanie Baylous Culley

Stephanie Culley and Beth Laitkep's children posing together in a post dated November 2, 2020 | Source: Facebook/Stephanie Baylous Culley

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"We became a family while Beth was still alive," Stephanie explained, "and we love them like our own, so it made sense for me to take the kids in when she died."

Stephanie Culley with her children in a post dated April 17, 2019 | Source: Facebook/Stephanie Baylous Culley

Stephanie Culley with her children in a post dated April 17, 2019 | Source: Facebook/Stephanie Baylous Culley

Beth asked her to make just one promise: that her daughters would always wear bows in their hair.

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Stephanie, 39, honored that promise wholeheartedly. "And I always, always, put a bow in the girls' hair," she said. "For Beth."

Here's what we know about breast cancer.

Stephanie Culley with her children and others in a post dated September 26, 2020 | Source: Facebook/Stephanie Baylous Culley

Stephanie Culley with her children and others in a post dated September 26, 2020 | Source: Facebook/Stephanie Baylous Culley

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What Should You Know About Breast Cancer

According to the Cleveland Clinic website, breast cancer develops when abnormal cells grow uncontrollably in the breast, forming lumps known as tumors. In approximately 80 percent of cases, these tumors can spread to other parts of the body.

While most common in women over 50, younger women and even men can also be diagnosed. This cancer presents in different forms and, sometimes, shows no symptoms at all.

A French radiographer gives a woman information about a mammography inside a "breast bus" set to raise awareness of breast cancer and screenings in Strasbourg, eastern France, on October 9, 2024 | Source: Getty Images

A French radiographer gives a woman information about a mammography inside a "breast bus" set to raise awareness of breast cancer and screenings in Strasbourg, eastern France, on October 9, 2024 | Source: Getty Images

When symptoms do appear, they may include:

  • A lump in the breast or underarm
  • Changes in the breast's size or shape
  • Or skin that appears red, puckered, scaly, or swollen
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Some people may also notice a firm spot beneath the skin or nipple discharge that is clear or bloody.

Even minor changes, such as a lump the size of a pea, can signal concern. While the exact cause of normal breast cells turning cancerous is unclear, several risk factors are known to increase the likelihood.

Dr. Olena Weaver looks at mammogram imagery on September 26, 2024, in Houston | Source: Getty Images

Dr. Olena Weaver looks at mammogram imagery on September 26, 2024, in Houston | Source: Getty Images

These include:

Additional risks involve smoking, alcohol use, obesity, previous radiation treatments, and hormone replacement therapy.

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Beyond the bows, Beth made an even greater request of her friend before her passing.

Beth's Biggest Wish Fulfilled

As Beth realized her time was limited, she turned to someone she trusted to raise her children.

When she asked, "If a miracle doesn't happen and I don't make it, can you take my children as your own?" Stephanie answered yes without hesitation.

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Following Beth's death from cancer on May 19, 2016, her children were devastated, but they found comfort in their new home and siblings. Grief counseling helped ease their transition.

Stephanie's husband, a construction worker, had built their home ten years earlier. It turned out to be spacious enough to house what would become a family of eleven.

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Beth's final message to her best friend was deeply touching: "Tell my babies I love them. And you know I love you too, Stephanie." Stephanie believes their coming together wasn't just by chance.

Stephanie Culley's children pose in Saint Petersburg, Florida, in a post dated April 18, 2019 | Source: Facebook/Stephanie Baylous Culley

Stephanie Culley's children pose in Saint Petersburg, Florida, in a post dated April 18, 2019 | Source: Facebook/Stephanie Baylous Culley

"There was some higher power working here," Stephanie said. "It had to be someone up above looking out for us." With a home already big enough for nine kids, everything seemed to fall perfectly into place.

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By early June 2016, adoption paperwork was in progress, with a final court date set for June 19 to formalize the arrangement. In July, the Culleys took the final step in becoming a family of eleven.

A judge granted them full, permanent custody of all six children. According to Stephanie, the children already saw one another as true siblings. She said, "If they're sad, they cry to us and we cry with them. They let their feelings out [sic] and we are all here to support them."

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Reflecting on the court ruling, Stephanie shared, "The kids, my husband [sic] and I are extremely relieved for this to be over," adding, "Now we can move on with the rest of our lives and work at finding our 'normal,' if that is even possible with a family this large."

Beth's legacy lives on through the love and strength of the Culley family. Her final wishes became a reality, creating a bond that turned two families into one.

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