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Ines de Ramon has been Paul Wesley's wife since 2019. Some of "The Vampire Diaries" actor's relationships went from the screen to real-life as his dating history includes relationships with some of his co-stars. But who is Ines, the woman who now owns Paul's heart?
Ines de Ramon is 29 years old and has primarily worked in the jewelry industry. She has been married to Paul Wesley for just over three years. Her husband is an American actor, producer, and director who became a household name after appearing in "The Vampire Diaries," a series that started in 2009.
The 39-year-old went on to become the director of the series since season 5. The star's popularity meant he also began to have an interesting love life. From dating his co-stars to having a failed marriage, these are some interesting facts we found out about this Hollywood heartthrob.

Paul Wesley and Ines De Ramon attend the Mercy For Animals 20th Anniversary Gala on September 14, 2019, in Los Angeles, California. I Source: Getty Images
However, despite being linked to various actresses such as Phoebe Tonkin and others, "The Vampire Diaries" actor and director is now in a thriving relationship with his soul mate Ines de Ramon.
WHO IS INES DE RAMON?
Ines de Ramon was born in 1992 in the United States and named Ines-Olivia de Ramon. Her professional background is quite impressive, especially because she speaks five languages. Ines's LinkedIn profile indicates that she can speak German, English, Spanish, French, and Italian.
She is a licensed Integrative Nutrition Health Coach and seems like a fitness enthusiast. Ines graduated in 2013 after obtaining a bachelor of business administration degree from the University of Geneva. She previously worked in client services at a hotel and retail and is currently the Head of Wholesale at Anita Ko Jewelry since early 2020.
Despite appearing to be a private person, she has quite a number of fans on social media. Her Instagram page has 120 000 followers, and she usually posts images of herself out and about, her husband Paul, and family and friends.
HOW LONG HAVE INES DE RAMON AND PAUL WESLEY BEEN TOGETHER?
Ines de Ramon and Paul Wesley secretly got married in February 2019. Speculations were rife after the couple was spotted wearing matching rings.
So when and how exactly did Ines and Paul meet? The pair reportedly started dating in June 2018 after they were seen having dinner in New York City.
There's not much information on their relationship until they tied the know months later. The two have not yet walked the red carpet together. However, they often share sweet posts of each other and their cute pet, of course.
PAUL WESLEY HAS BEEN MARRIED ONCE BEFORE MEETING INES DE RAMON: LOOK BACK AT HIS RELATIONSHIP HISTORY
Of course, Paul Wesley has had previous relationships before meeting his current wife, Ines. He had dated three famous women and was known to date co-stars before he met his current wife, Ines.

Torrey DeVitto and Paul Wesley attends the Rolling Stone Hosted Jeep Heroes Tailgate on February 3, 2013, in New Orleans, Louisiana. I Source: Getty Images
One of his relationships turned into a marriage in 2011 when he was dating "Pretty Little Liars" actress Torrey DeVitto.
Paul and Torrey began dating in 2007 while they were both working on the film "Killer Movie." They also worked together in the third season of "The Vampire Diaries." They divorced two years after getting married but said they would remain friends.

Phoebe Tonkin and Paul Wesley attend The CW Network's 2016 Upfront on May 19, 2016 in New York City. I Source: Getty Images
Paul also had a long-term relationship with actress Phoebe Tonkin. They reportedly started dating in September 2013 and had an on-and-off relationship for four years before finally calling it quit in 2017.
Before their relationship ended, Phoebe had this to say about Paul:
"He's my best friend. It's such a fun time in my life right now. It's nice to have someone to share all that with."

Actors Paul Wesley and Marnette Patterson attend the after party following the premiere of "Standing Still" on April 10, 2006 in Hollywood, California. I Source: Getty Images
The star's other relationship was with his co-star in the film "Cloud 9." Marnette Patterson and Paul were together from November 2004 to 2005.
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