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Tyler Posey's Girlfriend Phem Helped Him Realize His 'Queer' Identity — Who Is She?

Edduin Carvajal
Jun 21, 2022
06:40 P.M.
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Tyler Posey's girlfriend, Phem, not only collaborated with him on his debut solo single "Shut Up" but also helped him understand more about his sexuality.


On June 20, 2022, Tyler Posey and his "Teen Wolf" co-stars Holland Roden, Crystal Reed, Shelley Hennig, and Tyler Hoechlin attended the UK Paramount+ launch in London.

The main reason they were at the event was that "Teen Wolf: The Movie" will premiere soon on the streaming service. Posey's girlfriend, Phem, supported him on social media. Here's everything you need to know about her.

Tyler Posey on December 07, 2019 in Universal City, California | Source: Getty Images



Phem is an up-and-coming alternative rock singer who collaborated with Posey and Travis Barker for the "Teen Wolf" star's single "Shut Up." The song's music clip premiered on YouTube on March 4, 2021, and it became Posey's debut single as a solo musician.

In February 2021, a few weeks before releasing "Shut Up," Posey revealed he and Phem were in a relationship, increasing people's hype around the single.

Phem and Tyler Posey on September 10, 2021 in West Hollywood, California | Source: Getty Images


Posey and Phem have legendary musician John Feldmann to thank for their romance. Feldmann had been working on music with Posey for a while before he "randomly" asked Phem to write with them.

Phem was not a complete stranger to Posey, though. The two had previously performed for Feldmann's band, Goldfinger, during one of his Christmas parties.


The couple revealed that they do everything from eating ice cream and marshmallows to watching "Shark Tank," making music, and looking after their three dogs when they are together. About Phem, Posey said:

"I've been with everybody under the sun, and right now I'm in the best relationship that I've ever been in with a woman, and she's queer too."



Shortly after Posey launched his OnlyFans account in September 2020, someone asked him if he had been with men, and Posey said yes.

Phem is not the only musician Posey has been romantically involved with.

Since then, he began facing cyber-bullying from what he believed to be the same person. The online troll kept calling Posey a "gay-baiter," meaning that he pretended to be gay to get money.


However, Posey confessed he was queer. The "Truth or Dare" actor explained that Phem helped him realize he was sexually fluid and fit under the queer umbrella.

Posey and Phem don't post much about each other on social media, but she proved she was proud of his participation in the UK Paramount+ launch by reposting one of his photos on her Instagram stories.



Phem is not the only musician Posey has been romantically involved with, though. He had his first kiss when he was nine years old with Miley Cyrus.

Posey worked with Billy Ray Cyrus in "Doc," and he was the only kid. When Miley joined her dad on set, she would hang out with the "Teen Wolf" star.

Miley and Posey became so close that they dated for about two years. They were so young that he would get excited when they held hands. Posey admitted he could tell Miley was special even before she appeared on "Hannah Montana."