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Meet the Real-Life Loved Ones of the 'Blue Bloods' Cast

Jul 18, 2025

06:48 A.M.

They may play New York's most tight-knit law enforcement family on screen, but find out who the "Blue Bloods" stars go home to when the cameras stop rolling.

For more than a decade, "Blue Bloods" has followed the Reagan family's professional and personal lives as they serve and protect New York City. But while the show's family dynamic is built on loyalty and love, the actors themselves have meaningful relationships outside their on-screen roles.

The cast of "Blue Bloods" at the 2010 CBS Upfront at The Tent at Lincoln Center on May 19 in New York. | Source: Getty Images

From long-term marriages to growing families and everything in between, here's a closer look at the real-life loved ones of the "Blue Bloods" cast.

"Blue Bloods" cast members at a panel discussion at PaleyFest on October 18, 2014, in New York. | Source: Getty Images

Tom Selleck – Jillie Mack

Selleck has been married to Jillie Mack for over three decades, and when he isn't filming "Blue Bloods" in New York City, the two enjoy a quiet life together on their ranch in Ventura, California.

The veteran actor also has two children — Hannah, his daughter with Mack, and Kevin, his son from his first marriage to Jacqueline Ray.

Jillie Mack and Tom Selleck at the 35th Annual Primetime Emmy Awards on September 25, 1983, in Pasadena, California. | Source: Getty Images

Tom Selleck and Jillie Mack during 41st Annual Golden Globe Awards in Beverly Hills, California, 1984. | Source: Getty Images

Jillie Mack and Tom Selleck at his Hollywood Walk of Fame Star ceremony on June 4, 1986, in Hollywood, California. | Source: Getty Images

Tom Selleck and Jillie Mack at the 34th Annual "Hollywood Stars Night" Celebrity Baseball Game on August 17, 1991, at Dodger Stadium in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images

Tom Selleck and Jillie Mack at the Warner Loughlin Studios Holiday Charity Event on December 9, 2008, in West Hollywood, California. | Source: Getty Images

Tom Selleck and Jillie Mack at the premiere of "Killers" on June 1, 2010, in Hollywood, California. | Source: Getty Images

Tom Selleck and Jillie Mack at the CBS "The Carol Burnett Show 50th Anniversary Special" October 4, 2017, in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images

Jillie Mack and Tom Selleck at the Brandon Tartikoff Legacy Awards at NATPE 2018 on January 17, 2018, in Miami Beach, Florida. | Source: Getty Images

Will Estes

While Estes' character, Jamie Reagan, married his partner Eddie Janko on "Blue Bloods" in 2019, the actor's real life looks quite different. Unlike his on-screen counterpart, Estes does not appear to be married or in a relationship.

Will Estes at a screening and panel discussion of "Blue Bloods" on June 5, 2012, in North Hollywood, California. | Source: Getty Images

Will Estes filming "Blue Bloods" on November 19, 2012, in New York. | Source: Getty Images

Abigail Hawk – Bryan Spies

Hawk, who plays Detective Abigail Baker on "Blue Bloods," has been married to Bryan Spies since 2009. In 2023, she marked their 14th anniversary with a heartfelt tribute on social media, calling him her "lighthouse" and celebrating the life they have built together.

Bryan Spies and Abigail Hawk at The 2019 2nd Annual ADAPT Leadership Awards on March 14 in New York. | Source: Getty Images

Abigail Hawk and Bryan Spies from a post dated April 25, 2022. | Source: Instagram/hawkabigail

Abigail Hawk and Bryan Spies from a post dated October 19, 2022. | Source: Instagram/hawkabigail

Bryan Spies and Abigail Hawk at The 2023 ADAPT Leadership Awards on March 9 in New York. | Source: Getty Images

Bryan Spies and Abigail Hawk from a post dated April 25, 2023. | Source: Instagram/hawkabigail

Abigail Hawk and Bryan Spies at "The Great Gatsby" Broadway opening night at Broadway Theatre on April 25, 2024, in New York. | Source: Getty Images

Bryan Spies and Abigail Hawk at the 2025 ADAPT Leadership Awards on March 3 in New York. | Source: Getty Images

Donnie Wahlberg – Jenny McCarthy

Wahlberg has been married to Jenny McCarthy since 2014. The couple has kept their relationship strong all these years by prioritizing each other, with McCarthy sharing in 2025 that they make a point to keep dating even after more than a decade of marriage.

Donnie Wahlberg and Jenny McCarthy at "Watch What Happens Live" in 2012. | Source: Getty Images

Jenny McCarthy and Donnie Wahlberg at the 2016 American Music Awards at Microsoft Theater on November 20 in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images

Jenny McCarthy and Donnie Wahlberg at "The Masked Singer" premiere karaoke event on December 13, 2018, in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images

Jenny McCarthy and Donnie Wahlberg from a post dated December 25, 2019. | Source: Instagram/donniewahlberg

Donnie Wahlberg and Jenny McCarthy from a post dated March 23, 2020. | Source: Instagram/donniewahlberg

Jenny McCarthy and Donnie Wahlberg from a post dated September 3, 2023. | Source: Instagram/donniewahlberg

Bridget Moynahan – Andrew Frankel

Moynahan has been married to businessman Andrew Frankel since 2015. The couple surprised their guests with a wedding at Wölffer Estate Vineyards in New York, where the actress wowed in a custom J. Mendel gown and the perfect accessories.

Bridget Moynahan at the Baby Buggy 10th Anniversary gala on December 5, 2011, in New York. | Source: Getty Images

Bridget Moynahan and Tom Selleck from a post dated January 29, 2025. | Source: X/Bridget Moynahan

Bridget Moynahan at the "My Mom Jayne: A Film by Mariska Hargitay" premiere during the 2025 Tribeca Festival at Carnegie Hall on June 13, 2025, in New York. | Source: Getty Images

Sami Gayle

Gayle practically grew up on the set of "Blue Bloods," having joined the show at 14. While her character matured on screen, as of 2018, she did not appear to be married or in a relationship.

Sami Gayle on the set of "Blue Bloods" in 2018. | Source: Getty Images

Sami Gayle and Dan Amboyer filming "Blue Bloods" in 2018. | Source: Getty Images

The actress joked that any potential partner would have to win over not just her family, but also the "Blue Bloods" cast, who had become like a second family to her.

Sami Gayle and Donnie Wahlberg from a post dated July 24, 2024. | Source: Instagram/samigayle

Len Cariou – Heather Summerhayes

Cariou's wife is Heather Summerhayes. She has supported him throughout his career, often joining him on location and handling the many challenges that come with life on the road.

Len Cariou and his castmates on the set of "Blue Bloods" in 2010. | Source: Getty Images

Len Cariou filming "Blue Bloods" in 2010. | Source: Getty Images

Heather Summerhayes and Len Cariou at the "Broadway And The Bard" opening night at Theatre Row's Lion Theatre on February 4, 2016, in New York. | Source: Getty Images

Len and Heather Summerhayes Cariou at the "Oscar Peterson: Black + White" screening at DGA Theater on September 19, 2022, in New York. | Source: Getty Images

Marisa Ramirez

Ramirez became a mother in 2016 when she welcomed her daughter, Violet Rae, with a former "Blue Bloods" crew member.

Although she shared her excitement about becoming a parent, the actress did not reveal any details about being in a relationship at the time following her marriage to and divorce from Nathan Lavezoli.

Nathan Lavezoli and Marisa Ramirez at a party in Los Angeles, California, 2002. | Source: Getty Images

Nathan Lavezoli and Marisa Ramirez at the "Betsey Johnson Hosts National Breast Cancer Coalition Benefit Cocktail Party" at the Betsey Johnson Melrose Store in Los Angeles, 2004. | Source: Getty Images

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Marisa Ramirez and Nathan Lavezoli during the 6th Annual Almost Human Halloween Party in Culver City, California, 2004. | Source: Getty Images

Marisa Ramirez on the set of "Blue Bloods" on March 15, 2013, in New York. | Source: Getty Images

Donnie Wahlberg and Marisa Ramirez filming "Blue Bloods" in 2012. | Source: Getty Images

Vanessa Ray – Landon Beard

Ray is married to musician Landon Beard. The couple tied the knot in 2015, and in 2024, they expanded their family through adoption when they welcomed a baby boy named Isaac Ray Beard.

Vanessa Ray from a post dated June 20, 2024. | Source: Instagram/landonbeard

Vanessa Ray and Landon Beard at the Frankie Valli and the Four Seasons 50th Anniversary Celebration and the Broadway debut of "The One. The Only. The Original" at The Broadway Theatre on October 19, 2012, in New York. | Source: Getty Images

Landon Beard and Vanessa at the 2013 Victoria's Secret Fashion after-party on November 13, 2013, in New York. | Source: Getty Images

Robert Clohessy – Catherine Erhardt

Clohessy has been married to Catherine Erhardt for many years. The two met through a mutual connection when Clohessy needed a place to stay while working on a television series, and they tied the knot just months later.

Robert Clohessy as Sergeant Gormley on the set of "Blue Bloods" in 2012. | Source: Getty Images

The couple eventually settled back on the East Coast with their two sons, Byron and Myles, who have both followed in their father's footsteps with careers in the entertainment industry.

Robert Clohessy filming "Blue Bloods" in 2023. | Source: Getty Images

While the cast of "Blue Bloods" shares a strong bond on screen, their real-life relationships are just as meaningful. From long-lasting marriages to growing families, these actors have built full lives beyond the set.