Neil Patrick Harris & Husband's 'Exhausting' Twins Divide Fans on Who They Look Like — Pics

• Neil Patrick Harris and David Burtka are one of Hollywood's most adorable couples.
• They are also proud parents to their twins, Gideon and Harper, who are growing up fast and recently turned 13.
• The twins have sparked a debate among their fans about who they look more like — their dad, Harris, or their dad, Burkta?

They say that twins are double the trouble but also double the fun. That seems to be the case for Neil Patrick Harris and David Burtka, who are the proud parents of twins Harper Grace and Gideon Scott. The adorable duo, who celebrated their 13th birthday on October 12, 2023, are as stunning as their parents, and their looks have caused quite a stir on social media.

Harris and Burtka, who have been married since 2014, love to share their family moments on social media, giving their fans a glimpse into their lives.

But one question that always gets their fans talking is who the twins resemble more: their dad, Harris, who is best known for his roles in "How I Met Your Mother" and "A Series of Unfortunate Events," or their dad, Burtka, who is a chef, dancer, and actor.

The Arrival of Harper and Gideon

Harris and Burtka had always dreamed of becoming parents, and their dream came true in October 2010 when they welcomed their twins via surrogate. Harris announced the arrival of their babies on Twitter, sharing their joy and excitement with their fans three days after they were born. Harris wrote:

"Babies!! On 10/12, Gideon Scott and Harper Grace entered the Burtka-Harris fold. All of us are happy, healthy, tired, and a little pukey."

The fraternal twins are a mix of their dads' features and personalities. Harris and Burtka revealed that they each fertilized an egg and that they are not sure which twin is biologically related to which dad, but they don't care about that and they love them both equally.

From a Chance Encounter to Becoming a Family

Hollywood is known for its fairy tales, but few can match the authenticity and commitment of Harris and Burtka's love story. Celebrating their nine-year wedding anniversary in September, the couple continues to thrive in wedded bliss.

When asked about what they love most about each other, Burtka praised Harris's sense of humor and captivating eyes, while Harris appreciated Burtka's infectious smile, pearly white teeth, and his prowess in various skills, including cooking, throwing parties, parenting, dancing, and singing.

The couple first crossed paths on a street corner in New York City in 2004. Their journey began with a serendipitous meeting through a mutual friend, Kate. Initially assuming Burtka was Kate's boyfriend, Harris found himself captivated by the brooding, James Dean-type guy in a leather jacket.

Despite Burtka having a boyfriend at the time, Harris strategically positioned himself around Burtka, hoping for fate to intervene. Their first real interaction occurred at a party, where Harris found himself stammering in the presence of the kinetic and classically sexy Burtka.

Harris was instantly attracted to Burtka, who was in a long-distance relationship that was falling apart, and he felt a connection with Harris as well. They kept hanging out together, but they did not go on their first date until a few weeks later.

After their first date, they hit it off right away, and they never stopped dating. Harris and Burtka fell in love quickly, and they moved in together within a few months. Burtka surprised Harris with a proposal on the same street corner where they first encountered one another, and months later, Harris also proposed on Valentine's Day.

While hesitant to use labels like "partner" or "boyfriend," the couple embraced the term "better half" and eventually "husband." Harris shared the news on Twitter on September 8, 2014, that they had gotten married in Italy over the weekend.

The pair has a unique and dynamic relationship, marked by humor, creativity, authenticity, and over-communication. They share a lot of similarities, such as their zodiac sign, weight, height, body size, shoe size, and wardrobe. They also have a similar idea of family, not a nuclear one, but a social one.

Their similarities, however, seem to end there. They have notable differences, such as their personalities, interests, and roles in the relationship. Harris is more introspective and analytical, while Burtka is more outgoing and spontaneous. Harris is more of a doer, while Burtka is more of a thinker. Harris is more of a paternal figure, while Burtka is more maternal.

The Couple's Perspective on Parenthood

Children were always part of the conversation, with both agreeing not to delay starting a family. Their game-changing decision was rooted in a desire for their parents to enjoy the process of grandparenthood actively. Burtka, reflecting on his perspective, expressed his unwavering belief in a monogamous relationship, raising children, and finding happiness in love.

In a candid revelation earlier this year, Harris provided a glimpse into the "exhausting" yet immensely rewarding journey of parenthood as Harper and Gideon neared their teenage years. Harris humorously shared:

"They're the most agile, amazing, bright beacons of light to us and are exhausting in every way. They just constantly keep us on our toes and fill us with love and joy."

Burtka, anticipating the teenage phase, remarked that they already felt like parents to teenagers due to the rapid maturity of New York kids. As the twins embraced their teenage status in October, the couple's Instagram post featuring the duo ignited a playful yet fervent debate among fans.

Harris, with a touch of humor, posted the heartfelt caption: "And, just like that, they're teenagers. Happy birthday, Harper and Gideon. You are the lights of my life. I can't wait to watch you want nothing to do with me, and I promise I'll be with you through all of it." The ensuing fan reactions reflected a delightful chaos, with speculations about which parent the teens resembled.

One fan asserted, "Harper is the little version of you," while another countered, "I think Harper looks like David, and Gideon looks like Neil." The debate raged on, encompassing comparisons to Harris' "Doogie Howser days" and marveling at the wonders of science in fertilizing embryos.

The Harris-Burtka family remains an authentic and endearing symbol of love, humor, and connection. As they share their parenthood adventures on social media, fans are treated to glimpses of their exemplary family. The ongoing debate among fans about the twins' resemblance reflects the universal curiosity and joy that surround them.