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I Remember Giving Birth to My Daughter, but DNA Test Results Show I'm Not Her Bio Mom, While My Husband Is Her Bio Dad

Prenesa Naidoo
Feb 07, 2024
11:57 A.M.

Chelsea and Jake are the parents of Maggy, their six-year-old daughter. For years, Jake's mother has given them DNA test kits because she was convinced that Maggy isn't their child. One day, they take the test, and the results are shocking.

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Have you ever heard of a chimera? According to Greek mythology, it's a fire-breathing monster with the head of a lion, a goat's body, and a serpent's tail. It turns out that I am one.

Here's how everything unfolded:

So, I've been married for six years, with a six-year-old bundle of joy named Maggy and an overenthusiastic mother-in-law convinced that there are no grandchildren in the family — just secrets.

Smiling little girl | Source: Pixabay

Smiling little girl | Source: Pixabay

Maureen, my mother-in-law, has taken it upon herself to give us DNA test kits on Christmas Eve every year. She believes that our daughter isn't ours.

So, one day, Jake and I decided to take those DNA test kits and give it a go — if anything, we could have just laughed it all off. We probably had about ten kits sitting in our bathroom drawer at that point.

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It wasn't such a laughable moment after all. According to the test kits, Jake is Maggy's father, but the twist?

I'm not her biological mother. I'm standing in our living room, feeling my entire world crumble.

DNA swab testing | Source: Unsplash

DNA swab testing | Source: Unsplash

I gave birth to our child. I did it naturally, and six years later, I can still remember every bit of pain in those thirty-seven hours of labor. So, how could my child not be mine?

I confronted Jake like a tornado ripping through a sleepy town. Accusations flew, and the foundation of our marriage trembled.

"Have you been cheating?" I demanded, my voice cracking with the weight of suspicion.

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Props to Jake, his denial was swift and vehement.

"Never, Chelsea. I would never cheat on you," he exclaimed.

My mind, on the other hand, became a breeding ground for wild theories. I gave birth to a baby that day — whether it was Maggy or not remained uncertain. And then I thought, what if there was a secret baby swap at the hospital?

For a moment, I even considered the unthinkable, that maybe he did have an affair and that he orchestrated the baby swap himself.

It was ridiculous, but it was an explanation — in my mind, anyway.

Newborn baby | Source: Pexels

Newborn baby | Source: Pexels

"Darling," Jake said. "This is just a home test, okay? Let's see Dr. Davies. She was right there when Maggy was born, and if we need to do another DNA test, we can do it under proper conditions."

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I nodded.

I agreed with Jake's thought process; it felt much better than entertaining the thought that Jake had anything to do with this.

But at the end of the day, Maggy was biologically his child, not mine.

"It's impossible," Dr. Davies said. "There's no way that a baby swap happened at our hospital."

"Then explain it to us," I said, desperate for answers.

"Okay, there's something we can try," she said. "I need your mother to come in, Chelsea. Let's do a full-on parent and grandparent DNA test."

Doctor talking to little girl | Source: Pexels

Doctor talking to little girl | Source: Pexels

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I remember sitting in the waiting room, trying to figure out what my mother had to do with any of it.

Then, Dr. Davies called us in when the results came — my mother was Maggy's grandmother. The test results were clear about it.

"I don't understand," I said, looking at Jake. "It doesn't make sense to me."

"There's more," Dr. Davies said. "Chelsea, you have chimerism. It's a little quirk of nature that has been a secret of your blood until now."

"What does that mean?" Jake asked.

The doctor explained that I had two different sets of DNA. She said that the DNA in my skin and hair, which differed from Maggy's, differed from the DNA found in a cervical smear test, which provided the elusive connection.

"Think of it like this," Dr. Davies said. "Imagine you have two sets of LEGO; normally, each person gets one set from their Mom and another from their Dad. Now, think of chimerism as a mix-up during construction. Instead of just one set of blocks, someone might end up with a mix of blocks from two sets. And those two different sets came from another set as parents."

Different colored lego blocks | Source: Unsplash

Different colored lego blocks | Source: Unsplash

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Maggy was currently into LEGO blocks, so this analogy made everything fall into place easier for us to understand.

I was Maggy's biological mother, after all.

It turns out that I was one of those fetuses who "swallowed their twin," — resulting in two sets of genetics coexisting within me, shaping my identity in ways I couldn't fathom.

Maggy is our child, and Jake stood by me through it all. He didn't fight with me about the cheating allegations that I threw at him. He just understood that I was a mother who had been told that her child wasn't biologically hers. He understood that I needed to work my way to the answers.

But now we know Maggy is our child — half of Jake, and the rest is all me.

I still want to know why Jake's mother was convinced about Maggy not being our child — but honestly, I'm not ready to fight about anything else.

Mother and daughter | Source: Pexels

Mother and daughter | Source: Pexels

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The only thing worth knowing is that our daughter is ours, in genetics and mannerisms alike.

What would you have done?

Here's another story for you | A guy decides to spend his birthday money on a DNA test. He was super excited to know how much his dad matched with him. But the results revealed a family-jerking truth…

Read the full story here.

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