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Steven Bauer's Spouses and Girlfriends: From Lyda Loudon to Melanie Griffith

Edduin Carvajal
Jul 10, 2022
05:40 A.M.

Not all of Steven Bauer's spouses were as famous as Melanie Griffith, but his relationship with his much-younger girlfriend, Lyda Loudon, sparked debate.

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Born on December 2, 1956, in Cuba, Steven Bauer has made headlines since he starred in "Scarface" in 1983. While his successful roles in "Ray Donovan," "Breaking Bad," and "Queen of the South" made him a star, his relationships have also attracted much attention.

After four divorces and dating a woman four decades younger than him, Bauer found love again in Jennifer Brennon. Here's everything you need to know about Steven Bauer's spouses and girlfriends.

Steven Bauer and Lyda Loudon on July 27, 2016 in Beverly Hills, California | Source: Getty Images

Steven Bauer and Lyda Loudon on July 27, 2016 in Beverly Hills, California | Source: Getty Images

STEVEN BAUER'S RELATIONSHIP WITH 40-YEARS-YOUNGER LYDA LOUDON

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Although Bauer's acting career has been outstanding, his love life has raised eyebrows over the years. His relationship with Lyda Loudon sparked debate due to their vast age difference.

Loudon and Bauer made their relationship public on July 21, 2014, when they attended the "Magic in the Moonlight" premiere at the Linwood Dunn Theater in Hollywood, California. Back then, he was 57, and she was 18.

Steven Bauer and Lyda Loudon on April 11, 2017 in Los Angeles, California | Source: Getty Images

Steven Bauer and Lyda Loudon on April 11, 2017 in Los Angeles, California | Source: Getty Images

She described herself on Twitter as a journalist, radio show host of "Sarcasm Overdose," and a film, music, and espresso addict. Loudon's bio now reads "branding, comms, marketing" among other titles.

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While some people believe that age is just a number, others feel a line should exist somewhere, especially in romances. Bauer and Loudon's relationship seemingly crossed it.

Bauer revealed that he and Loudon had faced criticism for their 40-year age gap, but not from "anyone interesting" as his family loved her, and she loved them back.

Steven Bauer and Lyda Loudon on April 24, 2017 in Los Angeles, California | Source: Getty Images

Steven Bauer and Lyda Loudon on April 24, 2017 in Los Angeles, California | Source: Getty Images

The "Scarface" star pointed out that he and Loudon had something "special," adding that she positively impacted his life. She made him discover healthier lifestyle habits that led him to lose 30 pounds.

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It was not the first time that Loudon, daughter of former Missouri State Senator John Loudon, made headlines. When she was 14, she founded Tea Party Youth, a charity dedicated to the "Tea Party's future."

The "Ray Donovan" actor is currently dating Jennifer Brennon.

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STEVEN BAUER'S SPOUSES: FROM MELANIE GRIFFITH TO PAULETTE MILTIMORE

Before Loudon, Bauer was married four times. His first wife was "Working Girls" star Melanie Griffith. The former couple tied the knot in 1981 after falling in love on the set of "She's In The Army Now."

Their only son, Alexander, joined the family in 1985. While he is not an actor, he has writing credits in the 2013 film "Kazoos on First" and worked as a gaffer in 2015's "Holding."

Steven Bauer and Ingrid Anderson, on September 14, 1989 in Los Angeles, California | Source: Getty Images

Steven Bauer and Ingrid Anderson, on September 14, 1989 in Los Angeles, California | Source: Getty Images

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Sadly, Steven Bauer's spouse struggled with drugs and alcohol. Her issues were too much for him to bear, and they parted ways in 1989. While Bauer and Griffith's separation was not amicable, they eventually made amends.

The acting duo even posed together at the premiere of Griffith's 2013 film "Dark Tourist" in Los Angeles, and they looked like good friends.

Steven Bauer and Christiana Boney on April 1, 1996 in Los Angeles, California | Source: Getty Images

Steven Bauer and Christiana Boney on April 1, 1996 in Los Angeles, California | Source: Getty Images

Shortly after leaving Griffith, Bauer walked down the aisle with "Hercules" actress Ingrid Anderson. In 1990, they welcomed Dylan, who became an author, tarot card reader, and spiritualist.

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The birth of their son was not enough to keep them together, and they divorced in 1991, making it his shortest marriage.

Steven Bauer and Paulette Miltimore on March 28, 2003 in Beverly Hills, California | Source: Getty Images

Steven Bauer and Paulette Miltimore on March 28, 2003 in Beverly Hills, California | Source: Getty Images

Steven Bauer's spouse after Anderson was Christiana Boney. The former couple met when Bauer and Anderson were in the middle of divorce proceedings.

Although they were married for ten years – his longest relationship to date – they had no kids together. In 2002, Bauer and Boney called it quits. Bauer moved on quickly and married Paulette Miltimore in 2003, but they divorced in 2012.

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WHO IS STEVEN BAUER DATING NOW?

It is unclear when Loudon and Bauer split, but they are no longer together. The "Ray Donovan" actor is currently dating Jennifer Brennon, the owner and founder of Hollywood Groomer Girl.

Brennon makes frequent appearances on Bauer's social media accounts and has joined him at several events. Only time will tell if she will become Steven Bauer's spouse.

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