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Elizabeth and her kid | Her daughter | Source: tiktok.com/elizabethacting
Elizabeth and her kid | Her daughter | Source: tiktok.com/elizabethacting

I Came up with a Controversial Life Hack with My Daughter's Christmas Gifts & Don't Know If I Crossed the Line

Ayesha Muhammad
Dec 19, 2023
07:15 A.M.

A woman sparked a fierce debate after revealing her decision to reuse old gifts during Christmastime. Conflicted about whether this choice made her a terrible person or a literal genius, she reached out to the online community for advice.

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TikToker Elizabeth asking the online community for advice in a video dated December 1, 2023 | Source: tiktok.com/@elizabethacting

TikToker Elizabeth asking the online community for advice in a video dated December 1, 2023 | Source: tiktok.com/@elizabethacting

A mother's controversial regifting hack for her children has ignited a vigorous internet debate. Elizabeth, an actress and model, found herself torn when she stumbled upon an unconventional method of repurposing old presents, questioning its ethical implications.

In a TikTok video posted on December 1, 2023, she revealed that after her daughter's birthday in 2022, she stashed numerous gifts the child received in a basement bin, intending to offer them at a later time due to an overwhelming abundance of playthings. Throughout the past year, she also gradually purchased additional items to gift her kids on birthdays or Christmas.

Children's toys placed under a Christmas tree | Source: Pexels

Children's toys placed under a Christmas tree | Source: Pexels

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Upon retrieving some toys from storage recently, she realized that the new purchases had inadvertently mingled with the older gifts. Unable to differentiate between the items acquired earlier and the newly bought ones, Elizabeth found herself in a quandary.

Despite the confusion, she decided to select a few items and present them to her three-year-old daughter for her upcoming birthday, attributing them to herself and her husband—though some could potentially be from loved ones from the previous year.

TikToker Elizabeth with her kid, as seen in a video dated December 1, 2022 | Source: tiktok.com/@elizabethacting

TikToker Elizabeth with her kid, as seen in a video dated December 1, 2022 | Source: tiktok.com/@elizabethacting

Caught between questioning if this made her a bad person or a smarty pants, she turned to the video streaming platform to seek her followers' opinions. The video quickly gained traction, amassing 1.4 million views as of December 18, 2023.

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The Woman's Gifting Hack

Embarking on a potentially controversial strategy with her children's birthday and Christmas presents, Elizabeth shared her dilemma on TikTok, wavering between the thoughts of "You're a terrible person, you're crossing the line" and "You are a literal genius."

The comments section showed a mixed response, with some seeing Elizabeth's approach as genial and potentially effective for Christmas, while others doubted its success.

Elizabeth explained her approach, mentioning her daughter's extensive birthday celebration the previous year with ten friends present. The child not only received gifts from all her friends but also from relatives.

TikToker Elizabeth asking the online community for advice in a video dated December 1, 2023 | Source: tiktok.com/@elizabethacting

TikToker Elizabeth asking the online community for advice in a video dated December 1, 2023 | Source: tiktok.com/@elizabethacting

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Elizabeth explained that she had taken about half of the gifts and stored them downstairs in a bin because there were too many. "The gifts wouldn't even fit anywhere upstairs, and we couldn't possibly play with them all. It was overwhelming; it was too much. So we put them in a bin," she added.

With an excess of gifts for her children, Elizabeth and her husband opted for a scaled-back approach while still aiming to make holidays and birthdays memorable. They chose to acquire presents throughout the year, taking advantage of sales rather than making last-minute purchases.

A little girl looking at a Christmas tree | Source: Pexels

A little girl looking at a Christmas tree | Source: Pexels

Throughout the past year, Elizabeth explained that she and her husband had been experimenting with a new approach, where they purchased items on sale or from garage sales, storing them in the basement for future birthdays or Christmas. The TikToker mom shared this information, stating, "It's great... But I put them in the same bin of the gifts we've been collecting throughout the year."

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A happy little girl getting a Christmas gift from her mother | Source: Getty Images

A happy little girl getting a Christmas gift from her mother | Source: Getty Images

While wrapping up her daughter's birthday presents, Elizabeth wondered if they had bought a particular item or if her daughter's friend Chloe had purchased it. Holding up a puzzle, she said she didn't remember, mainly because both she and her husband contributed to the bin. She mentioned that he could have bought the puzzle, she could have bought it, or they might have acquired it at a garage sale; the specifics were unclear.

Elizabeth further expressed, "I'm gonna wrap up this gift and put 'from mom and dad,' and it might not be from us. What do you think? Does this make me a terrible person, or is this such a genius gifting hack for kids who just get way too much?"

Elizabeth holding up a puzzle in a video dated December 1, 2023 | Source: tiktok.com/@elizabethacting

Elizabeth holding up a puzzle in a video dated December 1, 2023 | Source: tiktok.com/@elizabethacting

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Elizabeth concluded her story, stating, "My kids are spoiled; they get everything; they have way too many gifts. I'm trying to do less this year while still making it a magical Christmas. It's a very fine line!"

What Do Commenters Think?

The comments section showed a mixed response, with some seeing Elizabeth's approach as genial and potentially effective for Christmas, while others doubted its success.

"She won't remember either 😂 so it's a win win," one commenter wrote. Under normal circumstances, yes you are terrible. This is definitely not a genius Christmas hack for kids, just hope that the friends or family don't say "hey didn't I get that for her last year [sic]?" a second person added.

"Genius. Soon you'll be buying laptops and $200 sneakers. Enjoy this time lol," a third user said. "My mom used to have Christmas three days after actual Christmas and called it (my last name Christmas) so she could get everything on sale," a fourth TikToker chimed.

"In this economy, a win is a win 😃😃😃😃," a fifth user quipped. "I think it was absolutely fine to take away the gifts because there was too much but regifting as if it came from you feels very wrong..." divulged another commenter.

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What do you think about this story? In your opinion, is Elizabeth's gifting hack a brilliant idea, or should she reconsider her approach?

Click here to read another story about a woman who wondered if she had overstepped with her gifts for her fiancé's family during Christmas.

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