February 29, 2020

Archival Recording Reportedly Showed How Diana Confronted Camilla over Her Affair with Charles

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In a recorded tape obtained by the press in the early ’90s, the late Princess of Wales can be heard recounting the uncomfortable moment when she confronted Camilla Parker Bowles about her affair with Prince Charles.

Diana, Princess of Wales, Prince Charles, and Camilla Parker Bowles were the stars of perhaps one of the most famous and infamous love triangles of our time.

Prince Charles And Princess Diana On Their Last Official Trip Together - To The Republic of South Korea, November 03, 1992 | Photo: GettyImages


The situation went on for years and put the Royal family’s reputation at stake. Still, it all ended tragically a year after Diana and Charles divorced when the Princess of Wales died in a car crash in Paris.


Prince Charles had met Camilla Parker Bowles, now the Duchess of Cornwall, almost a decade before Diana Spencer came into his life.

It would take Diana and Charles six more years of being miserable in their marriage before they finally agreed to divorce after the Queen advised them to do so.

Camilla, Duchess of Cornwall and Prince Charles, Prince of Wales attend The Great Yorkshire Show on July 14, 2015 | Photo: GettyImages


There are different versions of how Charles and Camilla first met. One version says it was at a polo game in 1970, and another—allegedly confirmed by the Prince himself—claims they met through their mutual friend Lucia Santa Cruz, in 1972.

By that time, Camilla had been in an on-and-off relationship with Andrew Parker Bowles. However, she and Charles became friends, and soon after, a couple, something that wasn’t a secret in their social circle.

The relationship came to an end after Charles left the country to join the Royal Navy in early 1973. That same year, Camilla got engaged to Andrew, but she and the Prince remained friends.


Prince Charles leans on his car at Cowdray Park Polo Club in Sussex on August 2, 1982 | Photo: GettyImages


Prince Charles met Diana Spencer in November 1977, while he was courting her older sister, Lady Sarah. He said in an interview in 1981 that his first impression of Diana was that she was “a very jolly, amusing and attractive 16-year-old.”


By 1980, Charles and Diana’s relationship had progressed to the point where he had taken great interest in her as a potential bride. Then, in February 1981, they announced their engagement to the world.

Princess Diana, Princess of Wales and Prince Charles, Prince of Wales pose outside Buckingham Palace as they announce their engagement on February 24, 1981 in London, England | Photo: GettyImages


It is worth noting that through the development of Diana and Charles’ relationship, Camilla remained a constant presence in their lives.

She was even photographed with Diana on several occasions, and according to some reports, the Prince proposed at the Parker Bowles’ garden.

Lady Diana Spencer and Camilla Parker-Bowles at Ludlow Races where Prince Charles is competing, 1980. | Photo: GettyImages


Diana and Charles married on July 29, 1981, in what was considered a fairytale royal wedding. Camilla was a guest, but at the time, Diana had reportedly begun to resent Charles and Camilla’s relationship.

“I knew she was in there, of course. I looked for her,” Diana told biographer Andrew Morton in 1991. “So, walking down the aisle, I spotted Camilla, pale gray, veiled pillbox hat, saw it all, her son Tom standing on a chair. To this day, you know — vivid memory.”

Prince Charles,Prince of Wales and Diana, Princess of Wales pose on the balcony of Buckingham Palace on their wedding day, 29th July 1981 | Photo: GettyImages



Diana and Charles welcomed their first son, Prince William, in 1982. His brother, Prince Harry, followed soon after in 1984.

However, soon after, the marriage started to crack, and the Prince began his affair with Camilla, who was also still married to Andrew Parker Bowles.

Prince Charles, Prince of Wales and Diana, Princess of Wales look unhappy at the start of a Tour of Canada on October 25, 1991 | Photo: GettyImages


A few years down the line, Prince Charles would admit in a documentary that he only rekindled his relationship with Camilla when his marriage to Diana was irretrievably broken down. He also said of Camilla:

“Mrs. Parker Bowles is a great friend of mine...a friend for a very long time. She will continue to be a friend for a very long time.”

Diana also had her fair share of affairs, as she would admit later.

Prince Charles, Prince of Wales and Camilla, Duchess of Cornwall attend the annual Royal British Legion Festival of Remembrance at the Royal Albert Hall on November 09, 2019 | Photo: GettyImages



In a recording used by Morton for his book, and later obtained by National Geographic for their “Diana: In Her Own Words” documentary, the late Princess of Wales recalled the day she confronted Camilla at a party in 1989.

Diana said that at some point during the party, she realized Camilla and Charles were nowhere to be seen, so she went looking for them. She found them on the first floor chatting with another man, so she joined the conversation, “as though we were best friends.”

Lady Diana Spencer and Camilla Parker-Bowles at Ludlow Races where Prince Charles is competing, 1980. | Photo: GettyImages


Then, she asked Camilla to have a word with her and dismissed her husband and the other man from the room.

“I said, ‘Camilla, I’d just like you to know that I know exactly what’s going on,’” Diana recalled. Camilla replied, “I don’t what are you talking about.” So, Diana insisted, stating she knew what was going on between her and Charles. In response, Camilla told Diana:

“You’ve got everything you ever wanted. You’ve got all the men in the world fall in love with you, and you’ve got two beautiful children, what more do you want?”

Prince Charles, Prince of Wales and Diana, Princess of Wales, wearing a white Murray Arbeid dress and Queen Mary;s diamond and pearl tiara, attend a dinner on May 03, 1986 | Photo: GettyImages


“I want my husband,” Diana replied. And added,

“I’m sorry that I’m in the way. I obviously am in the way, and it must be hell for both of you. But I do know what’s going on, don’t treat me like an idiot.”

Diana cried herself to sleep that night, and in the morning, she said, there had been a tremendous shift.

It would take Diana and Charles six more years of being miserable in their marriage before they finally agreed to divorce after the Queen advised them to do so.

The divorce was finalized on August 28, 1996. Diana passed away a year later on September 6, 1997, and Prince Charles and Camilla made their relationship official in 1999.