Long Island 17-Year-Old Allegedly Kills Ex-Girlfriend, 18, Then Shoots Himself — Full Details

She thought it was just another goodbye, but it would become her final one. What should have been a simple exchange between two teenagers ended in bloodshed.

An 18-year-old woman was allegedly shot and killed by her 17-year-old ex-boyfriend at his home in Nesconset, New York, on the morning of Wednesday, November 26, 2025, according to Suffolk County Police.

The suspect, identified as Austin Lynch, then allegedly turned the gun on himself, shooting himself in the face. The teenager's name was initially withheld because of his age.

Teen Love Turns Fatal in the Suburbs

The victim, identified as Emily Finn of West Sayville, was pronounced dead at the scene around 11:10 a.m. Lynch, who is now 18, survived the self-inflicted gunshot wound and was taken to Stony Brook University Hospital in critical but stable condition.

Authorities confirmed he will be charged with second-degree murder and arraigned when his condition allows.

Police said Lynch's parents placed the 911 call after the shooting took place at their home on Shenandoah Boulevard North. Investigators later confirmed that Finn had gone to the house to return some of the boy's belongings following their recent breakup.

Suffolk County Det. Lt. Kevin Beyrer, who leads the department's homicide bureau, said the couple had no history of domestic violence. He added that no prior 911 calls were recorded involving the two teens at that address.

A 'Puppy Love That Stopped Making Sense': Friends Speak Up

A family friend of the suspect told reporters that the alleged shooter had been heartbroken over the end of their teenage romance and had taken it hard. Finn had just started her first year of college at SUNY Oneonta, while the boy had been preparing to enter the military.

The friend, who said he had known Lynch since age four, remarked, "It was young puppy love that stopped making sense. It wasn't going to work. Most of these young relationships don't."

He added, "I don't know where this went wrong and what led to such an extreme reaction," and expressed his disgust at what had occurred.

The tragedy unfolded during Finn's return home for Thanksgiving break. Her death has left her community devastated and searching for answers. She would have turned nineteen next year.

A Community Shattered: 'She Just Had That Special Spark'

The funeral for Finn was held Sunday, November 30, at Raynor & D'Andrea Funeral Home in West Sayville. Over 1,000 mourners filled the venue, many of them wearing pink — her favorite color — in a show of love and remembrance.

Inside, her pink ballet slippers, a photo of her playing the flute in the marching band, and reminders of her many achievements were displayed beside her ashes, laid gently in a pink box.

"She just had that special spark," said her friend Heather, who helped organize the GoFundMe page that has since raised more than $86,000 for her family.

"She was so full of life, and she loved her family and her brother and her grandparents so much. All she ever wanted was to do good for the world, and it all got taken away, just like that. I can't stop crying," she shared.

Finn was a graduate of Sayville High School and had trained at the American Ballet Studio in Bayport, where she landed the lead role in a local production of "Nutcracker" the previous year. She was studying to become a teacher.

"Emily was the best, just the best," said another grieving friend. "She was an amazing dancer and an amazing friend, and such a family person. Being around all these people who love her so much, I keep imagining her being among them, living and smiling. I'm just completely crushed. I'm devastated."

'You Never Think It Will Hit So Close to Home': Locals Express Their Sorrow

Residents expressed disbelief that such a tragic event could occur in their quiet, tight-knit community. One neighbor, who spoke to the New York Post and asked not to be named, said the suspect's family was known to be involved in the neighborhood and had never shown signs of trouble.

Another resident remarked, "It's terrible. It's sad, and you never think it will hit so close to home. It's crazy."

As of December 1, the investigation remains ongoing. The Suffolk County District Attorney's Office has confirmed that the accused — now legally an adult — will face charges as soon as he is physically able to appear in court.

Another Town, Another Tragedy

As communities across the country continue to reel from senseless violence, another devastating incident just days later has left a California city in mourning.

On the evening of November 29, 2025, what began as a joyful gathering at a restaurant on the 1900 block of Lucile Avenue turned into a nightmare. Multiple lives were shattered in seconds as a shooter turned toward partygoers, killing four people, including an innocent child, and injuring ten others.

The San Joaquin County Sheriff's Office revealed that emergency calls flooded in just before 6 p.m., as terrified patrons fled. Four people unfortunately couldn't escape.

Among the ten injured, some were rushed to nearby hospitals, but their conditions remain unclear. As of midnight on November 30, the scene of the shooting was still active, with police scouring for clues, as the suspect is still at large.

A Community Reeling

Sheriff's Office spokesperson Heather Brent shared a chilling detail, "Early indications suggest this may be a targeted incident, and investigators are exploring all possibilities."

But even as detectives dig for answers, the city's heart is breaking.

In a press conference held in the early hours of Sunday, Stockton's Mayor Christina Fugazi called this situation "unacceptable," as families were supposed to be gathered for a joyous occasion, not at the hospital begging for their loved one's lives.

A Desperate Plea for Information

She also implored the public to come forward with any detail that could help catch the person or people behind this horror. "Our city is better than that," she added.

The Sheriff's Office echoed the appeal on social media, "Community assistance is vital in helping us identify those responsible and bring justice to the victims and their loved ones."

San Joaquin County District Attorney Ron Freitas stepped in to assure the public that no stone would be left unturned.

He said multiple agencies were actively engaged in the investigation and promised that his office would use the full force of the law to ensure whoever was behind this faces the consequences for this senseless crime.

Authorities have urged the public to stay away from the area as the investigation into this tragedy continues. California currently has one of the strictest firearms laws in the country, yet incidents still happen.

Rappers' Alleged Presence

As news of this shooting spread, new allegations began to swirl. In a bombshell post, local media 209 Times claimed that local rappers MBnel and Fly Boy Doughy were present. Even more chilling: the report alleged that it was Fly Boy Doughy's own daughter's birthday party.

But they were quick to clarify: the information came from "the streets" and "sources in law enforcement," and has not yet been officially confirmed.

On Facebook, Kevin Steele stated that while the San Joaquin County authorities have confirmed this was a targeted attack, reports that MBnel himself was present are still too premature to verify. The story, he warned, is still developing.

MBnel, best known for his track "Feelings," has posted about his own young daughter in the past, including a birthday message last year on October 29.

Fans Flood Social Media With Panic and Prayers

Although the rapper's presence at the scene remains unverified, the internet exploded with speculation and concern. Fans and followers swarmed his social media accounts, desperate for answers and fearing the worst.

"You good bro???" one netizen wrote, panicked. Amid the confusion, others sent a flood of support and hope. "Pull thru🙏🏼," one urged. "Hope you good bro 🙏🏽," another echoed.

"Prayers brother!!! 🖤🖤🖤" someone added, as worry spread through the rapper's online community. One message said, "Nel I hope you feel better I heard about the shooting."

Our thoughts are with those affected as a city mourns what should have been a child's happiest day.