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TikToker's @hallieb85 family | The woman | Source: TikTok.com/hallieb85
TikToker's @hallieb85 family | The woman | Source: TikTok.com/hallieb85

Woman Forced Her Kids to ‘Kneel a Lot’ — Daughter-In-Law Shows up at Her Funeral & Blasts Her in Front of Family

Dorcus Osongo
May 17, 2023
10:00 A.M.
  • A daughter-in-law showed up at her mother-in-law's funeral and made a scene in front of the grieving family.
  • A relative revealed that the daughter-in-law's husband was allegedly abused by the deceased woman.
  • Fans were divided after seeing the viral videos of the incident at the funeral and hearing follow-up stories of what happened in the family.
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A funeral is normally a solemn occasion where people gather to pay tribute to the departed and provide silent support to the bereaved loved ones.

However, a woman gained widespread attention on the internet for all the inappropriate reasons when she chose a significantly conflicting approach for her mother-in-law's funeral.

The woman who caused a scene at a funeral | Source: TikTok.com/hallieb85

The woman who caused a scene at a funeral | Source: TikTok.com/hallieb85

Rather than using the funeral as a chance to honor and remember the deceased, the woman seized the opportunity to express her grievances.

A member of the deceased woman's family shared a TikTok video capturing the incident, which has garnered millions of views and ignited a discussion on the degree of respect the living owes the dead.

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The person who posted the video, TikToker @hallieb85, said the funeral was for her great-aunt, who was the mother-in-law of the woman who crashed the funeral and created chaos.

The woman and the TikToker's father argue | Source: TikTok.com/hallieb85

The woman and the TikToker's father argue | Source: TikTok.com/hallieb85

In the video, the TikToker's father asked the woman to leave before he got angry, which seemed to ignite the anger within the woman as she lost control. The woman yelled:

"I'm mad. I'm mad over what she did to those kids. She is nothing but a [expletive]…You better pray for her, those kids went through hell."

@hallieb85 said the woman was a typical "Karen" and a "nutcase" because she ruined the funeral and hit her dad and the funeral director. She noted that she shared the video because her dad's response still makes her laugh five years later.

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The woman yelling at those present at the funeral | Source: TikTok.com/hallieb85

The woman yelling at those present at the funeral | Source: TikTok.com/hallieb85

The TikToker's father told the woman to go away, or he would have to drag her, while @hallieb85 called the woman a "psycho." The woman eventually left after the TikToker's father escorted and pushed her to the door.

Undoubtedly, it took a lot of courage and audacity for the woman to show up at the funeral and cause a scene. Furthermore, it was not only @hallieb85 who found the video a hilarious spectacle, as people online also commented on it.

@hallieb85 also posted a follow-up video to explain the background of the incident. The follow-up video divided the opinions of the TikTokers as it showed there was more to the woman than the tag of a deranged Karen.

The TikToker's father escorts the woman out | Source: TikTok.com/hallieb85

The TikToker's father escorts the woman out | Source: TikTok.com/hallieb85

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What Did the Deceased Woman Reportedly Do to Her Children?

In the follow-up video, @hallieb85 revealed that her great-aunt was forced by the Catholic church to adopt three children. The husband of the woman who showed up at the funeral was among the children the great-aunt adopted.

As per @hallieb85, the great-aunt abused the adopted children because she was strict. The uncle also practiced corporal punishment and punished the kids with belts and paddles.

Because the great-uncle and great-aunt were Catholics, @hallieb85 revealed that they forced the kids to "kneel a lot" too.

The upset woman being pushed out of the funeral | Source: TikTok.com/hallieb85

The upset woman being pushed out of the funeral | Source: TikTok.com/hallieb85

@hallieb85 also said her great-aunt really did not want the children and was unhappy with the arrangement, which may explain why she treated them badly. She added that the kids' biological parents did drugs, so they came from a background of drug abuse.

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The adopted children got into drugs again, and when they turned 18, they left home and never spoke to their adoptive mother again. @hallieb85 wasn't sure, but she believed one of the kids overdosed.

More users supported the family and said the woman should have confronted the great-aunt while she was alive instead of hurting the TikToker's family during the funeral.

She also noted it was their first time laying eyes on the furious woman during her great-aunt's funeral, adding, "But this weirdo showed up when she died to get her last piece, and it didn't work out."

The woman yelling at the TikToker's father | Source: TikTok.com/hallieb85

The woman yelling at the TikToker's father | Source: TikTok.com/hallieb85

@hallieb85 admitted that her family hid a lot about their past because they are Catholics, but things have started coming out to the surface. She added:

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"But there's always two sides to a story…but that's all I know, and if there's more to it, then there's more to it, but I can't ask the dead. Also, there's no point in dragging out history. And as far as my dad and her, if he hadn't shoved her along, she'd probably still be barking inside the funeral home."

The woman shouting at the TikToker's father | Source: TikTok.com/hallieb85

The woman shouting at the TikToker's father | Source: TikTok.com/hallieb85

Many people sided with the family when the first video was posted, but the extra context in the follow-up video sparked divisive comments among online users

The woman in an altercation with the TikToker's father | Source: TikTok.com/hallieb85

The woman in an altercation with the TikToker's father | Source: TikTok.com/hallieb85

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How Did People React to the Revelation about the Deceased Woman?

After @hallieb85 revealed all the details she knew about the backstory of the woman who showed up at the funeral, online users shared conflicted opinions. One person said the woman was right in her actions:

"U just said they did punishment do you know what it's like to be beat I do it screws u up for life."

The woman yelling back at the TikToker's father | Source: TikTok.com/hallieb85

The woman yelling back at the TikToker's father | Source: TikTok.com/hallieb85

Another person said that it was so sad that the TikToker's great-aunt abused her adopted kids while one person was conflicted about who to support. The person noted:

"Her approach wasn't the best, but I know way too many victims that were silenced by their family and it's the people who love them that stand up 4them."

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A social media user's comment on the incident | Source: TikTok.com/hallieb85

A social media user's comment on the incident | Source: TikTok.com/hallieb85

Another user condoled with the TikToker's family and said they handled the issue well. She noted that funerals bring out the worst in people and that corporal punishment was accepted in the past. However, she said people carry the emotional scar of being beaten.

A social media user's comments on the incident | Source: TikTok.com/hallieb85

A social media user's comments on the incident | Source: TikTok.com/hallieb85

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More users supported the family and said the woman should have confronted the great-aunt while she was alive instead of hurting the TikToker's family during the funeral.

A social media user's comment on the incident | Source: TikTok.com/hallieb85

A social media user's comment on the incident | Source: TikTok.com/hallieb85

Online users also bashed @hallieb85 for saying her great-aunt and great-uncle probably did not beat the kids until they were bloody. The person asked, "How do you know not black and blue, do u know what beating is like from a belt?"

A social media user's comment on the incident | Source: TikTok.com/hallieb85

A social media user's comment on the incident | Source: TikTok.com/hallieb85

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@hallieb85 had speculated that the children were probably only emotionally abused. People did not like her statement, and one of them asked, "So u say belt and paddles but then say they were not abused?"

A social media user's comment on the incident | Source: TikTok.com/hallieb85

A social media user's comment on the incident | Source: TikTok.com/hallieb85

@hallieb85 did not respond to the comments but said in her follow-up video that she wasn't going to make any more videos addressing the matter or revealing more details.

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