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Gwen Stefani Reveals Details of 'Terrible' Divorce: She Had to 'Start Over,' Becoming a Single Mom of 3

Milly Wanjiku Ndirangu
Sep 28, 2023
09:15 P.M.

In a candid revelation, music icon Gwen Stefani bares her soul about the "terrible" divorce that shook her world, shedding light on the heartbreak that ensued as her family faced an unexpected unraveling. With unwavering strength, the multi-talented star shares her inspiring journey of starting anew as a single mom of three, offering a glimpse into the resilience that defines her, both on and off The Voice stage.

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Gwen Stefani during "The Voice" Season 22, Live Top 10 Eliminations Episode 2218AB | Source: Getty Images

Gwen Stefani during "The Voice" Season 22, Live Top 10 Eliminations Episode 2218AB | Source: Getty Images

Gwen Stefani, known for her vibrant music career and role as a coach on The Voice, recently shared intimate insights during a conversation with People. In this revealing interview, she disclosed the unexpected twists and turns that life threw at her, lifting the curtain on her tumultuous divorce and offering a poignant narrative of heartbreak, resilience, and the journey to rebuild her life.

Gwen Stefani and Gavin Rossdale photographed on December 17, 1997, in Los Angeles, California | Source: Getty Images

Gwen Stefani and Gavin Rossdale photographed on December 17, 1997, in Los Angeles, California | Source: Getty Images

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She reminisced about her childhood, watching her parents tend to their garden and trees. Back then, she never imagined having a tree at her house. However, her life in recent years has taken a decidedly un-Hollywood turn.

Gwen Stefani and Gavin Rossdale attending the premiere of "The Aviator" at Grauman's Chinese Theater in Hollywood, California, on December 1, 2004 | Source: Getty Images

Gwen Stefani and Gavin Rossdale attending the premiere of "The Aviator" at Grauman's Chinese Theater in Hollywood, California, on December 1, 2004 | Source: Getty Images

Facing Heartbreak and a "Terrible" Divorce

In 2016, Stefani's life was upended by a "terrible" divorce from Gavin Rossdale, a fellow rock star and the father of her three children: Kingston, Zuma, and Apollo. This marked a period of profound heartbreak and adjustment as the truth about Rossdale's infidelity came to light. She revealed, "I had to start over again. It was like a reset."

Gavin Rossdale tied the knot with Gwen Stefani at St. Paul's Cathedral in Covent Garden, London, on September 14, 2002. | Source: Getty Images

Gavin Rossdale tied the knot with Gwen Stefani at St. Paul's Cathedral in Covent Garden, London, on September 14, 2002. | Source: Getty Images

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Rossdale's alleged affair with the family's longtime nanny, Mindy Mann, became a devastating revelation. Stefani was left feeling mortified, livid, and embarrassed. It was a difficult period, one that tested her emotional resilience as she "fell apart."

While Stefani's side of the story is well-documented, Rossdale has largely remained silent about their divorce. However, in a recent interview, Rossdale opened up about the challenges he faced during this period of transition.

Gwen Stefani and Gavin Rossdale, accompanied by their children Kingston, 4, and Zuma, 1, enjoy a visit to the Mad Tea Party attraction at Disneyland on July 7, 2010, in Anaheim, California | Source: Getty Images

Gwen Stefani and Gavin Rossdale, accompanied by their children Kingston, 4, and Zuma, 1, enjoy a visit to the Mad Tea Party attraction at Disneyland on July 7, 2010, in Anaheim, California | Source: Getty Images

"Divorce was completely opposite to what I wanted. Really not…" Rossdale sighed, reflecting on the painful dissolution of their marriage. He emphasized the immense difficulty of divorce, comparing it to the profound pain of loss.

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Gavin Rossdale and Gwen Stefani pictured during the 1997 KROQ Acoustic X-Mas event in Los Angeles, California | Source: Getty Images

Gavin Rossdale and Gwen Stefani pictured during the 1997 KROQ Acoustic X-Mas event in Los Angeles, California | Source: Getty Images

The couple, known for their private relationship, sought to maintain a degree of privacy even during their divorce proceedings, primarily for the sake of their children. "It was shocking for everyone," Stefani admitted.

Kingston Rossdale, Gavin Rossdale, and Gwen Stefani spotted in Los Angeles, California | Source: Getty Images

Kingston Rossdale, Gavin Rossdale, and Gwen Stefani spotted in Los Angeles, California | Source: Getty Images

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Rossdale faced the arduous task of establishing a new home and life for himself and his children. "It was the beginning of hell," Stefani recalled, acknowledging the challenges of that period. She added, "Like six, seven, eight months of torture, trying to figure out this big secret."

Gwen Stefani and Gavin Rossdale at the L.A.M.B. presentation during Mercedes-Benz Fashion Week Spring 2015 on September 5, 2014 | Source: Getty Images

Gwen Stefani and Gavin Rossdale at the L.A.M.B. presentation during Mercedes-Benz Fashion Week Spring 2015 on September 5, 2014 | Source: Getty Images

The Path to Healing and Resilience

Amidst the heartbreak and chaos of her divorce, Stefani embarked on a journey of healing and resilience. She resumed her music career, drawing inspiration from the trials and tribulations of her life. Her makeup line, GXVE, became a source of empowerment for others who had experienced similar upheavals.

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Stefani's life took an unforeseen turn when she crossed paths with country superstar Blake Shelton in 2014 on the set of "The Voice." Their connection was instantaneous and profound, marking the beginning of a love story neither of them anticipated.

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Shelton, a doting stepfather to Stefani's three boys, introduced them to a world beyond Hollywood's glitter and glamour. Despite Stefani's initial reservations about dirt, bugs, and humidity, she found herself embracing the beauty of Oklahoma, where they now share a home.

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Oklahoma, with its serene landscapes and lush surroundings, became a place of solace for Stefani. Despite her initial reservations about rural life, she discovered the beauty of sunflowers, zinnias, and cornfields. Fondly describing herself as a "garden flower nerd," she embraced a life far different from what she had once envisioned.

The tranquil environment rekindled her creative spark, breathing new life into her passion for music and artistic expression. Throughout her twenties and thirties, Stefani had tirelessly juggled her music career, fronting the rock band "No Doubt" and embarking on international tours, all while raising her children.

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