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Who Are 'Pam & Tommy' Stars Lily James & Sebastian Stan Dating in Real Life? Find Out Here

Laura Beatham
Feb 02, 2022
07:20 A.M.
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Actress Lily James once sparked dating rumors with Hollywood bachelor Chris Evans. The actress has had an exciting dating life filled with talented men. 


Lily James and Sebastian Stan portray Pamela Anderson and Mötley Crüe band member Tommy Lee in Hulu's "Pam & Tommy." Unlike their onscreen personas, James and Stan are not in a romantic relationship in real life. 

However, the accomplished actors have experienced a wonderous personal life filled with relationships with some of Hollywood's leading men and women. 

Sebastian Stan pictured on Instagram in 2021 [Left] Lily James as Pamela Anderson and Stan as Tommy Lee in "Pam & Tommy" | Instagram/iamsebstianstan & YouTube/ONE Media


The "Downton Abbey" actress dated British actor Jack Fox between 2011 to 2012. Later in 2014, she started


her "Pride & Prejudice" and "Zombies" costar Matt Smith. 

In 2017, she shared she was "very happy" with "The Crown" actor. The couple dated for around five years until rumors circled the couple broke up after paparazzi spotted them having an intense conversation at lunch in London.

Matt Smith and Lily James attend the Harper's Bazaar Women of the Year Awards 2015, 2015, London, England. | Photo: Getty Images


After moving on from her long relationship with Smith, James allegedly had a fling with "Captain America" star Chris Evans. The pair were spotted by photographers sharing a taxi from a private club in London. 

James refused to address their relationship status despite the rumors and instead said during an interview with Harper's Bazaar: "Don't be obsessed by boys!" 


Later, in October 2020, paparazzi spotted James kissing "Colette" star Dominic West in Rome. Later West posted that he and his wife, Catherine FitzGerald, were still together, and their marriage was strong. 

James's current boyfriend is Queens of the Stone Age bassist Michael Shuman. The couple was first spotted kissing in February 2021 outside a boutique hotel, and she met his parents later that year. 


The couple has kept their relationship primarily offline. Neither have shared photos online or made a red carpet debut together but have continued to be photographed out in public together. 

In August 2021, James sparked engagement rumors after the paparazzi photographed her shopping with her friends and wearing a gold band on the fourth ring of her left hand. However, a representative of the "Mamma Mia" star told The Daily Mail that the rumors were "100% not true."


James's "Pam & Tommy" costar has also been linked to a few actresses, including "Gossip Girls" actress Leighton Meester. The couple dated from 2008 to 2010 and even enjoyed a couple's retreat with Meester's costars, Jessica Szohr and Ed Westwick. 

Later, Stan had a short relationship with "Glee" star Dianna Agron in 2011, before dating his "Once Upon a Time" costar Jennifer Morrison from 2012 to 2013. He also dated "Revenge" actress Margarita Levieva from 2014 to 2016. 


Stan's last girlfriend was Spanish actress Alejandra Onieva. The pair started dating in 2020, and a year later, Stan confirmed they were still together as he wished her for her 29th birthday with a romantic but funny video

The couple still appeared to be together during November 2021, as Onieva shared a photo of him from a night out together, during which she realized her coat still had the clothing hanger in it.