60-Year-Old Woman Gives Birth to Her First Child, Husband Dumps Her Right on the Same Day
A woman wished for a child of her own for a long time, but her many efforts were in vain. Years after trying, she felt over the moon when her lifelong dream became a reality. Little did she know that something heart-wrenching would soon overshadow her newfound happiness.
Some of the most worthwhile things in life might take a long time to come into play. Interestingly, they're worth the wait because they change our lives for the better, inspiring a profound sense of belonging and ecstasy.
An older woman experienced something similar when her heartfelt wish was fulfilled after a long wait. But was it everything she hoped and prayed for? Take a look at the full story below.
A Heartfelt Wish
Like any woman, Atifa Ljajic yearned to embrace motherhood. She longed to hold a baby in her arms and live in a home that echoed with children's cackles. But the retired textile factory worker didn't know how long it would take for her wish to come true.
Atifa Ljajic talking about baby Alina during a July 4, 2017 interview | Source: Facebook/Internet portal RTS-a
Atifa and her husband, Serif Nokic, tried to get pregnant for many years. They consulted doctors and medical experts, but nothing worked. The Serbian woman was on the brink of giving up when she learned something astonishing.
Atifa Ljajic's baby, Alina, taking a nap during a July 4, 2017 interview | Source: Facebook/Internet portal RTS-a
With her 60th birthday coming around in 2017, she found out that she was expecting her first and only baby through fertility treatment. Atifa shared how she became pregnant through in-vitro fertilization (IVF) on her fifth attempt, which was an unlikely scenario.
Becoming a Mother at 60
Although being pregnant at about 60 years of age might have subjected Atifa to undue attention, negative comments, and harsh remarks from people, all she cared about was becoming a mother and loving her child.
Like Atifa, a German woman was slammed by critics when she decided to have a child at 65.
On June 20, 2017, Atifa welcomed her first child and daughter, Alina, in the capital of Belgrade and became Serbia's second-oldest woman to give birth. Her pregnancy was considered high-risk, and she spent almost three months in the hospital leading up to Alina's birth.
Atifa Ljajic holding baby Alina in her arms during a July 4, 2017 interview | Source: Facebook/Internet portal RTS-a
An Unexpected Occurrence
Atifa also struggled with health problems like high blood pressure, but she was still determined to become a new mother. Her husband admitted to repeatedly warning her about the dangers of carrying a baby at her age.
Serif went with the idea, although he initially opposed the pregnancy. However, in a tragic turn of events, he chose to leave Atifa the day their baby arrived in Novi Pazar in western Serbia's Raska District.
Atifa Ljajic holding baby Alina in her arms during a July 4, 2017 interview | Source: Facebook/Internet portal RTS-a
Why Atifa’s Husband Left Her and Their Child
On why he left his wife and newborn, Serif explained that he was too old and weak to handle the infant's cries and was afraid baby Alina might keep him up all night. He added:
"She [Atifa] got what she wanted. Now she is happy. Above all, I am a sick man, I am 68, I am a diabetic, and I have a weak heart."
According to Serif, raising a newborn would likely strain him at an advanced age, and he wasn't ready to take the added responsibility. However, sources revealed Serif wished his wife and daughter well and assured that he would try to help them from wherever he was.
Atifa Ljajic holding baby Alina in her arms while receiving newborn baby gifts during a July 4, 2017, interview | Source: Facebook/Internet portal RTS-a
It Was Worth Taking a Risk
Atifa described the day her daughter was born as the happiest day of her life and that the instant she first held her baby girl in her arms, she felt like a more satisfied woman. She revealed she wasn't afraid for her life because God gave her courage, and she never felt better, adding:
"I knew it would be a big risk at my age, but my only wish in my life was that I have a child, and it happened to me."
Baby Alina cradled in her mother, Atifa Ljajic's arms, as she receives baby gifts during a July 4, 2017 interview | Source: Facebook/Internet portal RTS-a
Raising Her Daughter Alone
Despite being the cousin of Rasim Ljajic, the Minister of Trade and Deputy Prime Minister of Serbia, Atifa explained that she was poor and had no relatives who could support her. She also mentioned:
"Whatever happens, whether Serif stays or leaves, I will fight to raise Alina the best way I can and to put her on the right way."
Alina's mother vowed to only live for her child. She wasn't living in a bubble and knew the journey as a single and elderly mother would be a difficult one, but she believed good people who wished to help her would turn up.
Baby Alina cradled in her mother, Atifa Ljajic's arms, during a July 4, 2017 interview | Source: Facebook/Internet portal RTS-a
A Strong and Determined Woman Who Is Raising a Healthy and Happy Child
Atifa, who spent more than 20 years trying for a baby, revealed that she was determined to raise her daughter in the best way possible. Despite being a pensioner and having very little money, she was hopeful that things would work out for the better.
Atifa Ljajic being interviewed while an older Alina plays in the background during an October 13, 2022 interview | Source: YouTube/Infolid
On October 13, 2022, the single mother appeared in another interview with her daughter. In the YouTube clip, Atifa sat on a couch while answering questions, and Alina was featured next to her, playing with a Minnie Mouse stuffed toy.
Atifa Ljajic being interviewed while an older Alina embraces her during an October 13, 2022 interview | Source: YouTube/Infolid
Alina looked happy, healthy, and much older six years down the line. Her mother spoke about how they'd dreamt of having a roof over their heads and how that dream had come true, with little Alina embracing her loving mother later on in the video.
Atifa Ljajic being interviewed while an older Alina embraces her during an October 13, 2022 interview | Source: YouTube/Infolid
The Decision That Changed Everything
Like Atifa, a German woman was slammed by critics when she decided to have a child at 65. Annegret Raunigk from Spandau, Berlin, Germany, was a retired primary school English and German teacher and a single mother to 13 children.
Baby Alina cradled in her mother, Atifa Ljajic's arms, during a July 4, 2017 interview | Source: Facebook/Internet portal RTS-a
Much to her surprise, she conceived through IVF and was pregnant with quadruplets. People heavily criticized her decision, but she chose to focus on raising her family right. In May 2015, the older woman welcomed three boys and one girl and was on cloud nine.
Undoubtedly, it's strong and independent women like Atifa and Annegret who continue to inspire others to stand by their individual decisions no matter what. We hope you enjoyed reading these stories, and we'll be looking forward to your valuable feedback.
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