October 09, 2021
"Yesterday, we were eating lunch at the diner, and my biggest crush in school walks in and sees us. Immediately I was already embarrassed to be seen with him, but I tried to keep my cool," wrote a Redditor while talking about how he made his brother cry in public.
What's the most significant conflict you have had with your brother? Was it big enough to affect your relationship? Siblings are usually a person's first friends because they grow together and see each other during the worst and best days of their lives.
Fighting with your sibling means putting your most precious friendship at risk. You feel hurt even when you get into the slightest argument with them. A few people on the internet opened up about having conflicts with their brothers, including arguments about cheating on their partners.
BOY MADE HIS BROTHER CRY IN FRONT OF CRUSH
What happens when a 17-year-old is approached by their crush in front of their 10-year-old annoying brother? A Redditor named bigbrotherAITA posted that he went out to have lunch with his younger brother on his mom's insistence since she wanted the brothers to spend some time together.
While having lunch, the OP (Original Poster) saw his crush from school walking towards their table. He felt embarrassed but still allowed the girl to sit with them. She started talking to the younger brother, and the OP felt uncomfortable because he thought his brother would tarnish his image.
The girl asked the younger brother who his best friend was, and he said it was his brother. On the other hand, the OP didn't like hanging out with him, so he lost his cool and screamed, "We're not friends. I'm only hanging out with you because I have to!"
The younger brother started crying, and they headed back home. Their mother grounded the OP after hearing what happened at the diner. He felt guilty about making his brother cry, so he asked other users for their opinion. One of them bashed the OP for what he did.
MAN CHEATED WITH BROTHER'S GIRLFRIEND AND MARRIED HER
Another Redditor opened up about his conflict with his brother, but this one is quite serious. He confessed that he dated his brother's girlfriend after he left home to study in another state. At first, he didn't know the consequences of hanging out with the girl.
It wasn't until he started to feel jealous after looking at the girl cuddling with his brother. He told his parents about their relationship and married her after they got pregnant. His brother left the house when he learned about the entire situation, and the OP hasn't talked to his brother since then.
MAN'S GIRLFRIEND CHEATED ON HIM WITH HIS BROTHER
A mother posted on Reddit that her elder son slept with her younger son's girlfriend. The girl apologized for her mistake and asked the younger brother to continue the relationship, whereas the elder brother didn't feel guilty and said mean things to his brother.
The younger brother is the responsible child. He owns a car, works, studies, and pays rent to his parents while saving money to rent his own apartment. On the flip side, the elder brother does nothing and only lives on his parents' money.
The elder brother still contacts the girl and asks her to date him, while she refuses and complains to the younger brother. The mother says she can't kick her elder son out of the house since he doesn't have a job, and she can't figure out how to control his bad behavior. What would you do if you were in the mother's place?
MAN DISCOVERED BROTHER IS CHEATING ON HIS GIRLFRIEND
What would you do if you caught your brother cheating on his girlfriend? Would you expose your brother in front of his girlfriend? A Quora user asked the same question and other people suggested the OP should tell his brother about it.
Keeping someone in the dark while their partner cheats on them is not a good idea. It's better to let the other person know so that they get out of the toxic relationship and invest their time building a meaningful relationship with someone else.
GIRL PRETENDED SHE DIDN'T KNOW HER BROTHER WAS CHEATING ON HIS WIFE
A girl spotted her brother, Daniel, in a zoo with an unknown woman and her kid. She would have let it go if her brother wasn't married to someone else. The girl was best friends with her brother's wife, Jess, and watching her brother cheat on her felt terrible.
Daniel called his sister and asked her not to tell Jess about the other girl. She wondered what made him cheat on Jess, who loved him and was so loyal to him. He tried to justify his actions by saying that there was no spark left in his married life, so he wanted to explore other options.
The girl had two options: tell Jess about her husband or ask Daniel to get rid of the other girl. She chose the latter and pressured her brother to do something about his affair. Ultimately, he told Jess and left her for the new woman while his sister acted like she discovered the truth for the first time.
The girl wanted to save her friendship with her brother's wife, so she decided to conceal the truth and allowed her brother to break the news. Finding out that you have been betrayed is one of the worse things that could ever happen to someone. It takes a lot of time to recover from the emotional loss.
After being betrayed, the worst thing you can do is think about the past and feel bad for yourself. It's essential to get over the betrayal as soon as possible and start a new life. It's difficult for a person to trust other people after being betrayed, so it might take some time to start dating another person.
Sharing your traumatic experience with others can also help you feel relieved. People who have been betrayed shouldn't share their stories with every other person. They should look for people who have been through the same situation to help them heal better.
Do you have any advice for people who have been betrayed by their partners? How should they recover from the emotional trauma? We'd love to know what our readers think. Leave a comment to let us know your opinions.