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My In-Laws Ended Up Cursing Me at the Wedding, Making All of Us Cry in the Bridal Suite

Claudine Varela
Mar 20, 2024
01:00 P.M.
  • Elle Kelly's journey from choosing a bridesmaid dress to igniting a family feud becomes a viral tale on TikTok.
  • The reaction from her in-laws over the dress decision unveils deep-seated tensions, taking center stage in the wedding preparations.
  • The drama culminates during the wedding which ends with all of them in tears in the bridal suite.
  • The story doesn't end at the wedding; Elle shares the lasting impact of that day on her marriage and where life took her and her husband afterward.
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Three bridesmaids in pink dresses | Source: Shutterstock

Three bridesmaids in pink dresses | Source: Shutterstock

Elle Kelly's wedding story, shared in two parts on TikTok, opens a window into an unexpected drama that unfolded around her big day. Instead of the joy and celebration you'd expect, a simple choice about a bridesmaid dress led to a surprising conflict with her in-laws.

This wasn't just any wedding preparation hiccup; it spiraled into a situation that tested relationships and brought to light the challenges of blending families.

Elle Kelly as she begins to narrate her story on TikTok | Source: tiktok/itstheelleshow2.0

Elle Kelly as she begins to narrate her story on TikTok | Source: tiktok/itstheelleshow2.0

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Starting with the search for the perfect bridesmaid dress under a tight deadline, Elle thought she had found a solution that would work for everyone.

Little did she know, this decision would spark a series of events that turned what should have been a happy occasion into a lesson in family dynamics, misunderstandings, and the search for common ground.

Several bridesmaid dresses hanging from a rod | Source: Shutterstock

Several bridesmaid dresses hanging from a rod | Source: Shutterstock

Elle's story isn't just about the stress of wedding planning; it's a deeper look into how traditions, expectations, and personal relationships can collide in unexpected ways.

As she recounts the reactions of her in-laws and the impact on her bridal party, viewers are left wondering: How did a decision made with the best intentions lead to such turmoil? And what does this tell us about the complexities of modern family life?

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A bride sitting on a couch in deep thought | Source: Shutterstock

A bride sitting on a couch in deep thought | Source: Shutterstock

Elle Kelly, at just 22 years old, found herself in the thick of planning what was meant to be the happiest day of her life. With a heart full of dreams and a head swirling with wedding plans, she faced the daunting task of organizing her wedding earlier than expected.

Papers and wedding paraphernalia scattered on a table, along with a cup of coffee, a pair of eyeglasses, and a notebook with the words "To Do List" scribbled on the first page | Source: Shutterstock

Papers and wedding paraphernalia scattered on a table, along with a cup of coffee, a pair of eyeglasses, and a notebook with the words "To Do List" scribbled on the first page | Source: Shutterstock

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Among the many decisions she had to make, one was choosing the right dresses for her 13 bridesmaids—a mix of close friends and family members who were to stand by her side on her big day.

Finding a dress that would suit everyone, arrive on time, and not break the bank was no small feat. After much searching, Elle thought she had struck gold. She found a dress that ticked all the boxes: it was beautiful, it was $200, and it could be delivered quickly.

A woman wearing a bridesmaid dress | Source: Shutterstock

A woman wearing a bridesmaid dress | Source: Shutterstock

In her mind, this was the perfect solution to a time-sensitive problem. She imagined her bridesmaids, each unique in their own way, coming together in these dresses, forming a picturesque scene of unity and celebration.

However, the dream soon faced its first hurdle. The dress, which seemed so promising, did not sit well with her future sister-in-law. Despite Elle's best efforts, the fit and look of the dress on her sister-in-law-to-be were far from ideal.

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A woman looking at herself in the mirror and appearing unhappy | Source: Shutterstock

A woman looking at herself in the mirror and appearing unhappy | Source: Shutterstock

This was a disappointment, but to Elle, it seemed like a minor setback. Little did she know, this issue with the dress would take on a life of its own, transforming from a simple matter of fit to a full-blown family conflict.

Elle recalls, "I had to find a bridesmaid dress that would fit everybody and be delivered super fast and would be affordable. I found the best dress I could find." Her choice was practical, considering the circumstances, but it unexpectedly ignited a firestorm.

A row of bridesmaids wearing read dresses and holding flower bouquets | Source: Shutterstock

A row of bridesmaids wearing read dresses and holding flower bouquets | Source: Shutterstock

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The dissatisfaction with the dress quickly evolved into a narrative that painted Elle as inconsiderate and cruel—a narrative she could never have anticipated.

The situation quickly turned from bad to worse. It wasn't just about the dress not looking right anymore; Elle's in-laws made it a much bigger issue. They started blaming her for everything, saying she was being mean on purpose.

A woman angrily pointing her finger at another woman | Source: Shutterstock

A woman angrily pointing her finger at another woman | Source: Shutterstock

Elle couldn't believe it when her father-in-law, who she thought would understand, actually called her and yelled at her. He said she was cruel for not picking a dress that made his daughter look as good as she should at the wedding.

Elle was shocked. She had just tried to pick a dress that worked for everyone, but now she was being called cruel.

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A man expressing anger on the phone | Source: Shutterstock

A man expressing anger on the phone | Source: Shutterstock

Another problem Elle had to deal with was her future sister-in-law’s hesitance to change with the rest of the bridesmaids because she didn’t like her dress. Trying to fix things, Elle came up with a new idea.

She thought maybe her sister-in-law would feel better if she didn't have to get ready in the same room as the other bridesmaids since the dress was causing so much trouble. Elle suggested she could get ready with the guys and with her brother. "They can spend some time together," she justified.

An unhappy woman in a black dress | Source: Shutterstock

An unhappy woman in a black dress | Source: Shutterstock

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Elle hoped this would make her sister-in-law feel more at ease and less upset about the dress situation. But this idea didn't go over well at all. Instead of seeing it as a helpful suggestion, her "monster-in-law" as Elle called her MIL, took it as another sign that Elle was being mean.

A man and a woman expressing contempt | Source: Shutterstock

A man and a woman expressing contempt | Source: Shutterstock

She couldn't believe Elle would suggest such a thing and told her it was a terrible idea. She said it was just another way Elle was trying to upset their daughter.

Elle was trying to be helpful and solve a problem, but her in-laws saw it as something completely different. They thought Elle was making things worse on purpose.

An older woman and a younger woman, their arms folded in anger | Source: Shutterstock

An older woman and a younger woman, their arms folded in anger | Source: Shutterstock

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Elle felt it was unfair. Considering she had 12 other bridesmaids, she was trying her best to make her sister-in-law feel comfortable.

"I was not friends with this girl. I did not know her really at all. She was just my soon-to-be sister-in-law and I was trying to accommodate everybody and enjoy my own wedding," she reasoned.

Elle Kelly narrating her frustrations about the her in-laws | Source: tiktok/itstheelleshow2.0

Elle Kelly narrating her frustrations about the her in-laws | Source: tiktok/itstheelleshow2.0

This whole ordeal was getting more stressful by the minute. Elle had hoped for a happy wedding planning experience, but now she found herself in the middle of a big family argument.

It was supposed to be a time of joy, but instead, Elle felt like she was walking on eggshells, trying not to upset anyone further. But there was more to come.

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A woman rubbing her temples out of distress | Source: Shutterstock

A woman rubbing her temples out of distress | Source: Shutterstock

As Elle looks back on what happened, it's clear that the whole situation got out of hand because her in-laws were more interested in pointing fingers than trying to understand.

Elle was doing her best to make everyone happy and ensure her wedding day would be one to remember for all the right reasons. But no matter what she did, it seemed to backfire, and her in-laws' anger just kept growing.

A man and a woman expressing their anger towards another woman | Source: Shutterstock

A man and a woman expressing their anger towards another woman | Source: Shutterstock

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The tension that had been building up for weeks reached its breaking point right before the wedding.

It was supposed to be a time filled with excitement and last-minute preparations, but instead, Elle found herself dealing with anger and accusations from her in-laws. They wouldn't let go of the dress issue, and their hostility was almost too much for Elle to bear.

A woman looking sad as she holds a wedding dress | Source: Shutterstock

A woman looking sad as she holds a wedding dress | Source: Shutterstock

On the wedding day itself, things went from bad to worse. Elle’s in-laws took the opportunity to publicly criticize her, going as far as to curse her out and deliver rude speeches.

What should have been the happiest day of Elle's life turned into a day filled with stress and tears. In the bridal suite, a place that should have been a sanctuary for Elle and her bridesmaids to get ready and share joyful moments, everything came crashing down.

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A bride crying on the floor | Source: Shutterstock

A bride crying on the floor | Source: Shutterstock

Elle, her friends who were there to support her, and surprisingly, even her in-laws, ended up in tears. The air was heavy with emotions, and instead of laughter and excitement, there was tension and sadness.

The way Elle's in-laws acted at her wedding really changed the day. It showed how much family issues can affect big moments in our lives and how important it is to talk to and understand each other to get through tough times.

Unhappy bride in sitting on a couch as the groom gestures to her | Source: Shutterstock

Unhappy bride in sitting on a couch as the groom gestures to her | Source: Shutterstock

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The reaction to Elle's videos extended beyond mere views and likes; they sparked a wave of solidarity and concern from her audience.

The comments section became a space for people to share their own experiences with difficult in-laws, offering support and understanding to Elle. Many were appalled by the treatment she received, especially on a day that should have been filled with nothing but happiness and love.

A distressed bride in the bedroom | Source: Shutterstock

A distressed bride in the bedroom | Source: Shutterstock

One of the most poignant questions came from a viewer who asked, "Sooo where was the groom in all of this?!? Why didn’t he check his fam?!”

This question struck a chord with many who felt that Elle's husband should have played a more active role in mediating the conflict.

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A bride and groom seated at a bench, both looking away from each other | Source: Shutterstock

A bride and groom seated at a bench, both looking away from each other | Source: Shutterstock

Elle's response to this question: "He said nothing until I cried to him at the wedding about how upsetting this was."

This shed light on her feelings of abandonment and isolation during what was arguably one of the most significant moments of her life. It wasn't just the conflict with her in-laws that marked the day but the absence of support from her partner when she needed it the most.

Woman looking upset while the man in the background seems unbothered | Source: Shutterstock

Woman looking upset while the man in the background seems unbothered | Source: Shutterstock

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Other viewers chimed in with their thoughts and advice. Comments like, “Girls - these are the red flags - RUN! So sorry you had to go through this luv,” reflected the empathy and outrage felt by Elle’s audience.

Some questioned the presence and actions of Elle’s own family during these conflicts, asking, “Where were your parents and family at bc mine would shut them up real quick. the 1st word spoken and my mom would have taken her out.”

A bride sulking outdoors | Source: Shutterstock

A bride sulking outdoors | Source: Shutterstock

Another viewer connected with Elle’s experience, sharing, “My mil never even said hello to me at my wedding.” To which Elle replied, “Sounds like a nice lady 😂.”

The conversation also turned to the topic of friendship and support networks. One commenter, puzzled by the large bridal party, asked, “How do you know 13 girlfriends, my daughter is 23 and struggles to get one girl if she gets engaged, she’s very sweet.”

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A row of bridesmaids in pink, each carrying a flower bouquet | Source: Shutterstock

A row of bridesmaids in pink, each carrying a flower bouquet | Source: Shutterstock

Elle responded with, “I’m a Gemini- I consider everyone to be my friend. I also don’t really hold grudges but these people are still bothering me 11 yrs later & I’m sick of it!”

Before we conclude Elle's story, it's crucial to acknowledge the aftermath of her wedding day struggles. This difficult experience with her in-laws wasn't just a one-day issue; it was something that Elle had to deal with for 8 and a half years.

Elle Kelly narrating what happened for years after the wedding | Source: tiktok/itstheelleshow2.0

Elle Kelly narrating what happened for years after the wedding | Source: tiktok/itstheelleshow2.0

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During this time, the problems from her wedding day kept coming back, affecting her life and her relationship with her husband. Ultimately, Elle and her husband, with whom she shares three children, decided to part ways.

A piece of document indicating divorce and a pair of wedding rings | Source: Shutterstock

A piece of document indicating divorce and a pair of wedding rings | Source: Shutterstock

Thinking about Elle's story makes us wonder, how do we make sure we keep family traditions but also respect what each person wants, especially during big moments like weddings?

What part should our partners have in solving family disagreements? And how do we make sure people listen to us and respect our personal limits without upsetting our family and friends?

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Two women having a discussion | Source: Shutterstock

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Consider sharing your thoughts or similar experiences. Have you faced challenges with in-laws or during your wedding planning? How did you handle them, and what lessons did you learn? Your insights could offer comfort or guidance to someone navigating similar waters.

Join the conversation in the comments section of our Facebook post. And if Elle's story resonated with you, share it with others. By fostering a community of support and understanding, we can help each other through life's toughest challenges, reminding one another that we're not alone.

I Kicked My Bridesmaid Out of My Wedding via Text – I Believe She Deserved It

One woman was looking forward to relishing the bond between a bride and her bridesmaids, which symbolizes friendship, loyalty, and solidarity. However, the bride was taken on a rough ride by one of her bridesmaids and she had to kick her out of her wedding via text.

Bridesmaids in red dresses holding bouquets of Gerber daisies. | Source: Shutterstock

Bridesmaids in red dresses holding bouquets of Gerber daisies. | Source: Shutterstock

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The bride shared on TikTok that she believed this bridesmaid deserved what she got, narrating what she took her through. The TikToker said she and the bridesmaid, whom she called Vanessa, had been in each other's lives since elementary school.

However, in middle school, Vanessa moved three hours away. The bride and Vanessa maintained contact and even agreed to hang out whenever they were in the same town. In October 2021, Vanessa went to the bride's town and they went out for coffee, spending five hours together.

The bride | Source: Tiktok/@perfume.jpg

The bride | Source: Tiktok/@perfume.jpg

After spending this moment together, they both agreed that they had so much fun that they would love to meet and hang out again. However, over the years, when the bride made plans with Vanessa, she never came through.

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A bride posing with her bridesmaid as they preparing for the wedding. | Source: Getty Images

A bride posing with her bridesmaid as they preparing for the wedding. | Source: Getty Images

The bride explained, "Either one of three things would happen. First thing she just wouldn’t answer, second, she'd give me an excuse but not reschedule the day, so let's say I was like, ‘Hey, wanna hang out on Saturday?' She goes, no, I'm busy and so I'd be like no I can hang out on Sunday, though. Number three, we would be in the middle of planning something and she would just disappear."

The bride | Source: Tiktok/@perfume.jpg

The bride | Source: Tiktok/@perfume.jpg

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Eventually, the bride figured out that Vanessa just didn't want to hang out with her again, so she stepped back. In January 2023, the bride texted Vanessa, letting her know that her 21st birthday was coming up and that she'd love to celebrate it with her alongside some of her other friends.

The bride's birthday was in February 2023. So, when she called Vanessa, she asked her to pick the weekend they would celebrate, which would fit into her schedule as she was always so busy. "I am free on the 24th and 25th," said Vanessa. With this information at hand, the bride created a group chat with all her friends, including Vanessa to begin her birthday plans.

Bride and bridesmaids toasting. | Source: Getty Images

Bride and bridesmaids toasting. | Source: Getty Images

For the next few weeks, the bride sent messages about her birthday plans to the group and realized that everyone else was responding except Vanessa. A week before her birthday, the bride still hadn't heard anything from Vanessa, so she texted her separately asking her if she was still going to her birthday.

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Vanessa texted back, "Hang on I'm at work," to which the bride replied, "Okay." Still, Vanessa never got back to her for the rest of the day. The bride had to text Vanessa again the next day asking if she would attend her birthday celebrations over the weekend.

The bride | Source: Tiktok/@perfume.jpg

The bride | Source: Tiktok/@perfume.jpg

This time Vanessa replied, telling the bride that she found out a few weeks ago that one of her family members was coming to town on the birthday weekend so she would have to bail on her. The bride recalled, "I was like, I did tell you about this a month ago, and she goes, I know but they don't come to town very often, I hope you have fun though."

The bride just replied, "Okay, thanks for letting me know." Vanessa then told the bride that she would love to catch up with her over the summer. As usual, Vanessa never reached out over the summer and the bride didn't bother making plans with her as she felt they wouldn't materialize as is the norm.

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The bride poses with her bridesmaids, makes faces and has fun. | Source: Getty Images

The bride poses with her bridesmaids, makes faces and has fun. | Source: Getty Images

In August 2023, Vanessa finally reached out to the bride. They made plans and the bride drove three hours to her hometown to see her and her parents. The two agreed to stay in an Airbnb for two days and split the cost.

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