My lover threatens to share revealing photos if I leave him

Manuela Cardiga
Jun 29, 2018
07:05 P.M.

Dear AmoMama,


I am in a very complicated situation, and I can see no way out. I'm 35 years old, and I've been married for 12 years. My husband is a successful man and a good provider, and we have two lovely children - a boy, 8, and a little girl now 4.

Three months ago when my husband was away on a business trip, and my children were spending the weekend with my parents, I went out with some girlfriends on a 'girl's night'.

I ran into one of my husband's bosses, a charming older man. We had a few drinks and one thing led to another. We became intimate and ended up spending the weekend together at his house.

It was never meant to be more than a one-off affair, as far as I was concerned. I had no intention of placing my marriage and my lifestyle at risk for some sentimental attachment.

Unfortunately, he took it much more seriously and continued to pursue me. I met up with him a few more times, then I told him it was over.

This man is now threatening to expose me as a cheat and said he would post intimate photos he had taken of me on the Internet for all the world to see.

He says if I do not continue seeing him, he will ruin my marriage and I will lose everything since I signed a prenup that stipulates that I will get nothing if I am proved unfaithful.


My husband has been asking me awkward questions and I think he suspects something. This man phones me constantly, claiming that he is in love with me and will not go away.

If I refuse to continue seeing him, he will destroy my life; if I continue the relationship I am sure that my husband will find out.

He keeps saying I am the One, but honestly, for me, he was just a bit of fun. How can I make this man see that this has to stop?

If you need help or advice, reach out to us, and thousands of women just like you who are struggling with the difficulties of life. You are not alone, we are here for you, and we listen; so write to us anonymously using this form.

Please fill in your e-mail so we can share with you our top stories!
By subscribing, you agree to our Privacy Policy
Related posts

53-Year-Old Woman Gives Birth to Twins, Son-In-Law Notices Familiar Birthmarks on Them — Story of the Day

February 01, 2024

Wife Finds Out That Her Husband Is Hiding Millions of Dollars from Her – Story of the Day

December 18, 2023

Daughter Left Her Dad with Nothing After Her Granny's Death for a Good Reason — Story of the Day

February 09, 2024

Elderly Cook Feeds Homeless Man after Shift Daily, Notices Missing Husband's Watch on His Wrist — Story of the Day

December 07, 2023

My Abusive Husband Stormed into My Workplace Threatening Me, I Decided to Fight Back – Story of the Day

February 22, 2024

Elderly Couple Divorces after 53 Years of Marriage, Later Man Sees Ex-wife Dating in Cafe — Story of the Day

February 04, 2024

Wife Wakes Up from Coma and Surprisingly Points Finger at Her Caring Husband: "It was him" – Story of the Day

December 07, 2023

Suspicious Wife Got into a Taxi and Offered Whatever Price for Following the Car – Story of the Day

October 30, 2023

I Spotted My Husband at Lunch Instead of His Business Trip & Decided to Find Out Who He’s Waiting For

March 14, 2024

35 Paternity Stories That Went Completely Wrong

December 06, 2023

Elderly Cook Feeds Homeless Man after Work Daily, Notices Missing Husband's Watch on His Wrist — Story of the Day

December 20, 2023

Rude Boss Humiliates a Beggar Outside the Office, Gets Punished by His Employees the Next Day – Story of the Day

December 27, 2023

35 People Who Went on Their Worst First Dates Ever

November 01, 2023

Man Forgets His Bride After Returning from the Army – Story of the Day

December 07, 2023