Matthew McConaughey Defends His Mom’s Behavior as His Wife Unveils Details of Their Relationship
- Camila Alves McConaughey opened up about how hard it was for her husband's mother to accept her as part of the family.
- Matthew McConaughey brushed off the outcry over his mother initiating his wife into their family.
- Camila revealed how similar her husband was to her mother-in-law.
On August 22, 2023, Camila Alves McConaughey's podcast interview with Southern Living's "Biscuit & Jam" show was published. In it, the Brazilian model opened up about her mother-in-law, Kay or "Ma Mac," and how she helped her to acclimate well to her new life in Austin.
Matthew's wife shared how her mother-in-law is a proud straight shooter who believes in getting things done and done right. She described Kay as "great" before telling a story about what Matthew's mother did when she first became his girlfriend.
Kay and Matthew McConaughey at "A Time to Kill" Los Angeles premiere in Beverly Hills, California, on July 9, 1996 | Source: Getty Images
The Just Keep Livin' Foundation co-founder recalled how Kay would test her by calling her the names of her son's ex-girlfriends. Camila remembered how Kay spoke Spanish to her in a "broken way," put her down, and more.
At one point, the actor's wife got a job doing a fashion show in Istanbul. The post came with great perks like a secondary first-class ticket, a hotel room, and more. Camila chose to let her mother-in-law tag along.
Matthew and Kay McConaughey at the premiere of "Two For The Money" in Beverly Hills, on September 26, 2005 | Source: Getty Images
However, during the flight there, Kay spent time telling her daughter-in-law stories that left her uncomfortable. It was so bad that Camila decided she needed to buckle up for the next few days they would be in Istanbul.
On their third day in the country, while Camila was taking her mother-in-law to her hotel room, the older woman started complaining about her daughter-in-law and crying. Matthew's wife felt sorry for Kay, but after putting her to bed, she looked at her and realized the older woman was messing with her.
Kay McConaughey, Matthew McConaughey, and Camila Alves McConaughey at the Oscars on March 2, 2014, in Hollywood, California | Source: Getty Images
Camila's Brazilian roots came out when she told her mother-in-law off! At the end of their argument, Kay looked at her daughter-in-law calmly and told her she was in, and the younger woman finally realized Matthew's mother treated her the way she did because she wanted her to fight back!
Camila Alves McConaughey, Matthew McConaughey, Kay McConaughey on March 9, 2019, in Austin, Texas | Source: Getty Images
Since that night, the pair have had a great relationship filled with mutual respect. Since Camila confessed to the rough start she had to endure to become part of Matthew's family, the actor opened up about his family's traditions.
What Did Matthew Say about Family Initiations and His Relationship with His Mother?
In September 2023, Matthew also sat down for an interview and confirmed that his family is "big" on initiations and rites of passage. The "Just Because" author confessed that his family likes testing each other, adding:
"You don't get into the McConaughey family easily."
He explained how the family handled the situation when one of his siblings got on their high horse by humbling the culprit as a unit. They pushed until you "cried uncle," and then picked you up and gave you your favorite drink before telling you:
"Welcome back!"
His family enjoyed these initiations and confirmed that Kay often tested people from outside. The celebrity proudly revealed that his wife broke ground with his mother when she told her she wasn't asking her permission anymore.
While speaking in the "Whine Down with Jana Kramer" podcast, Matthew addressed his wife and talked publicly about his mother. He revealed that Camila and his family all value having a good sense of humor.
The star's mother also noted how good he is as a son and was easy to raise.
The "Magic Mike" actor noted how some people felt offended by how his wife mentioned Kay calling her by his ex-girlfriends' names. Matthew explained how Camila wasn't "wounded" by the act because it was funny to all of them, including her. However, his family acknowledged that what tickled them might bruise others.
The celebrity has also been very protective of his mother and shared how he didn't want to change her and tested the feelings of the woman he was into.
During her "Biscuit & Jam" podcast appearance, Camila also revealed that her husband was like his mother and was very organized. The mother-son duo is also minimalistic, keeps time, and is always prepared. She noted that many of Matthew's traits are like Kay's.
In November 2020, the actor and his mother sat down for a virtual interview with "Red Table Talk." Kay had been quarantined with her son's family for seven months, with her saying she enjoyed having time with them and being around her grandchildren.
The star's mother also noted how good he is as a son and was easy to raise. She shared how she treats her grandchildren just like her children, and the trio is respectful and doesn't talk back.
During the height of the COVID-19 pandemic, Camila shared videos of her bonding with her mother-in-law while cooking. In one video, Matthew's wife made her "Big Batch Beans" recipe, revealing that Kay was the taste tester and her number one food critic, and has approved the dish.