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July 18, 2018

My husband threatens to leave me if I don't do plastic surgery on my breasts

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Dear AmoMama,

I just don't know what to do. I'm 48 and I've been married for 25 years. I love my husband and we built a great life together and had two lovely children

A few years ago (a lot of years to be honest) we started making love less and less often. My husband just wasn't in the mood, mostly, and I guess that's normal for men his age. (he's 52). I don't mind, you know? I love the kissing and the cuddling and how we fit together when we sleep.

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Last year my youngest daughter went away to college, and it was just the two of us again. I thought it would be a chance to bring back the romance? So I lit up some candles, put on some romantic music and did this sexy strip dance for him. 

He just sat there. Then he said I looked disgusting, that my "tits look like shit." He said had I looked in the mirror lately? That I have these slumped ugly breasts, and he doesn't desire me anymore.

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Then he told me his friend's wife had a boob job. He said she looked hot, and I look like an old woman. He told me that if I want our marriage to work, I have to have plastic surgery, have implants put in.

He tells me I have to face the risks of an unnecessary surgery to be attractive to him again.

I love him, you know? He's lost his hair, and he's got a bit of a stomach on him, but I still love him. Why doesn't he love me as I am? Why doesn't he want me?

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I don't know what to do. If I do this, he will be happy and want to have sex with me again, but what I want is for him to make love to ME, his wife, the woman who stood by him for 25 years.

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