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The woman and her husband and mother-in-law | The woman explaining her story | Source: tiktok.com/itsgoneviral
The woman and her husband and mother-in-law | The woman explaining her story | Source: tiktok.com/itsgoneviral

Woman Accuses Her Mother-in-Law of Spoiling a Gender Reveal Moment

Daniella Segell
Oct 21, 2023
10:00 P.M.

A woman and her husband hosted their gender reveal party, and what was meant to be a happy moment they would celebrate together turned into something else when the woman felt jilted by her mother-in-law.

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A TikTok user took to the platform to ask netizens what they thought of a video captured at her gender reveal party. She wanted to know if others also thought what her mother-in-law had done was wrong.

While the woman thought what her mother-in-law had done was unacceptable, others believed that the woman was being unreasonable and her mother-in-law was not wrong.

A couple at their child's gender reveal party | Source: tiktok.com/@itsgoneviral

A couple at their child's gender reveal party | Source: tiktok.com/@itsgoneviral

As the woman and her husband stood before the crowd gathered for the celebration, they discovered they would have a baby girl. However, the sweet moment was marred for the woman when her mother-in-law did something she disliked.

What Did the Woman's Mother-In-Law Do?

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The woman struggled to open the popper that would reveal the baby's gender. She asked her husband for help, and finally, after using both their hands, the couple opened the popper, which released pink confetti.

A woman at her child's gender reveal party | Source: tiktok.com/@itsgoneviral

A woman at her child's gender reveal party | Source: tiktok.com/@itsgoneviral

The crowd exploded in cheers for the couple, and the woman and her husband smiled as they took in the news that soon they would welcome a baby girl into their family.

As the woman and her husband stood smiling in front of the crowd, the woman went to hug her husband. However, his mother cut in as she put her arm on his shoulder to move in for the embrace.

The man's mother quickly embraced her son, leaving the woman shocked. When his mother stepped away, the woman hugged her husband and celebrated the news. However, her disdain was evident.

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A man at his child's gender reveal party | Source: Source: tiktok.com/@itsgoneviral

A man at his child's gender reveal party | Source: Source: tiktok.com/@itsgoneviral

After hugging her husband, she approached his mother with a kind smile and said: "I feel a bit upset because it was our moment." The woman felt that her mother-in-law had stolen her moment of celebration with her husband.

The woman's husband quickly came to his mother's defense, saying that she was just excited. The woman's mother-in-law agreed with her son, saying she was just excited for them both to have a baby girl.

A man and his mother hugging at his child's gender reveal party | Source: tiktok.com/@itsgoneviral

A man and his mother hugging at his child's gender reveal party | Source: tiktok.com/@itsgoneviral

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Despite their reasoning, the woman was still angry and told her mother-in-law she should have waited until they had had their moment before she hugged her son. She lamented:

"Now I can't be excited anymore about it."

Her mother-in-law told her that she could still be excited as the woman apologized for being emotional, saying it was the pregnancy causing it. Her mother-in-law quickly reassured her that she understood because she had also been pregnant once.

A man and his wife hugging at their child's gender reveal party | Source: tiktok.com/@itsgoneviral

A man and his wife hugging at their child's gender reveal party | Source: tiktok.com/@itsgoneviral

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The woman shared the video on TikTok, explaining her feelings surrounding the incident and asking netizens to tell her whether or not she was wrong in her way of interpreting the situation. She received mixed responses.

What Did Netizens Say?

Some users said that the mother-in-law had saved the couple from the awkwardness they displayed as viewers noticed a ten-second delay in activity after the gender was revealed.

A comment left on a video of the woman's gender reveal | Source: tiktok.com/@itsgoneviral

A comment left on a video of the woman's gender reveal | Source: tiktok.com/@itsgoneviral

Another user said that nobody besides the mother-in-law looked happy. One user commented:

"The mother-in-law is NOT the problem here."

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One user said the couple had made the moment dull and that the mother-in-law was adding excitement to their big day. Although the video received many comments defending the mother-in-law, there were also some netizens who believed the mother-in-law should have let the couple have their moment before she cut in.

A comment left on a video of the woman's gender reveal | Source: tiktok.com/@itsgoneviral

A comment left on a video of the woman's gender reveal | Source: tiktok.com/@itsgoneviral

Others told the woman that she was toxic and that the way she had spoken to her husband's mother was ultimately out of line. Some even said the woman ruined the gender reveal for herself.

Many users said that the woman didn't know what a lousy mother-in-law was and wished she could see their mother-in-law to understand what a truly toxic and awful mother-in-law looked like.

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A few netizens said that the mother-in-law should not be punished for being excited and celebrating the baby's gender when nobody else seemed to be happy about the baby being a girl.

A comment left on a video of the woman's gender reveal | Source: tiktok.com/@itsgoneviral

A comment left on a video of the woman's gender reveal | Source: tiktok.com/@itsgoneviral

While this woman had trouble with her mother-in-law that seemed only to affect her, many others struggle with their mothers-in-law being awful to them for no reason. You can find a few of these stories here.

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