Man Found Out Wife Had an Abortion While Preparing Surprise for Her – Life Story

They had been together for seven years but had been married for six, and their relationship was what anyone would call the perfect relationship.

According to the Reddit user Nnrg92, he and his wife had a whirlwind romance, and even when they argued, their arguments were nothing but loving as they had always "got" each other.

However, dark clouds hovered around their relationship, and his bubble was about to burst. His wife had been keeping a secret, and he recently uncovered it.

The OP (Original Poster) asked for advice as he didn't know what else to do. He never expected his wife to keep secrets from him.

He was married to the love of his life, and everything according to him was perfect. One day, while she was away, he decided he was going to make dinner for them.

Not only was he going to make dinner, but he planned to make a recipe she had seen online and wanted to try. He thought this would be the perfect surprise for her.

To find the recipe in question, he needed to go through her browser history on her laptop. Unfortunately for him, a nasty surprise was waiting in her history.

OP revealed that they both had their own laptops and never used each other's computers. His wife never had a reason to delete her browser history since he never checked her laptop.

He had found out from her browser history that she had researched clinics and how to cope after having an abortion. From the dates of her search, he remembered she had taken one of her business trips soon after.

He immediately texted her to come home as soon as possible because he didn't want to jump to conclusions and was trying to rationalize everything he had seen.

As soon as she got back home, he confronted her with his findings, and that was when she broke down, started to confess, and apologized. She had been having an affair.

His wife revealed that the affair started with her colleague when they went on a business trip together. They both got drunk and having an affair was something that became exciting to them.

The affair continued, and he started going on business trips with her. Even when there were no official trips, she would make up one to spend time with her lover. A user then commented,

"Your SO has betrayed your love, trust, everything. I would get tested for STDs."

The OP was hurt not only because she had an affair but because she had aborted a child that could have been his. She knew how much he wanted kids.

The only reason they had not started trying for kids was that they wanted to move houses first. Now, his world is shattered because she was drunk and bored. Another user then said,

"I guess the real question is, can you ever trust her again? Next time she goes on a business trip, what will you be thinking about? How long will you be able to stand this?"

Users of the platform believe that she cannot be trusted and might have hidden other things he hadn't found out. Others believe that his wife wasn't sorry she cheated, but she was sorry she got caught.

Even though he still loved her, the OP had not been able to look her in the face because he knew that he did nothing wrong that would have caused her to have an affair. On that note, another user said,

"She had an affair, and it was pure luck (and carelessness on her part) that you found out about it.

At the time of writing, he decided to take a couple of days off to stay with his parents and wondered if he could salvage things.

She had kept calling him, trying to talk, and wanting to work on things. What do you think the OP should do in this case?

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