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Selma Blair’s Dating History: All the Relationships of the Actress from Jason Schwartzmann to Ron Carlson

Titi Dokubo
Jun 23, 2022
01:10 P.M.
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"Cruel Intentions" actress Selma Blair has had whirlwind success in her career and is known as a versatile and exciting actress on screen. Despite her accomplishments, the actress has experienced a few heartbreaks in her romantic life.


Selma Blair, the actress with a longstanding career, turned 50 on June 23, 2022. After graduating with degrees in English and Psychology, she moved to New York to pursue acting or photography but settled for the former.

She got her first significant role in 1999 when she starred in "Cruel Intentions" and has gone on to star in other notable films like "Legally Blonde," "The Sweetest Thing," "Hellboy," and more, including the Disney+ documentary "Introducing, Selma Blair."


In addition to her movies and series, Blair's reading of Anne Frank's "The Diary Of A Young Girl: The Definitive Edition" earned her a Grammy Award nomination for Best Spoken Word Recording.

In October 2018, the actress revealed that she had been diagnosed with multiple sclerosis. She battled with the MS flare-ups after giving birth to her son Arthur in 2011.

Blair, who was once married to writer/producer Ahmet Zappa, had welcomed her son with fashion designer Jason Bleick though their relationship did not work out. Here is an inside look into her past relationships.

Jason Bleick and Selma Blair at the launch of "Beckley By Melissa" on October 19, 2011 | Source: Getty Images



Between 2000 and 2001, Blair was dating "Rushmore" actor Jason Schwartzman before they became celebrities. During that time, her "Legally Blonde" partner, Matthew Davis, had a crush on her. Her relationship with Schwartzman ended in 2001.

In 2002, she met Ahmet Zappa, and they dated for a year before getting engaged in 2003 and married in January 2004. However, due to "irreconcilable differences," they divorced in November 2006.

Jason Schwartzman and Selma Blair at the 2000 MTV Movie Awards on June 3, 2000 | Source: Getty Images


From 2006 to 2008, Blair dated "The Sweetest Thing" actor Johnny Messner, and by December 2008, she was dating "Kath & Kim" actor Mikey Day, and their relationship ended between 2009 and 2010.

In July 2010, she was spotted on a cute movie date with singer and songwriter Josh Groban before she started dating fashion designer Bleick about the same time. Blair and Bleick split in September 2012.

In early March 2016, Blair made the headlines after she was spotted having dinner with music magnate David Foster. The actress was the first woman he was seen with after his split from Yolanda Hadid in December 2015.

Selma Blair and Ron Carlson sighted on November 18, 2017 | Source: Getty Images



Actor and producer Ron Carlson and Blair have been dating since 2017. They split in January 2018 but rekindled their romance in January 2020, just after her split from her British producer and real estate developer boyfriend, David Lyons.

Carlson and Blair split again in 2022 and filed dueling restraining orders against each other. Blair filed her restraining order in February alleging a domestic attack by Carlson in her home. Carlson filed for a temporary restraining order weeks later.

At the time of the filing, Blair's temporary restraining order would last until their court date on March 22, 2022. However, there are no details on whether the court granted her a permanent restraining order.


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