Victoria Spader Is the Only Woman James Spader Was Married To – All We Know About Their Marriage

Victoria Spader was once known as actor James Spader's wife. They were married for over a decade, and during that time, the couple was blessed with two kids, who both have successful careers.

Many people know that "Pretty in Pink" star Jame Spader is one of Hollywood's most respected actors. He is also among one of the most private celebrities.

Because of James Spader's enigmatic personality, many fans could not help but wonder about his life as a father and partner besides his impressive achievements in the entertainment industry.

Victoria Spader Works in Hollywood, Just like Her Former Husband

Victoria Spader is a designer and set decorator in the art department. She is best known for her work in the documentary film "Sex, Lies, and Videotape" and the crime-mystery movie "Jack's Back."

Victoria appears to be a very private woman, as little is known about her life and whereabouts. However, she is famous for her past marriage to acclaimed actor and producer James Spader.

Besides his role as Raymond Reddington in "The Blacklist," James is also famous for his character Robert California in "The Office," with John Krasinski, Jenna Fischer, Rainn Wilson, Mindy Kaling, and Steve Carell.

While their marriage didn't flourish, Victoria's ex-husband has embarked on a new chapter with a new partner.

James Spader and Victoria Spader Are Parents of Two Children

James met Victoria at a yoga studio in New York City in the 1980s, where he worked as an instructor among his many odd jobs back in the day.

The couple dated for a few years before they married in 1987. They later welcomed their two adult sons, Sebastian, in 1989 and Elijah, in 1992. Initially, their sons were not particularly keen on pursuing a career in Hollywood.

James maintained a clear boundary between his work and home life throughout his career, ensuring his profession wouldn't weigh down on his children's shoulders. He said:

"I always tried not to have my career be too much of a burden to my children, but looking back, I think that was a mistake. In retrospect I could have incorporated the kids a little more in terms of what it is I do."

He also observed the potential risks for children growing up with public figures as parents, as their lives might appear larger than reality, emphasizing the importance of staying true to oneself.

James also emphasized that acting should be something his kids feel passionate about if they pursue it professionally. James's son later entered the industry, just like him.

Sebastian is a director and producer, having worked on films such as "Machete," "First Kiss," and "Slice." Meanwhile, Elijah is an actor and writer best known for the short film "Roll For Initiative" and the TV series "Nailed It."

Despite James having a solid bond with his two sons, his marriage to Victoria fell apart. In 2003, he filed for divorce from Victoria at the Santa Monica Courthouse. They finalized their split in 2004 after 17 years of marriage.

James and Victoria seem to prioritize privacy in their separate lives. While their marriage didn't flourish, Victoria's ex-husband has embarked on a new chapter with a new partner.

James Is Now in a Relationship with a Former Actress

After splitting from Victoria, James has been in a relationship with the former actress Leslie Stefanson. Both the actor and his new partner are pretty private about their lives.

He and Leslie have been inseparable since 2002. They worked together in the movie "Alien Hunter," before Leslie later chose to retire from acting and pursue a career in sculpting.

Alongside her artistic journey, Leslie embraced motherhood and welcomed a son named Nathaneal Spader with James in 2008. In 2014, the couple reportedly lived at the Greenwich Village carriage house with James' sons from his first marriage.

The actor, a believer in negative population growth, stated that Nathaneal would be his last child and has no plans for more. The veteran actor believes his three sons will be replacements for himself, his ex-wife, and his current partner in the future.