'Shy' Keanu Reeves Kept Relationship with Girlfriend Private for Years — 5 Times They Showed Love in Public
- Keanu Reeves is known for his introverted nature and describes himself as a "shy man."
- The "Constantine" actor and his girlfriend, Alexandra Grant, had reportedly been dating even years before they went public with their relationship.
- In an interview, Reeves got candid about Grant, calling her "honey."
Keanu Reeves is a highly acclaimed actor known for his diverse and notable film roles. Throughout his career, he has portrayed iconic characters in various genres, from the action-packed "John Wick" series to the sci-fi classic "The Matrix." His versatile performances have earned him a dedicated fanbase and critical acclaim in the entertainment industry.
On the personal level, the Canadian star keeps things private, though he's a devoted partner to his long-time girlfriend, Alexandra Grant. He has also admitted to being shy.
Actor Keanu Reeves presents the movie "John Wick: Chapter 4" at Lionsgate's exclusive presentation at Caesars Palace during CinemaCon 2022, the official convention of the National Association of Theatre Owners, on April 28, 2022, in Las Vegas, Nevada. | Source: Getty Images
In an interview at a special Los Angeles screening for his thriller 'Knock Knock,' in October 2015, Reeves candidly shared, "Yeah, I'm a shy man. I'm a shy guy." When asked why he felt this way despite being an actor, he replied, "I don't know. Maybe, it's just my nature."
Reeves' love story with Grant began when they met at a dinner party in 2009 and quickly became friends. However, it wasn't until the summer of 2017 that their friendship reportedly evolved into a romantic relationship. However, the "John Wick" actor chose to keep their relationship and love under wraps for years.
In March 2023, the "Speed" alum offered a rare glimpse into his relationship with Grant during a candid interview.
Reeves and Grant embarked on a professional collaboration, working on publishing projects such as "Ode to Happiness" and "Shadows." Grant provided illustrations for Reeves' poetry book "Ode to Happiness" while he served as a co-author, contributing descriptions to the images in "Shadows." Their creative synergy and shared passion for art led to the establishment of their publishing company, "X Artists Books," solidifying their personal and professional bond.
Actor Keanu Reeves and artist Alexandra Grant posing with their book, "Ode to Happiness," at le Grand Palais on November 10, 2017 in Paris, France | Source: Getty Images
Despite their affectionate connection, the couple opted to keep their relationship largely under wraps until 2019, when they publicly appeared together. This ignited public interest, surprising many with their enduring connection.
Jennifer Tilly, a close friend of Grant, confessed her initial surprise upon learning about her friend's relationship with Reeves. Tilly revealed that Grant had mentioned Reeves as her boyfriend a year and a half before their official public debut. "I'm like, 'Wait. What? What? What?'" Tilly remarked.
She had assumed Grant was a lesbian, but the truth was that Grant and Reeves had been dating "for years." Tilly praised their relationship, describing them as the perfect couple and emphasizing their compatibility as both were artists with low-key personalities.
Keanu Reeves and Alexandra Grant at the UNAIDS Gala during Art Basel 2016 at Design Miami/ Basel on June 13, 2016, in Basel, Switzerland | Source: Getty Images
As their love story continued to flourish, Reeves and Grant remained devoted to each other, supporting one another through the ups and downs of life. Despite being a Hollywood superstar, Reeves cherished privacy in his personal life, and his relationship with Grant remained shielded from the public eye.
In March 2023, the "Speed" alum offered a rare glimpse into his relationship with Grant during a candid interview. When asked about his "last moment of bliss," he sweetly replied,
"A couple of days ago with my honey. We were in bed. We were connected. We were smiling and laughing and giggling. Feeling great. It was just really nice to be together."
Five Times Keanu Reeves & Alexandra Grant Showed Their Love in Public
Despite maintaining a low profile for years, Reeves and his long-time girlfriend, Grant, have had a few moments where they publicly declared their love. Here are five instances.
In April 2023, the "Point Break" actor and his ladylove shared a public kiss at the Museum of Contemporary Art Gala in Los Angeles, California. Reeves and Grant's rare appearance on the red carpet warmed the hearts with their affectionate display.
Alexandra Grant and Keanu Reeves at the 2023 MOCA Gala at The Geffen Contemporary at MOCA on April 15, 2023, in Los Angeles, California | Source: Getty Images
The couple was photographed laughing, smiling, and sharing a sweet kiss. Grant looked stunning in a bright-red, floor-length floral gown, while Reeves exuded charm in a navy suit and striped tie.
The public reaction to the couple's kiss was mixed. Some praised their public display of affection, while others thought it was "Not passionate at all."
"That's true love, I guess," wrote one fan, but another claimed what the couple displayed was "Not passion." Some even found the moment awkward. However, there was overwhelming support from fans who expressed happiness for Reeves who deserved all the love in the world.
In October 2020, Reeves and Grant were photographed sharing another kiss in Berlin, Germany, where the former was filming "The Matrix 4." The couple had gone public with their relationship the previous November and had been going strong since then.
In the snapshot, Reeves, dressed in blue jeans and a black jacket, leaned through the window of Grant's car to give her a tender kiss on the lips while she sat in the driver's seat. The sweet display of affection showcased their love and happiness together.
In July 2022, Reeves and Grant attended the "American Buffalo" play in New York City. Grant caught the attention of many with a giant diamond ring adorning her left hand as she watched Lawrence Fishburne's performance on Broadway.
During the outing, the duo engaged in rare public displays of affection, happily holding hands. The actor looked dashing in a black suit paired with a T-shirt and brown leather boots, while Grant donned an elegant, long, navy blue dress complemented by studded sandals and a stylish bucket handbag. She accessorized with a gold necklace and bracelet, accentuating the presence of the eye-catching diamond ring on her finger.
While enjoying their time together, the couple also made sure to cover each other from the prying eyes of the paparazzi, cherishing their private moments during the public appearance.
Keanu Reeves and Alexandra Grant attend the 2022 MOCA Gala at The Geffen Contemporary at MOCA on June 04, 2022, in Los Angeles, California | Source: Getty Images
In June 2022, Reeves and Grant made a delightful appearance on the red carpet of the MOCA Gala. The couple exuded joy and affection as they playfully laughed and joked around, showcasing their happy connection at the star-studded event at The Geffen Contemporary in Los Angeles.
The MOCA Gala, a fundraising celebration for the Museum of Contemporary Art, drew numerous A-list names that year, including Eva Longoria, Krysten Ritter, and Christina Hendricks, among others. Reeves and Grant's presence added an extra touch of glamour and warmth to the already dazzling affair, making it a memorable date night for the couple.
Keanu Reeves and Alexandra Grant at the 2019 LACMA Art + Film Gala presented by Gucci at LACMA on November 02, 2019, in Los Angeles, California | Source: Getty Images
In November 2019, the world got a sweet glimpse of Reeves and his artist girlfriend's affectionate bond as they attended the LACMA Art + Film Gala in Los Angeles. The "John Wick" actor, then 55, was seen holding hands with Grant, 46, while they gracefully walked the red carpet together for the star-studded event.
Grant looked stunning in a gorgeous navy dress with a deep V neckline, and Reeves opted for an all-black ensemble, exuding their undeniable charm as a couple.