5 Stories about People Finding out Their Siblings Are Actually Their Parents
Finding out that the person you thought was your biological parent is not can be challenging to process. Here are five stories about how people found out their siblings were their parents.
Some family secrets are not easy to keep, but revealing the truth also comes with the risk of accepting that things may change. These five Reddit users shared how they discovered their siblings were their biological parents.
1. The Big Age Gap
This Redditor explained that he was a 17-year-old boy who was the youngest of five siblings. He had three sisters, aged 30, 24, and 22, and two brothers, aged 29 and 27. However, he had always been aware of the age gap between him and his siblings.
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The gap between him and the second youngest was only five years, but with the other siblings, the 17-year-old had settled on the fact that he might have been an unplanned child. However, being the last-born came with its perks; he got all the attention and special treatment from his family and loved how everyone nurtured and spoiled him.
But out of all his brothers and sisters, he had a special connection with his eldest sister, Hannah. She was always there for him, cared for him the best she could, and Hannah would gladly step in when his mother was not around.
The Redditor always saw Hannah as a mother figure because he felt a bit more distanced from his parents, as they were much older. Unfortunately, when the 17-year-old was eight, his father died, and it took a significant toll on him.
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He had to face the same pain again when he lost his mother. She was sick and had gotten worse with time, but the loss took an even bigger toll on him. With his parents gone, his oldest sister decided to sit him down and tell him something that changed everything.
Hannah confessed that she fell pregnant at 13, and her parents wanted her to give the baby up for adoption, but she refused. Eventually, they agreed she would keep the baby, but the grandparents would be known as the Redditor's real parents.
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The 30-year-old swore never to tell, but right before her mother died, she begged her to let her tell the Redditor the truth, and her mom agreed. The teenager did not know how to respond to the big news, but Hannah assured him that he still had a mother and that it was up to him to decide how he wanted to approach their relationship.
2. The Foster Kids
A 19-year-old boy and his 34-year-old sister, Rose, had been raised by their loving adoptive family. He grew up being told that his biological parents were drug addicts who never took care of him and his sister. He was told that when he was two months old, his mother left him and Rose at a mall where a sweet old couple helped them. However, the siblings did not see them again for months and ended up living in foster care.
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His sister stayed in contact with the couple, and eventually, the pair legally adopted the siblings. One day, the 19-year-old took a DNA test because he was curious about his biological family. He discovered he had a 33-year-old aunt, whom he named Jennet. The teenager reached out to her, and they eventually met in person. He noticed they had many similarities, like the same hair color and similar eyes.
The Redditor never told Rose about the meeting. He asked Jennet if she had a brother or sister, and she told him she had a sister who fell pregnant at 13 but ran off with the baby. Jennet tried looking for them but gave up after a year and a half.
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The aunt invited the Redditor to her parents' house and showed him a picture of her sister, who turned out to be Rose. The 19-year-old discovered that his sister was his mother and that they never had drug-addict parents who abandoned them. Rose had made up the entire story.
3. Medical School vs Motherhood
Another 17-year-old boy opened up about how he discovered his 35-year-old sister was his mother. He expressed that he grew up with his sister, who was not around much because she was in medical school.
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However, she would ensure they spent as much time together as possible whenever she was around. They had a very close relationship, and the 17-year-old always felt he could tell her everything without judgment.
When his sister started dating her current husband, she spent less time with him. The Redditor never really liked the husband and how he always teased him. He even told his sister about it, but she reasoned that he had his special way of bonding with people.
One night, the couple came over for dinner and planned to spend the night, since they lived two hours away. The husband ended up having a bit too much drink, which made it even more difficult for the teenager to tolerate him.
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As he and his sister were catching up, he told her he also wanted to pursue a career in the medical field, and the husband weighed in and said it was great that the Redditor wished to follow in his mother's footsteps.
The young man tried to ignore him because he knew his mother had never worked in the medical field, but when he saw the look on his sister's face, he knew there was more to the story. He stormed off and locked himself in his room, but eventually, he came back out, and his sister told him everything.
She confessed that she fell pregnant when she was in her senior year of college. She wanted to keep the baby, and her parents were fully supportive. But she then found out that she got into her dream school.
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So, the parents agreed to raise her son while she finished school, and she would take him back later. But with time, the parents saw her become more distant and decided to adopt their grandson and raise him as their own. However, the sister still wanted to be his mother, and his parents assured him they still loved him. The news was difficult to digest even though the Redditor understood why his biological mother made the decision.
4. The Tragic Car Accident
Despite their considerable age gap, a 15-year-old boy had always had a close relationship with his eldest sister, 29. The family would even joke about her still living at home and not having a boyfriend, but the sister would say she was staying to take care of him and to make sure he stayed out of trouble.
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One day, the two were in the kitchen making an anniversary meal for their parents. The Redditor noticed that his sister was much quieter than usual. He tried to cheer her up, but nothing was working.
Eventually, he noticed her hands shaking and hugged her from behind. He thought she might not be feeling well, but she immediately burst into tears. She could barely get her words out, yet she managed to say, "I can't do this anymore," followed by, "I just want my little one."
The teenager was still very confused about what was happening, and his sister could not stop crying. When she finally calmed down, she continued emphasizing how she could not keep going on as normal and wanted her "little boy."
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Still, the 15-year-old was confused until his parents decided to intervene. They asked his sister if she was sure about revealing the truth and warned her that everything would change. Either way, the parents were willing to support her.
The sister still kept choking on her words, so her parents took over and told the Redditor that his sister had fallen pregnant when she was 13. She was in love with the boy she was dating then, and they believed they were soulmates.
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At first, it was agreed that she could get an abortion, but her boyfriend and his family died in a tragic car accident. The loss was gutwrenching, and the sister could not go through with terminating her pregnancy, especially since the child would have been the one thing she had left from her boyfriend.
Eventually, it made sense to the Redditor that the baby in question was him. His sister showed him never-before-seen family pictures of her while she was pregnant and breastfeeding and photos of him on his first day of school.
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It finally clicked that his parents had been distant so as to allow his sister to take on a motherly role. She was always there to assist him with his homework, give him advice, and help him with many of the challenges he faced.
5. The Right Time
This Redditor kept the story of how he discovered his brother was his father pretty brief. He said he had been living with his grandparents, but he clashed a lot with his grandmother. One random day after dinner, his brother told him that he was his dad. He said it felt like the time was right for the Redditor to finally know the truth.
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The brother asked the young man to move in with him, and he agreed, but he still got along with his grandparents and only lived ten minutes away from them. "I even still call them Mom and Dad because it would be really weird not to after 16 years," he added. His brother had always been present in his life. However, he never got to know his mother.
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