Fans React to Seeing Ben Affleck Being ‘Authentic’ & ‘Very Happy’ with Jennifer Lopez

Hollywood couple Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck were seen sharing a lighthearted moment during a planning session for Lopez's documentary. The duo captivated fans with their authentic chemistry and humor while having a playful debate over details from their past.

Many fans have found themselves charmed by the palpable connection between Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez, particularly after a recent Instagram video—shared by Prime Video and Primero Latino—unveiled the couple engaging in a playful argument while planning a scene for “The Greatest Love Story Never Told." In this clip, Lopez is seen on a couch, intently reading from a device, with Affleck sitting beside her with a laptop.

Dressed in casual and cozy attire, the pair bantered over Lopez's age in a recounted anecdote. Affleck humorously pointed out that Lopez wasn't the age she claimed she was in the story, which then led to a witty and cheeky exchange about the facts of the story and whether or not the documentary is considered autobiographical or partially so.

This candid peek into their relationship elicited an outpouring of enthusiasm from fans, evidenced by a barrage of heartfelt comments. One fan remarked, “😂😂😂First time [I’ve] [seen] him authentic and very happy 😮😮😮❤️,” while another noted, “I see why she is so into him.”

Others expressed gratitude for the couple sharing such a genuine moment, with one fan saying, “Thank you for finally showing a normal happy piece of your relationship because it’s the first time I’ve ever smiled […] or felt like you two are likable.” Many also echoed the sentiment of them being a perfect match, with comments ranging from “❤❤ They’re so perfect for each other ❤,” to “These two were meant to be together.”

A particularly touching comment expressed, “He’s home, he’s complete, he finally got his girl back,” which captured the essence of Affleck and Lopez’s romantic reunion.

Though some comments asserted that the light-hearted exchange between Lopez and Affleck in the recent social media video was the first time they saw a real and intimate side of the couple, this is not the first occurrence of the duo disclosing intimate moments about their relationship. Earlier this year—amid speculation over Affleck's demeanor in public appearances—Lopez firmly assured fans of his well-being.

She stated, “Ben is doing alright. You don’t need to worry about Ben; let me just tell you. He is good. He is happy; he is here; he is nominated. He’s like, ‘I’m chilling, I don’t understand what people are pressed for.’”

In an interview she did after they got married in 2022, Lopez openly articulated her enduring affection for Affleck while reflecting on their rekindled love. Following her split from Alex Rodriguez and Affleck's separation from Ana de Armas, Affleck reached out with a message that sparked their renewed dialogue and eventual reunion.

“I always felt like there was a real love there, a true love there. People in my life know that he was a very, very special person in my life. When we reconnected, those feelings for me were still very real,” shared Lopez, highlighting the serendipity and depth of their renewed connection.

Before the aforementioned interview took place, Lopez appeared on "The Ellen DeGeneres Show" in February 2022, where she revealed her astonishment at her and Affleck's reunion after so many years. Laughing at the host’s marvel, Lopez divulged, “I don’t think anybody was more surprised than us.” She also added that the two coming full circle in their romantic relationship was something beyond imagination, yet it is “a beautiful thing.”

Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez’s journey—from their initial romance to their surprising reunion and present contentment—embodies a narrative of true love’s perseverance. Their openness in sharing moments of authentic interaction and humor has further endeared them to fans, who eagerly celebrate each insight into their partnership.

Read another article that chronicles Affleck and Lopez's love story through revelations the musician shared about the impact her and Affleck's breakup had on her and how they overcame heartbreak to find love with each other again.

Jennifer Lopez Opened Up about Her Early Romance with Ben Affleck and Spoke about Their Split in the 2000s

After the couple got together, Lopez released a studio album, "This Is Me...Then," that spoke to her relationship with Affleck, with one of the songs, "Dear Ben," even being dedicated to him specifically. In a recent interview, she shared some insights into what life was like for them at that time.

Throughout the making of the album, Affleck, who Lopez confirmed adores the songs, was heavily involved in the creative process during the initial two and a half years they were together. As mentioned previously, the two were on track to exchanging vows but split after 18 months together in 2004.

When they came together again, Lopez also spoke about how immediate their spark and the reigniting of their love was.

At that time, the two had already reportedly broken up after their lavish Montecito wedding scheduled to take place in September 2003 was canceled. Bennifer then reunited after this but ultimately called it off in what they thought was finality. According to sources, a statement from the singer's team announced:

"Jennifer Lopez has ended her engagement to Ben Affleck..."

Naturally, as partners who have such a profound love for each other, the two were heartbroken over their split. While speaking about their relationship, Lopez shared how painful her breakup from the love of her life was:

"Once we called off that wedding 20 years ago, I was—it was the biggest heartbreak of my life, and I honestly felt like I was gonna die, and it sent me on a spiral for the next 18 years..."

However, clearly, true love ended up prevailing as 20 years later, Lopez and Affleck found their way back to each other and got their happy ending. By 2021, the Hollywood "It" couple had already been spending ample time together since reuniting.

In fact, the duo had taken a trip to Montana, where they were spotted spending several days together. A source confirmed that the two had been rekindling their romance, and though they said it was intense and quick, they emphasized the strong, undeniable connection between the two.

Bennifer Is Back and Better than Ever: From Working past the Heartache to Celebrating Their First Wedding Anniversary

Now, "This Is Me...Then" has revamped itself into "This Is Me...Now," which is Lopez's upcoming studio album that talks about her life and lasting love with Affleck, who remains a big source of inspiration as his wife's biggest cheerleader. Though she admitted to feeling a bit terrified about creating the soon-to-be-released album, she leaned into her instincts to share her story.

Lopez wanted to capture the incredible reunion with her beau as a moment in time, the same way she did when they first started dating. She explained that she wanted to do so because she believes their relationship is even better than it was the first time around.

Having grown a lot, Lopez stated that her upcoming album is meant to give listeners an inside look into her life as it stands now. While discussing the nuances and comparing the previous album to the upcoming one, the "Hustlers" star divulged:

"So, we captured me at this moment in time when I was reunited with the love of my life, and we decided we were gonna be together forever...Now I think what the message of the album is very much, 'If you were wondering if you have—like me, at times, lost hope, almost given up, don't because true love does exist and some things do last forever, and that's real...'"

She also mentioned how, with time and as they aged, things became much clearer for her and Affleck, and the fact that the clarity they feel comes with a heightened level of being absolutely sure about each other. When they came together again, Lopez also spoke about how immediate their spark and the reigniting of their love was.

As another way to show how lasting their love intends to be, Affleck's engagement ring to Lopez has an engraving that emphasizes the fact that he does not plan on going anywhere. The commitment engraving is also how he would sign off his emails to her when they started talking again.

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck at the premiere of "AIR" in Los Angeles, California on March 27, 2023 | Source: Getty Images

In another interview where she spoke about their marriage, months after celebrating their first wedding anniversary, Lopez gushed over how beautiful Affleck makes her feel. Of his upliftment and support of her, Lopez gushed:

"Ben wants me to understand my worth and know my value. I feel...even more beautiful than I have ever felt with someone else."

As the loved-up couple continues to live a happy life together with the first year of marriage under their belt, Lopez wants people to know that fairytale endings do exist for so long as one is willing to do the work and not give up.