Man Finds Out His Girlfriend Is Responsible for Getting Him Fired from His Jobs for 2 Years

A man had placed great faith in his girlfriend, particularly during a tumultuous phase marked by job difficulties that left him deeply unhappy. She consoled and offered him crucial support to endure those difficult times. However, one day, their relationship took an unforeseen turn when he stumbled upon something that shattered his trust and sent his life into unexpected turmoil.

In September 2020, an anonymous poster shared his story on Reddit's "Getting Me Fired" forum. The 24-year-old man had been in a relationship with his girlfriend, who he referred to as Janice, aged 29, for two and a half years. When they started dating, he had just finished his education, and since then, he had been doing all sorts of jobs to gain experience and build his resume.

The man's job history included stints in cafes, bookstores, a library, a grocery store, and work as an English tutor. Most of these jobs lasted between three to five months, with the shortest being only two and a half weeks and the longest lasting eight months. However, his employment history was marred by a series of troubling incidents.

Facing Job Troubles and Confiding in His Girlfriend

"People called to complain about me, people left bad reviews about me, people used my employee [Wi-Fi] access to look up sketchy things on the internet under my name," explained the man. Former colleagues contacted his employers to provide damaging information about him, often using his correct name. Subtle but damaging incidents also occurred, leaving the man feeling increasingly anxious.

He sent the file to his own account, printed it out, and took screenshots.

"I just told my girlfriend, she comforted me, she supported me every time I got my life ruined by these people [sic]," said the man, who persevered in his job search despite the difficulties. Still, those targeting him seemed to find him wherever he went.

The man faced another dilemma at work a week before sharing his story on Reddit. His manager at the bakery, where he had been working part-time for the past two and a half months, approached him regarding a negative Google review. A customer had complained about a staff worker, and their comment appeared to be aimed at the man since he was the only employee working during a short-staffed shift. Suspiciously, this was not the first time such a situation had occurred in his previous jobs.

The man assured his manager that the review was baseless and came from someone with a personal vendetta against him. She believed him and promised to dismiss the comment. However, he didn't immediately share this incident with Janice, as she had heard similar stories before.

While chatting with Janice at home, he noticed something when she left the room. Suddenly, she [gets] a notification," noted the man after picking up his then-girlfriend's phone from the table and seeing a message from Google. He couldn't recall the exact content, but it mentioned the username of the person who posted the review and indicated that the "Manager" had responded.

This discovery left the man deeply troubled, as it seemed to fit into the pattern of negative reviews and complaints that had plagued his work history. The man was left with unease and confusion, wondering why Janice had responded to the review. The unexpected development left him questioning everything and searching for an explanation. "My heart dropped...This literally can't be. She's the only thing keeping me sane," he expressed.

Making Some Necessary Changes

In October 2020, the man provided an update to his story on Reddit's "Getting Me Fired" forum. He revealed that he and his girlfriend had broken up, referring to her as his ex. Feeling increasingly uneasy about his situation, he requested his ex's booking account to buy a train ticket to visit his dad.

While she was in the shower preparing for work, he seized the opportunity to access her emails. There, he found a startling spreadsheet that contained extensive information about him, including personal details, work-related information, and even passwords she intended to use against him. He sent the file to his own account, printed it out, and took screenshots.

Overwhelmed by the revelation, the man swiftly packed his belongings, feeling like a hunted individual. He sensed a looming threat even though nothing appeared visibly amiss. He notified his boss, requested time off from work, and immediately left to visit his dad. His father played a crucial role in handling the situation by contacting authorities, a lawyer, and a therapist to assist the man, who was grappling with extreme distress.

The man concluded the post by sharing that while working on resolving the legal aspects of the situation, he had taken measures to secure his online presence. He did this by changing all his passwords and beginning a search for a new place to live.

Starting Over and the Online Response

In an update shared in October 2022, the man revealed that he chose not to pursue legal action against his ex despite her egregious actions against him. This decision stemmed from the overwhelming dread, anxiety, and fear he anticipated experiencing during court hearings. He acknowledged his nervous state, which had affected his physical well-being, leaving him unable to eat for weeks. His father played a pivotal role in handling essential matters during this challenging period.

On a positive note, their lawyers managed to resolve the situation privately, and since then, the man has not reported any further issues with his ex. He has relocated, secured a stable job, and sought closure and justice through therapy, hoping his ex did the same.

The man has maintained zero contact with his ex and has not read the messages she sent him during those tumultuous years. He continues to keep his social media accounts private and maintains a low online profile, managing his anxiety and avoiding panic attacks with the help of his therapist.

The man remains uncertain regarding his ex's current status and whether she has moved on or encountered his story online. Nevertheless, he noted that nothing has occurred since their legal settlement that he could attribute to her schemes.

The man's Reddit post garnered feedback from various individuals. Some commended his decision to gather his belongings and leave, emphasizing the potential danger of a confrontation in this context. Others agreed, recognizing the gravity of the situation, likening it to a scenario reminiscent of Annie Wilkes.

Additionally, there was consensus that confronting someone should be avoided when personal safety is at risk, but also when the actions are egregious and no positive outcome or closure can be achieved through dialogue. In such cases, it was acknowledged that sometimes it's best to leave a note and exit the situation.

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