I Kicked My Maid of Honor Out of My Wedding with 5 Days’ Notice after Finding out about Her Secret

A bride was excited to see what her maid of honor had put together for her bachelorette party but it was underwhelming. She later found out it was because her closest friend had kept a big secret that threatened to unravel their friendship.

A bride took to Reddit to reveal why she ended up making the tough decision to remove one of her closest friends from her wedding. It was just five days before her wedding, and the 23-year-old bride had put her Maid of Honor (MOH) in charge of planning her bachelorette party.

The bride had already envisioned the perfect party she would have wanted and hoped for a fun night out in a downtown hotel. She mentioned that most of her friends lived in the city but not downtown, and two had flown in for the special event. However, as the bride anticipated her bachelorette party, little did she know it would unveil a hidden secret that would change everything.

The weekend of the bachelorette party, her MOH picked her up, and the Redditor could not wait to see where the road was leading. Unfortunately, they ended up at her MOH's small town home, where they spent the entire weekend.

There were eight of them, so the town was a bit cramped for everyone. But the weekend festivities included a night of playing games and ordering pizza. On Saturday, they had a mimosa bar and went shopping, then parted ways on Sunday.

The Original Poster (OP) admitted, “It wasn’t the bachelorette party of my dreams or a particularly fun weekend, but it was ok, and I appreciated it.” At the time she was celebrating, her husband-to-be was on a work trip, so she was ready to catch him up on the weekend.

After she told him what the MOH put together, he was shocked but did not say much for the rest of the night. The next morning, the OP got a message from her MOH telling her she had something to tell her.

The days leading up to the wedding were meant to be a time celebration, but things took an unexpected turn, revealing a secret that threatened the two women's friendship. The MOH confessed that the OP’s fiancé had given her a large amount of money for them to have a week-long vacation out of town. The money was more than enough to cover flights, hotel, food, drinks, and activities.

While the OP’s fiancé had planned for a bigger bachelorette party, she still insisted that a weekend at a hotel would have been perfect. Regardless of how cramped and unexpected the weekend her MOH planned was, she was still fine with how it turned out.

But after finding out that her friend had been given the money a year in advance to make the party special, the OP felt betrayed. The MOH confessed that instead of using the funds as intended, she used them to pay off her credit card debt.

The OP was shocked and needed time to process everything. She told her fiancé about it, and he suggested that the MOH be removed from the wedding. After pondering over the issue longer, the bride decided she could not have such a friend stand beside her on her wedding day.

The MOH’s mother and boyfriend thought the OP was being mean since the MOH benefited financially from her actions and suggested that the bride's desire for a grand party was unnecessary. The MOH cried and pleaded to be included but the bride stood her ground.

The wedding went ahead without the MOH, and the newlyweds enjoyed their day and honeymoon. Upon returning, they began legal proceedings against her to make sure she was held accountable for her actions and to prevent such a situation from happening to anyone else. Although they do not expect to recover the misused funds, they plan to donate any potential proceeds from the legal action.

This decision sparked a significant interest online, especially when details of the financial aspects came to light. People were curious to know more about the financial dynamics of the situation, and how much the fiancé had given the MOH. When OP revealed it was a whopping $25,000, Redditors wondered how rich the couple must be for them to let such a huge amount of money go without a fight.

While the OP was caught between those who thought she was wrong for removing her MOH from the wedding and those who thought she was right to do so, many in the comment section took the bride’s side, insinuating that the MOH stole the money. Additionally, people said she took away the experience her fiance wanted to have with her friends.

One commenter added, “That’s not the actions of a friend or someone you can trust. Unless she offered to pay back your husband for the money she misappropriated, I’d probably tell her you don’t want to associate with her.” Do you think the OP was wrong to remove her closest friend from her wedding?

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