Christopher Reeve Died 18 Years Ago – Wife Cared for Her Paralyzed Beloved & Only Kid's Fate to the End
When Christopher Reeve first laid his eyes on a then-25-year-old Dana singing in a late-night cabaret show, both their lives were forever transformed. Even though their relationship involved tragedies, they remained close as ever. It has now been 18 years since Dana lost her love.
18 years ago, Christopher Reeve passed away after years of Dana taking care of him. Reeve was paralyzed from the neck down after a horseriding accident, which left him with severe spinal cord injuries.
Before the accident, Reeve was a successful actor and starred in the titular role in the "Superman" movies. However, after the accident, He turned his attention to raising funds for spinal cord research.
Christopher Reeve during The 63rd Annual Academy Awards - After Party at Maple Drive Restaurant in 1991. | Source: Getty Images
Christpher and Dana had a beautiful love story that started when he was healthy and remained steadfast even after he became paralyzed. Dana stood by her husband's side throughout his most trying days.
Christopher and Dana's Love Story
Christopher was a rising Hollywood star when he met Dana in 1987. Dana was on stage performing in a cabaret show. She wore an off-the-shoulder dress and sang "The Music That Makes Me Dance."
Dana Reeve and Christopher Reeve during "The Spirit of Liberty" Awards Dinner & the 10th Anniversary Celebration of People for the American Way at Waldorf Hotel in New York City, New York, United State | Source: Getty Images
Christopher was immediately transfixed by her and made his move, but Dana remained skeptical of his advances. Even though Dana found Christopher attractive, she kept their interactions to light flirting.
However, Christopher wasn't fulfilled with this arrangement, so ten days after the pair met, Christopher asked her to go for a midnight swim at a pond he knew. "I thought, 'Oh God, here comes the old let's-get-naked-and-go-for-a-swim routine,'" Dana reminisced. But Christopher was a true gentleman.
Dana was so relieved with Christopher's manners that they shared their first kiss that night. Soon after that, the pair spent as much time as they could together. Christopher would even sit in on Dana's rehearsals, and their romance grew steadily.
Christopher Reeve and wife Dana during Christopher Reeve File Photos in Los Angeles, California, United States. | Source: Getty Images
After five years of dating, Christopher and Dana got married In 1992 and had their son, Will. Christopher had two children, Matthew and Alexander, from a previous relationship.
Tragedy Strikes the Reeve Family
In 1995, Christopher successfully acted as Superman several times. But he had some trouble further establishing his career outside of the heroic character. He also enjoyed participating in equestrian competitions. But tragedy struck when Christopher fell off a horse during a roadblock test. The blow left him paralyzed from the neck down and forever in a wheelchair.
Dana also recalled that during the first year of their marriage, Christopher would constantly express how much he loved being married.
Robert Kennedy Jr. and wife with Christopher Reeve and Dana Reeve | Source: Getty Images
Doctors
he was paralyzed from the neck down, and it was unlikely that he would ever walk again. Christopher's injuries were so gruesome that his mother begged the doctors to switch off his ventilating machine.
Dana's Efforts After Christopher's Injuries
While in the hospital, Christopher asked if it was time to let him go. He could no longer bear the thought of being a burden on his family. Dana looked into his eyes and said that she would support him in whatever decision he took.
Christopher Reeve and wife Dana Reeve during 13th Annual "A Magical Evening" Gala Hosted by The Christopher Reeve Paralysis Foundation. | Source: Getty Images
She promised that she would be with him for the rest of his life. Then she said words that saved Christoper's life:
“You’re still you and I love you.”
For the many weeks that Christopher was in the hospital, Dana drove three hours daily to see him. Throughout physical therapy, she was by his side and would even exercise his arms and legs to help him.
Actor-Director Christopher Reeve poses for journalists with his wife, Dana, and their son, Will, after being honored with a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame in Lost Angeles, CA, in this 15 April, 1997. | Source: Getty Images
Dana gave up her growing acting career to take care of Christopher and their son. Dana also
that Christopher would constantly express how much he loved being married during the first year of their marriage.
After the accident, the joy of being married turned into gratitude because Dana was so supportive. Dana's support helped Christopher believe that living as a paraplegic was possible. He realized that he needed to shift his focus from acting and being an equestrian to other activities to stay productive.
Christopher's Death and Dana's Illness
Christopher remained in a wheelchair for years, and his family remained by his side until he sadly died in 2004. Christopher died from an infection after suffering a pressure wound. Dana grieved Christopher and raised their son, Will on her own.
Actor Christopher Reeve is joined by wife Dana and son Will at SuperSkate 2001, a celebrity charity ice hockey game at Madison Square Garden. | Source: Getty Images
Life had to carry on for her and she had to continue running the Christopher Reeves Paralysis Foundation, which she and Christopher founded together. Her grief for Christopher came in waves, "I miss him most when I have a visceral memory," Dana said.
Dana added that her biggest motivator for continuing with the foundation was to prove that Christopher didn't live in vain. She and her son found unique ways to honor his memory. Will's hockey team even donated $1 for every goal they scored to the foundation. The hockey team donated thousands of dollars to the foundation.
Only ten months after Christopher's death, Dana announced that she was diagnosed with lung cancer, even though she was not a smoker. She fought cancer with everything in her and drew strength from her husband's courage after his injury.
Christopher Reeve and his wife Dana arrive for the 2003 Tony Awards at Radio City Music Hall in New York City | Source: Getty Images
"I was married to a man who never gave up," Dana said. "He taught me so much about courage and about going forward. He really was in this with me." Dana added that she felt that Christopher was with her throughout her battle with cancer:
“Now, more than ever, I feel Chris with me as I face this challenge. As always, I look to him as the ultimate example of defying the odds with strength, courage, and hope in the face of life’s adversities.”
Dana's good friend, Susan Sarandon, was just as optimistic about Dana through her battle with cancer. "She sounds really good. She's in a great frame of mind," Sarah said. However, Dana sadly died a short while later and was survived by her then 13-year-old son, Will.
After Dana passed on, she wanted Will to remain in the city where he grew up so that he was surrounded by people he knew and loved, despite having half-siblings from his father's first marriage.
Will went on to build his own career and his now a ESPN's "Sportscenter." Many have noticed that he looks almost exactly like his father, who Will lost when he was only 11.
The young man also mentioned that he felt that he had to carry on his parents' legacy and plans to do so through his father's foundation.
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